Techniques 2

Fantasies are terribly important. A sexy image to go with a sexy feeling which leads to a satisfying cum. 

But let’s talk about touch.

Vibrators and dildos. 

I have a Lelu vibrator. It’s almost silent, beautifully designed and works anally as well as vaginally. I am worried about stories I’ve heard about desensitisation, and I don’t want my little sex bean made numb, so I use it sparingly and either on a very low setting, or with some kind of material between it and me, UNLESS I’m fucking myself with it. Then I figure it’s safe. 

Dildos, yes, I have a very realistic feeling dildo. It feels exactly like a cock. It’s not 100% rigid, but I suppose it’s damn close. The surface texture is amazing. Friends who I’ve shown it to….well….they’ve asked to see it, but I always make them hold it blindfold first….say it feels like the real thing! Fucking myself with it is pure heaven. I haven’t managed to take it anally yet, but it’s a work in progress. 

And I suppose I must add strap ons to this section. Heather bought one, but it was, I don’t know, cumbersome, and unrealistic. Too many straps, too plasticky, too…..well….just “too”. I bought us a much more expensive one that is strapless and has a similar feel to my dildo. It also is worn by one girl pushing a cock-lick part into her vagina and a small protrusion for her bum. It stands high and proud, and gives a really good fuck! 

Incidentally, I’ve discovered that I am always the recipient when we use it. I’ve tried fucking Heather with it, but we both prefer it the other way round. 

The joy of touch. 

When I touch myself, there are distinct variations depending on mood and fantasy. If I’m feeling gentle, virginal, wistful, I will spend ages lightly stroking my neck and breasts before I get anywhere near my cunny. (Oh fuck….I really don’t like THAT word either. I HATE ‘pussy’, and ‘cunny’ while an authentic Olde English word, isn’t doing it for me anymore. For a while I’m going to revert to vagina until I find something better……wow….where did THAT come from?) By the time my fingers stray into my panties, my whole body is hyper sensitive to touch. Lying there with my legs spread, wearing panties or not, the anticipation can be intoxicating. All it takes is a few gentle, well placed strokes, and an orgasm will wash over me like waves in a beach. 

Which is totally different to when I’m feeling raunchy….dirty…..horny as fuck. Then I touch myself in a far mor vigorous manner. Grabbing and squeezing boobs…..pinching nipples until it hurts, and then, maybe fucking myself with the vibratory or dildo, or having something up my bum at the same time. I love feeling something up my bum hole. So far, it’s on,y been my fingers or my trusty vibratory, but I definitely feel the need for a butt plug. 

The strap on (hmmm….no straps. Another name needed) Heather and I use could well be used for anal fucking. It’s something we haven’t tried …..yet. 

But it’s not just fingers that can touch. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I might raid the veg cooler first. It really adds something for me if I know I’m fucking my self with a carrot. A girl at High School told me that she uses carrots and bananas to fuck herself and at the time, we all thought that was very advanced. Feeling something cold inside me is great…

…..which brings me onto cream/yoghurt. 

Sometimes, I like to pull my panties down a little way and put some cold but thick liquid in the crotch and then pull them up tight against me, I love the squishiness of it, and it makes me feel like I’m leaking semen from having just been fucked. The sensation of it running down my thighs is a great addition for the “Gang bang” fantasy. 

I used some yoghurt last night, but Miss Brain gave me an interesting variation on a theme. I wanted to fantasise about my imaginary brother fucking me, but instead, Miss Brain had me confessing to mum that my brother and I had ‘done it’. Mum asked “Really? Did he cum in you?” And Miss Brain made me pull my panties down and show mum the mess in the crotch. I came, just at the point when mum dropped to her knees and licked my (imaginary) brother’s cum out of me.

I’m having a lot of mum/dad fantasies at the moment….no idea why. 

So, there it is. Some touching techniques. Sorry…should have added them last time.