Wow. This was a lot of fun.
[Well, after having visited this site for at least a couple years, I thought it was time to pony up with a contribution of my own. Special thanks to the new webmaster. It used to be months before there were updates and now they are daily. Keep up the good work.]
This happened last year. I had started seeing someone new and we'd been together a few months (perhaps as long as six, I can't remember exactly).
To be perfectly honest, at first, she was terrible. She was so rough that she actually left a bruise on my penis. Apparently her ex liked it very rough, but I told her to ease up. Please! I didn't want to end up in the hospital like one of more of those strange sexual medical stories.
Well, her technique improved and with a little guidance, became much better. One day out of the blue she suggested something completely different. She took out a black silk scarf and wrapped it around my head, blindfolding me. We were already naked in bed and she began to stroke my penis. It felt wonderful.
However, instead of the usual, she excited me till I was about to orgasm and then stopped. After a little rest, she resumed stroking me and again stopped just short of orgasm.
During this whole time, she wasn't saying anything. Nor could I see her. I was sitting with my legs crossed and my back against the cool stone wall. She was just to my right.
In short, she was in control and deciding everything, how to excite me, how close to get me and when she would let me go. It was incredible. No one had ever done that before. I found it immensely arousing.
For a third time, she began to stroke me again. Moving her hand up and down my shaft, faster and faster. I was getting tremendously excited, wanting to orgasm badly but not knowing if she would let me this time or not.
Well, she did. I came incredibly hard. She later commented that my shaft contracted solid for about two seconds without anything happening. And then I filled the air with spurts of milky fluid. I could tell from her squeals of delight while I was cumming that she was very happy with the results.
I was spent from the effort but it was a great, great experience.
Give it a shot, I highly recommend it.