I once had a great sex life with my wife. She is very responsive and multiorgasmic. We would start by kissing, both get turned on, and progress to sensous lovemaking ending with great orgasms for me and numerous multiples for her. These episodes would take 20-30 minutes and were never 'routine'. Repeats would occur ...
After intensely desiring toy play and discussions aimed at fantasies, my wife would never engage. Many years ago we purchased a vibrating dildo which we used several time before she put it away for over a decade. Although I mentioned retrieving it, this never occurred. My focus sexually and fantasies always aimed ... » Read more