This may not interest many readers, but I'm in my second marriage. The first one went well for 29 years, then stopped working. I wondered what I would do after that. Well, I found the Solo Touch site and continued to do what I had always done. The lady I married last year had never experienced the wonders of 'solo-sex'. She told me she tried it once or twice, while in college, but didn't get off.
Since we've been together this has changed! For the better!
While we started off slow, we've found that the image of each other getting ourselves off is just so fascinating that we now make that a high point of our lovemaking.
Usually, we'll start out watching a video, then before either one of us knows it, one of us has our hand in our pants. The thing I've told her, is that only SHE knows exactly what she'd like to feel, and it turns me on so much to watch what she does to herself. She starts rubbing her nipples, and that drives me wild! She will ask me if I'd like to jerk myself off while I watch her. (Am I crazy? Of course I'd like to!)
She will play with her pussy while I slowly jerk my cock up and down . . . slowly. When she is ready to make herself cum she'll ask me to shoot my cock on her tits, or she'll just sit back and tell me to cum all over myself.
She has shaved because she thought I'd like that. I do. I also have shaved myself because I only thought it was the right thing to do. I don't regret that at all! It's a lot cooler, and how else could I show her that 'what's good for the goose, etc.
As she gets close to her cum, she tells me to speed-up, to cum with her. I can't tell anyone how much this turns me on. To be watched, anticipated, and actually have someone tell me how much it means to her to see me cum for her is something fantastic! She loves to see the cum fly from my cock as she is in her own world. It's just such a wonderful thing to do together.
If you haven't tried doing this with someone you love, you're missing a special treat! Jacking-off is something personal, BUT when you can share the experience with someone you love, it's so much better!
Men, Ladies: Please try this with your partner. You won't be sorry. It might be weird at first, but you will find that it's a bonus to your lovemaking. It doesn't mean you don't love the other person, it means you've reached a new level in your relationship. Give it a shot! (No pun intended, but it works!)