What is it about anal?

Let’s be clear about one thing first. Anal is an acquired taste. It need working on carefully, and guys….are you listening….no matter how small your cock is, you simply can just treat a girls bum like a vagina and shove it up there, ok? Patience….lots of,patience…and lots of lube too! More than you might imagine.,

And for me….the recipient? Again let’s be clear….anal hurts, at least it stings at first. But, and here’s the joy of it….anal is dirty…naughty….and that’s why it feel so fucking good! 

Tig has told me in way more graphic detail than I needed about the number of nerve endings around the bum hole. As she put it in her delightfully blunt manner “Sure taking a shit is supposed ter feel niceWhen you’re on all fours, or someone is curled around you from behind, or even good old missionary (it’s perfectly possible to have full penetration anal in the missionary position.) 

The pain element can be part of the pleasure - diverse creatures that we are - but for me at least, 90% of the pleasure is that I’m being fucked where I shouldn’t be….someone is fucking me up the arse….and it feels naughty….dirty….and totally fucking amazing. 

For the guy? Well, here’s  The Lovely Chris’s point of view. 

“The first time I did anal was an accident. She was wet as fuck and so was I. I just…um…slipped. I realised almost immediately that I was pushing into the wrong hole. I stopped immediately of course, (Well  gentleman that he is, he would of course) but the girl told me to carry on slowly. God, but it was tight…to be honest, it hurt me a bit, but eventually, I was inside, and wow…what a different feeling, both physically and psychologically. I was in a girl’s arsehole! Me! It felt tight as fuck, and lube isn’t just necessary for the girl…believe me, us guys need it too. It’s not an area of a girls body that lubricates, well, not very much anyway. When she told me to “Cum up my arse’ it was all too much and I came way sooner than normally I would. So, yeah, both the physical and the psychological aspect of it.”

I love anal. Absolutely adore it…but in moderation. If I did it every time, be it with a cock or a dildo, it would lose it’s magic. I rarely touch my bum when I masturbate anymore, although I did go through a phase where my finger up my bum was a ‘must’. Now it’s mainly when I’m with The Lovely Chris that I do anal, or, on rare occasions Emily might want to fuck me up the arse. 

Oh, wait, I think maybe there’s something about being more submissive about being arse-fucked, and since I am sub during sex, maybe that’s another reason why I love it. 

There was one time when in did anal outdoors, almost fully clothed and leaning forwards grabbing a tree. My panties were round my ankles, and the guy was up my bum. I remember at one point he was almost standing stationary while I ground my bum against his cock which was buried deep in my arse. I suddenly had this image as if I could see us both from the outside and how erotic the thing looked. Being fucked up the arse, panties at half mast, and him up my bum…wow…what an orgasm! Also, when I contract as I cum, the contractions feel so much bigger when someone if up my bum. I can also feel it more when a guy cums up there! 

Hey Ho!