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Masturbation is Real Sex For Me

Posted by: darlington Age: 31 Posted on: 16 Oct 2014 16 comments
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My introduction to this site. Basic facts about a female who masturbates a lot and sees it as her primary sexual activity
I started consciously masturbating at a younger age and have always enjoyed it. By the time I was 13, I was having earth-shattering orgasms that were so intense that they put me to sleep immediately after they ended. In my adulthood, I've had several relationships, but the only ones that worked out were those where they understood that my sexual relationship with myself came first. Some guys had a problem with it, but others were fine with it. For me, masturbation isn't a substitute for sex with a partner but a real form of sex. If we are to consider a loss of virginity as having sexual experience, then I lost my virginity long before most people would say it happened. I had intercourse for the first time at age 15, but my sexual experience with myself predated it by many years. As I got older and increasingly more talented in self-pleasure, my techniques got better and my orgasms stronger. I've tried all kinds of methods from toys to penetration just to explore possibilities, but nothing beats a simple finger diddling. Just the index and middle fingers of my right hand on the right side of my clit (which I call my "sweet spot") rubbing round and round in circles. It never fails to deliver on an orgasm. Most of the time, I diddle with dry fingers over the hood of my clitoris, maneuvering that loose skin over the sensitive head. Other times, I use arousal fluid from my vagina to lubricate my fingers for a different slip-sliding sensation. When my fingers are wet, I can either diddle over the hood as I conventionally do or with the hood pulled back to reveal the sensitive glans. My standard position is flat on my back with my feet together and knees bent and out to the sides. I call this "diddle position." Sometimes, I take out a make-up mirror I bought especially for masturbation, prop myself up with pillows against my headboard so that I'm reclining with my legs bent and apart, and put the mirror between my thighs to watch the action. I call this "mirror position." It's better than porn for me, because I get to watch a close-up gynecological view of female masturbation while experiencing it myself. From my young teen years up until my late 20's, masturbating once a day was a bare minimum. Twice in one day was actually fairly common. More than twice in one day was an occasional indulgence but not altogether rare. Now that I'm in my early 30's, things have slowed down a bit. In my advanced age, I probably average five masturbation sessions per week, but that number goes way up during the week I ovulate, which makes me very, very horny. I'm not in a relationship these days. For years, I was in a long-distance relationship that ended recently and amiably. I'm happy being single and having lots and lots of sex with myself. Anyway, this is a basic introduction to who I am. I hope to post more so that people get to know me better.