Wants More Orgasms!
I just started masturbating, I'm 23, I have a boyfriend, who I would be more sexually satisfied with if he was good at performing oral sex on me. Because he's not.
I went out and bought a vibrator, which when I first attempted to use it, gave me an intense feeling down there. It wasn't an orgasm, but I knew if I "practiced" I would have an orgasm. Well, I did! It was a wonderful experience, I never knew of such a feeling. The problem is, it's all I want to do right now. I want to have orgasms, every time I have sex, I want to have orgasms. I try to use the vibrator to have more orgasms but I think my clitoris gets sore. What can I do to have more orgasms, when I'm alone and with my boyfriend? --Red
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