Jealousy to arousal - with wife

[sr908]

I (30m) am happily married to a wonderful woman (28) for the past 4 years.

I met my wife when she was 21. Coming from a traditional Middle Eastern background, I used to be insecure and jealous about her having slept with a lot of men. She comes from a western background and grew up much more liberal. I always knew that this was my problem and not hers, and worked on myself to accept that as I love her.

Fast forward a few years and I absolutely love the idea that my wife had slept with a lot of men and it fuels our bedroom talk ie she loves it when I call her a slut etc. Also, I realize this is why she always satisfies so well haha

Our sex life is amazing and I could not be happier! I wish I realized how stupid my insecurities were earlier but it’s never too late. I’m so lucky to have a sexual wife.

[blackboxer500]

Good for you! She is desirable to many men, no doubt, but she is married to you. It’s wonderful that you’ve overcome any jealousy and realized that it is her entire life history that makes her who she is. I have a slight cuckhold fantasy,mwhich is an interesting phenomenon. My wife isn’t interested in have sex with other men but she has my full permission.

[mash2014]

My wife also slept around before I met her. I know two men that slept with her, one of which was a business associate of mine. He used to tell me how he fucked her, until one day I started to put the pieces of the puzzle together and found he had fucked my wife. It was so arousing that it has become a fantasy of mine to see or know she is fucking another man.

[norcalman]

I found out that my wife was sleeping with her former coworker during our eight month separation. I found out through a mutual friend. Initially she denied it but after several conversations and showing her some proof that I had, she admitted it. I was surprised at my own reaction. Instead of being angry I was extremely turn on that she had fucked another guy. She finally started giving me some details and once she saw how it turned me on she gave full details of their love making. She would always say it was just 'different' but also said the thing she enjoyed most during their relationship was the 'great sex'.