Cross-dressing has been a turn-on for me for many years. I could go into detail on the why's and how's, but those of you who share in this already know. I travel frequently for my job and this gives me lot's of opportunities for enjoyment.
The arousal process begins as I'm packing my baggage, selecting panties, hosiery, bra's, shoes, panties, blouses, a skirt, bath lotions, and adult magazines to take on the trip. Next is getting dressed for the trip, panties and pantyhose under my male clothes before I leave the house. If I'm lucky, I might be able to show off my stockinged feet to a woman along the way, or purchase some new lingerie at the airport mall.
Once I'm at the hotel, I immediately strip off my male clothes, unpack, and sometimes take a nice warm bath with perfumey lotions to relax me. I'll then put on panties, bra, stockings, either a skirt or pants, and heels. I also keep the drapes open, just in case someone wants to look in!
Now for the fun! I'll look through some magazines to get the blood flowing. If I hear female voices in the hall, I'll grab the ice bucket and head for the ice machine. Their reaction to seeing me in heels and hose, and 'did they see my bra underneath?' excites me, more so if they smile, laugh, or continue to stare at me as I pass. After each 'siting' I'll return to my room for more stimulation to look at the magazines, and stop just short of an orgasm. Then I'll go back out for more. Sometimes I'll go to the snack machine, to the lobby to talk to the female desk clerks, or out to the balcony to see if anyone is looking. When its time for dinner, I'll order room service. If a woman is delivering the meal, I'll put on a spritz of perfume before she enters and change into the skirt if I were wearing pants. I'll leave some lingerie out on the bed so she can see my things. I'll engage in as much small talk as I can by holding the bill after I sign it. Hopefully, she looks at my outfit. Occasionally I've asked them how it looks.
I'm usually so excited that when she leaves, I'm ready to cum. My favorite way is to call a phone sex line. I'll describe my evening and ask the girl to tell me how she wants me to masturbate for her pleasure. If I hear female voices in the hall or next door, I make sure I'm very vocal when I do orgasm.