Is it cheating to have fantasies while you fuck your partner?

[mountain]

This question comes mostly to our mind that we cheat our partner when we are fucking?
I believe it is not cheating, it is a type of enhancing our sex lust to fuck my wife better and give her more pleasure. When you think about somebody in who you are interested you
get more lust to fuck your partner. Then who gets more pleasure, your partner or someone who is in your mind?
In this circumstance, you and your partner both get more pleasure.
What are your ideas?

[mash2014]

When I started fucking my now wife, I would fantasize I was fucking some other woman and after getting married I would fantasize I was fucking her closest friend. This woman has always turned me on since the first day I saw her. Just thinking of her turns me on.

[mountain]

That's why I do the same. Thinking about others gives me too much sex power to fuck her harder and harder, so she gets pleasure more as well as I do.
Last night I fuck my wife and I thought about my niece's feet which are so sexy and always I think about her feet. So it took almost 10 minutes to pump her hard and hard to ejaculate in her. She felt great and moaned constantly. She is 70 and me 74 so fucking and pumping for 10 minutes is great.

[oldfan]

No, I think that is quite normal. Just don’t call out the fantasy person’s name as you cum!

[mikeyjo]

I often imagine my wife's mother when we have sex

[don111]

I think of all sorts of thing while fucking her, and sometimes tell her!

[sunnygirl]

Well, if it is, then I'm a big cheater!
I've "cheated" with just about anyone: famous people, friends, family, random people I've encountered on the street.
I certainly get a thrill feeling the physical pleasure whilst imagining somebody else doing it to me, and I like to think that pleasure is noticed by my partner too.

[lonefalcon]

I'm 64 and find it necessary from time to time, not so much to 'cheat' on my partner, but just to maintain an erection. For example, with my wife she can be angry easily and then happy as a bird the next. Can't do much about it. I adapt. But when it comes to sex, its a psychological thing. If I'm still subconsciously fuming at being growled at but don't want to escalate, then that's up to me. But if she suddenly feels amorous, it's hard to get an erection or maintain it. My imagination or memory helps.

[mash2014]

That's the beauty of fantasies. You can think of any person. Many times while I fucked my wife, I fantasized that I was fucking some other woman or even remembered a fuck I had with her before or with some other person. Fantasizing about another person while I fuck my wife is perfectly normal, as is fantasizing while masturbating. You can think of any person.

[iammmd55]

Cheating? Hell no.

But as was said before, don’t cry out fantasygirl’s name when you cum in your gf, fiancé or wife. I’ve had two female friends complain about EX bfs who had done that and it still boggles my mind how either of them could possibly have been thinking of ANYTHING other than these women when fucking them.

I’ve never done it while having sex with a partner, that’s strictly my masturbation funtime thing.

[blackboxer500]

It’s not even remotely cheating. Each of us owns his, her, or their thoughts. We are free to fantasize about other people in any way we want. I could not be with someone who felt I must think of them and them alone, not only because it’s my freedom to fantasize about whom I want, but also because I don’t like to be around such extreme naivety.