When Your Significant Other Fucks Around On You

Before I get started, let me state there are no innocent parties involved. I fucked around on two of my three wives. The difference is I caught all three and they never caught me.

My first wife and I started as high school sweethearts. She was 14 and I was 15. Right from the beginning we were having sex as often as possible. As much as four or five times a week. The state we lived in allowed you to drive at 15 and most of our sex took place in my car. She also did a lot of babysitting and we always had sex there.

We got married just as I turned 21 and she was 20. So we had already been fucking for six years. Frankly I wouldn’t have married her is she hadn’t been knocked up. The marriage was probably doomed from the get go. By about the third or fourth year, I was getting plenty of other pussy. By the sixth year, she started going out to clubs with her single girlfriends but didn’t get home until two or three in the morning, long past club closing times. Although I never had proof nor did she ever admit to it, I’m positive she was fucking around. By then I didn’t care. After seven years of marriage we called it quits. I was fucking her very best friend during that last year and although she never knew it for sure, she knew I was doing something.

I got married again and probably eight or ten years went by before I started fucking around. Over the next ten or twelve years I probably banged fifteen different women.

My first clue that she was fucking behind my back was when out of the blue she started lubing up my dick to jerk me off. We had never done that before, nor had it even been discussed. The next new thing she came up with after 22 years of marriage, was tonguing my asshole while jerking me off. I wasn’t complaining but I realized she was getting these new tricks from somewhere. I asked her about it and she said her girlfriends had told her about it. I didn’t believe that.

I can’t remember what happened that convinced me she was cheating, but I confronted her with it and after much discussion she admitted to fucking two different guys. I was willing to forget and continue on but things were never the same and we got divorced.

My third wife was the love of my life. We had an unbelievable sex life. During the four years we were together I never fucked around. But she did very late in the marriage. After admitting it to me she told me that having sex with me had opened  up her eyes to what was possible. She said she still loved me but had to experience what other joys life had to offer with other men. She said she would never get married again. Left unsaid was that she probably planned to fuck as many different guys as possible. Good for her.

Then I met a real hottie. She was decades younger than me but we had a fantastic sex life together. She was bi-sexual and from time to time would hook up with another girl. I didn’t care. I was pretty sure I was the only man in her life but of course, you never know for sure. Some of her girl-girl hookups were quite interesting. She would share them with me by telling me what happened. When we first met she was real big on clubbing with her girlfriends at all the hot L.A. clubs. I never went because I don’t drink and that scene never appealed to me. She used to relate to me how many A-list female celebs were into bi-sexual activities. She had sessions with several big name actresses or celebs, the biggest being Paris Hilton. Miley Cyrus gave my gf her phone number but she never followed up on it. I encouraged her to call but for some reason she never did. By that time she had started to put the whole club thing behind her.

I never cheated on her during the 14 years we were together. I did have sex with one other woman but it was with my gf’s permission. I was approached online by a woman who wanted me to jack off with her. I asked my gf if it was ok and she told me to go for it. The hookup went a bit beyond just jacking off but I didn’t fuck her.

In between the three marriages and the long time gf I had a great many sexual hookups, nearly sixty in all. But they were mostly all flings, although a couple of them went on for as long as six months. But not long enough for any of them to start looking for more guys to fuck.

If your S.O. is fucking around, the signs are always there. You just need to know what to look for.