I didn't realize women enjoyed sex like this - until I met my wife!
'Can I see your cock?', 'let me look at your penis', 'strip off and touch your cock for me' are my wife's words for 'I want sex'.
When we make love my wife demands an orgasm. She does this by masturbating herself before I get my cock anywhere near penetration. I don't mind because it is fun and it gets me hot.
Typically, she will lie on our bed, sometimes naked, sometimes with just her top on, and sometimes fully clothed.
I have to undress in front of her and when I'm down to my underpants her hand finds her clit and she starts stroking it. I've usually got a semi-erection by now and she tells me to slowly pull my pants down to my knees then stand straight. She looks at my penis and this makes me get stiff, so that my cock is sticking out in front of me.
Her fingers now move faster over her pussy. If she is clothed her hand is down the front of her skirt or pyjamas but I know what she's doing. As she gets more aroused she gets more demanding. Completely naked, I have to walk around the bedroom. All the time I can feel her eyes on my dick. She tells me what position to stand in. Lately her two favourites are me leaning back against the wall with my hips pushed forward and the other is to stand next to the full length mirror so she gets to see two cocks at once.
She doesn't hide how aroused she is - moaning, fingering herself, licking her fingers and rubbing her clit harder. When she is naked I can see her labia reddening. She keeps her pubic hair to a minimum - even completely smooth sometimes - and she glides her other hand over her vulva. Her small but perfect tits jiggle as she frigs.
This is the stage when she tells me to get closer to her. This is when I am allowed to touch my cock at last. 'Pull your foreskin right down' she impels and I do it. I watch her look at my glans and start to wank myself very slowly. All the time she tells me what view, what angle she needs my cock to be in. By now I am rock hard. I am a living porn mag and I wait for my next instruction - 'squeeze it at the base', 'move to the side I want to see right along the length', 'rub your balls', 'kneel on the bed and lean back so your cock sticks right out' and so it goes on.
Of course, she's closer to orgasm now. 'kneel over my face so your cock is only inches away', 'lie on your back and spread your legs and touch your bum hole', 'stand over me and point your dick downwards'.
If she had a skirt or pyjama bottoms on she takes them off and she rubs her fanny, her clit, and two fingers go in. She likes me to tell her how turned on I am, and to describe her genitals to her. Then she comes, noisily. Often her gaze is fixed on my penis. I'm holding the foreskin as far down as possible, to present the most explicit view to her.
She cools down by getting me to pose some more. It's at this stage she sometimes takes photos of me, doing as she tells me. She likes me to rub pre-cum into my shaft. We look at the photos together, and she either wants to fuck, or for me to 'be her model' for longer.
Sometimes I have to pose and play and wank myself off until I orgasm - she takes photos of this. She has captured some superb cumshots - ones that loop onto my face, or just erupt out of my swollen cock end after I can take no more and my penis seems to twitch itself into orgasm.
Now and then, out of the blue, when we are sitting watching TV or something, she asks me to pull my pants down and wank off until I cum. I never refuse, and she sits quietly and watches me cum, helps me clean myself, then resumes watching TV.
Her other 'demand' is the right to take photos of me in the shower, in the bath or using the toilet - she loves the sight of a semi-erect penis pissing. Again, I let her get on with it. Looking at the photos later is normally a prelude to more great sex.