This is more about my ideas on a group that I would love to be part of. It's not really a story, but the rules themselves are somewhat of a turn on to me. This is to stir discussion if others would enjoy the same kind of group, and limiting its members.
"Nudist Group" Rules
1. The main purpose of the group is for people to enjoy being naked with each other in an environment of respect, without ever having to worry about someone mentioning who attends the group to someone outside of the group.
This group is for good natured people who happen to love being naked with others, who also enjoy sex, and don't mind being around people who enjoy straight sex, or bi-sex, if it occurs with willing participants.
Group members need to understand that there is a chance that sex can occur at our events, by willing participants. Even though this might occur, it doesn't have to occur. It is not the exclusive purpose of the group events. The main purpose is to enjoy being around naked people. We are not a Swingers Group. But, on the other hand, we are not just a Nudist group. Again, no member HAS TO participate in sexual things. But, members need to understand that they probably are going to be around it on a regular basis. Do not come if you do not want to be around it. This is not just a nudist group.
If a group member feels that sex is becoming too predominant at the events, we can have a meeting to talk about it. If the consensus of the group is to adjust some rules, we can do so. Or, if the members that want less sex want to start their own group, we can look at that, as well. The other possibility is we designate certain event nights that are are swingers only nights. But, if the consensus of the members like things the way they are, then the displeased member can leave, and start their own Nudist Group.
Any sexual advancements with others will always be approached only in a respectful manner, never pushy, or hateful. Think "respectful".
2. Prospective new members will be those who fit the group rules, who are in reasonable shape (prefer they not be more than 20 lbs overweight), and the existing group members must be comfortable with the new person.
3. What goes on at the group stays in the group, and should never, ever be discussed with non members outside of the group. And, who the people are that attend the group stays in the group and is never mentioned to people outside the group. This is a discreetful group, and anyone who violates that will be gone.
When we think of allowing new members, we will first ask ourselves at least 2 questions:
1. Is this person a gossiper?
2. Do they have any history of anger and revenge. Revengeful people will eventually disclose things we do not want disclosed.
3. Members who invite someone new to the group, and the new person turns into a problem, will be scolded, or at least talked to about the kind of person they invited.
4. The group members make the rules, or adjust the rules, and enforce the rules, when needed. We do it together as a team.
5. People are added to the group only after a trial period. There are 3 phases to becoming a member:
1.) Trial period
2.) Probationary member
3.) Full member.
Trial period will consist of at least 3 trial events that may not involve all members. (Some members may want to remain 100% anonymous and choose not to be around the new prospect.) Once the trial period is over, then the group members will vote whether to allow the new person(s) to become probationary members, or whether to extend them to another trial event, or to refuse them.
A Probationary period for new members will be 6 events at the group. They must attend at least 6 events within a year. Upon successful completion of 6 events, the new member will then be voted on by other group members as a possible permanent group member, or to keep them at a probationary status for another 6 events. If they are approved as a permanent member, they can then come to the group meetings, and vote on group issues.
Visitor passes can be approved by Group Members if the new person lives out of town and will rarely be able to attend the regular events.
A member can be removed by the Group Members vote if at any time the group members become uncomfortable with the person. The majority of the group member's votes will be the determining factor on removal.
6. Upon arrival, Women will dress down to where they wear only a top, no bra, sexy panties (like g-strings or thong), but can wear pants, or a skirt. They can also choose to wear a dress with their sexy panties. They can wear thigh highs if they want to, and of course, shoes/socks, or high heels.
Men wear no more than 2 items: a shirt, (no t-shirt underneath, or wear just a t-shirt as their only shirt), and pants. (Shoes/socks are fine) The idea is that each person has a sexy appearance, with a minimum amount of clothes on, when they arrive.
7. After visiting together for about 30 minutes or so, the group host will announce it's time for all the men to get naked, and for women to wear only sexy panties. Clothes are taken off by someone else, and by whomever the host chooses, never by the group member themselves.
All members will be totally naked after an additional 30 minutes. During that time, again, someone else will take off the ladies panties. The idea is to provide an atmosphere that breaks the ice by being a little bit sexy, as it moves toward total nudity.
8. We prefer all members be either straight, bi, or bi-curious, not exclusively gay or exclusively lesbian, nor cross dressers, or any other sexual mix other than straight or bi. Again, if a person is straight, they must not be uncomfortable with bi-sex.
We prefer no male member come dressed like a female, and no female come dressed like a male. If people insist on cross dressing, they need to start their own group.
9. No one is allowed to be offensive in their language, or make repeated sexual comments, or to be annoying, or hateful. If a member becomes offensive to someone in the group, the offended member can either kindly mention it to the offender or tell the group host, who will then warn the person doing it.
10. Group hosts have the right to remove anyone at the event, for any reason. At the next Group meeting we will discuss what happened that caused the removal of that person, and take action according to the group's wishes.
11. Drugs are not allowed at the events, nor anyone under the influence of drugs.
Drunkenness is never allowed at the event. No drinking before the event. If someone arrives with alcohol on their breath, they will be asked to leave. No one will drink more than 1 standard alcohol drink per hour while at the event. We do not want ANY issues whatsoever caused from drinking, nor do we want liability on the host, or our group, if someone leaves intoxicated.
If need be, a host may require people blow in a portable breathalyzer when its time to leave so the host is ensured of no liability.
The preference for this group would be no drinking at all, but we understand if someone wants the amount listed above.
12. If there is desired sexual activity, you must ask permission before touching someone in a sexual manner. And, NO means NO. Each person will respect that.
13. We do not ask personal questions of each other like full name, where they live, or work.
If someone wants to volunteer a little information about themselves like hobbies, sport interests, that is fine. But, we will try hard to keep the group very discreet so people feel safe.
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