How The Stories Come to Me

Thanks for your kind words. I'm so honored! As it turns out, mostly, I haven't done anything special to get these stories. In my conversations with my clients it comes out that I'm publishing these stories here and at WankersReward.com, and they almost jump at the opportunity to have their own story told. I don't write them down at the time. Actually, I couple of times, with clients' permission, I recorded the conversations. Otherwise, I just try to remember the details as told to me until I get a chance to make notes afterward. Because some of the early things I wrote on SoloTouch were actually fiction, that "Masturbationist" series, you may believe that I'm a professional masturbatoinist. I'm actually a confidence coach. That's how it is that my clients and I get into these conversations. One of my most common therapies is that I explain the importance of talking about masturbation in building self-confidence, and then appoint exercises. For most people, even talking about masturbation gives them the willies because it has always been so hidden in our society. So, when I can get people to talk about it, then relate their personal stories about it, that's a huge step in their growth in confidence. Now, I should point out that my work isn't always wank-centric. With many clients, masturbation is not the way to go. It would either freak them out too much, or it is just isn't in their field of interest. I may have to get them to talk about coworkers, their hobbies, or family. But by gosh, if I can use masturbation as a tool, it works better than most other therapies. The exercises may simply be having the clients relating experiences to me, but it can also be therapeutic to have those stories published. You see, if one is able to openly talk about masturbation, one of the most secretive things in our society, then that person can talk about just about anything. It is a huge step in building confidence. It is also a step with steps within. For instance, talking in very generic terms about 'self-satisfaction.' Then in another session, actually using the word 'masturbation.' Then in the next session, I tell them one of my masturbatory experiences, then invite them to relate something to me. Not long after that, the whole Solotouch thing comes up, and sure enough, they want their stories told. One place I don't go with most of my clients is getting to the point where we get naked and jerk each other off. That is a huge confidence builder, but I've only done it experimentally with a few clients, ones I could trust. I made it a point not to just pick the attractive clients. It's important to me to be able to do this with someone of any legal age, of either sex, any weight, color, religion, etc. Besides, body dysmorphia is a big lack-of-confidence problem with people who aren't in the best shape. (Actually it can be a huge problem for people in perfect shape, too.) It brings me real joy to help these people feel better about themselves. These mutual wanking sessions have been tremendous fun for both me and the clients, and did help them on their path toward super-self-confidence, but getting it right still worries me. It could backfire quite severely. I make sure to pick clients who are truly ready for it. Although my talk-only sessions bring big, beautiful life changes for perhaps 70% to 80% of my clients, so far, every single of my clients with whom we went on to super-self-confidence, involving wanking together, have had great success. The only thing is I have to make sure they understand the repercussions of introducing open masturbation to their own families, friends and co-workers. There is the possibility of being over-confident, and I feel a responsibility to remind them that much of society isn't entirely ready for this yet. Cheers, - Jst --------------- original message ----------------- Hey,  According to your stories that you have gotten from clients, you and I are both masturbationists.  I still give a full massage to my clients but I know you no longer do that.  From a story of yours that I read, you now give a partial massage and then move straight into masturbating your client. The thing i'm wondering is when do you have time to have your client relate the stories to you that you publish here on solotouch?  My clients tend to get very quiet particularly when I'm doing any manipulation of their genitals.  I don't really mean they are quiet but they are non-communicative.  You have had your clients tell you some great stories and I'd love to hear some stories from mine as well.  How do you make this work?  Also, do you get their permission to publish their stories?  If I ever had a client tell me a story that I thought was worth publishing, i would want to somehow have their permission.  Do you get it in writing? Thanks for your help on this.  I have always looked forward to your stories.  BTW:  I think I have told you this before but I really like the pictures you have posted of your penis and body.  You are a very nice looking guy.