Wanklover's Sexual Timeline

I was a quiet, shy, introverted boy as a child and was born & grew up in an age when sex wasn't talked about. It was pretty much a taboo subject. By the time I reached puberty my knowledge of sex was zero. I had never been told anything so getting my first erection was a hell of a shock. My father didn't speak to me about sex until I was sixteen by which time I had been masturbating for just over two years. He never mentioned it anyway and by then I had found out what intercourse was and how women fell pregnant so most of what he said was about the importance of using a sheath (condom nowadays) to prevent women getting pregnant and to keep me safe from nasty diseases (Enough to put you off having sex !!). Nothing about how women's bodies functioned in relation to sexual pleasure ! I rarely had girlfriends and nothing sexual happened with the first few that I did have. By the time I got to my 20's I was thinking that I was going to be left on the shelf ! So this is a timeline of my sexual experiences and just how long it took me to discover what I really should have known to start with.

Bar one, all the stories I have written, which have been published on  Solo Touch, are real life experiences in more detail.

Age 13 : Started to masturbate approx 3 - 4 months before my 14th birthday. Had no prior knowledge about erections, masturbation, ejaculation, semen or sperm. Was intrigued by the tiny amount of fluid that popped out of my cock just after my orgasm ended.

Age 14 : Approx 3 - 4 months after my first wank I had my first proper ejaculation when I spurted cum. Quite a shock as up to now all that had come out of my cock at the end of my orgasm's was a raindrop amount of fluid.

Age 16 : Left school. Sum total of my sexual knowledge was that I knew how to masturbate myself, knew what intercourse was and how a woman fell pregnant. Knew absolutely nothing about how a woman's body functioned sexually pleasure wise, nor what her private parts were called. If anyone had said the words vulva, labia, clitoris & orgasm to me they would have got a blank look. I had only just found out during my last term at school what the word's masturbation & ejaculation meant although I had worked out a couple of years earlier what the slang word 'wank' meant

Age 17 : One and only time I managed to masturbate twice on the trot.

Age late teens : Saw my first porn film at the house of another friend of my best friend. In black & white, no sound and Super 8 format.

Age 20 : First time I felt a girl's pussy, lips and vagina. Also first time I fell in love. I was on cloud nine, what a wonderful experience.

Age 22 : Lost my virginity to a lady friend that I knew well but wasn't actually dating !! It wasn't great, didn't last long. In truth she was the wrong girl and in the wrong place. Although she was really nice we weren't in love, just good friends and on the front seat of my car with the seat reclined and down a dark dead end road where there was a danger of being caught wasn't the best place.

Age 24 : The one and only time I wanked in company with another man. This was with my best friend when we were at a guest house. We didn't wank openly though, we were in our own beds under quilts so all we could see of each other was the quilts moving up & down in rhythm with our hand movements.

Age 24 : Experienced oral sex for the first time.

Age 24 : Became aware that women masturbated, had orgasm's and that you had to stimulate something called the clitoris to give them an orgasm. Found out via a couple of newspaper articles that appeared about women & sexual satisfaction, or lack of it !! What they didn't tell you was where the clitoris was and how to stimulate it.

Age 25 : Started dating the girl who I eventually married. She knew nothing about female masturbation and had never heard of the clitoris !! She'd had intercourse but hadn't cum.

Age 29 : Married my girlfriend. On honeymoon finally, and quite by chance, we discovered where her clit was & she had her first orgasm. Not long afterwards she had her first orgasm via oral sex which she loved. No holding us back after that. Like the majority of women she never managed to orgasm through penetration alone so there was an awful lot of fingering and oral stimulation to her clit. Always made sure that I gave her an orgasm after this.

Age 33 - 34. My wife (Age 28 - 29) masturbated for the first time. I masturbated with her. Wonderful experience.

Age 46 : The one and only time that my wife & I masturbated together over the phone while I was away on a business trip. Found it surprisingly erotic.

Age 60 : When I started having problems with ED

Age 65 : Started taking Viagra.

Present day : Joined Solo Touch. The only time I have joined a masturbation website. Also wanked on cam for the first time !!

What I have never done :

I have never masturbated openly with another man, only under bedclothes when my best friend and I shared a room at a B&B (Guest house). Would I do it ? Not when I was younger, probably would now providing we only wank ourselves not each other.

I have never masturbated with another woman other than my wife. Would I ? Yes I would have loved to.

I have never masturbated in a group of people. Would I ? Again not when I was young. Would now if it was a mixed group of men & women.

I have never masturbated outdoors nor in a car. Would I ? Yes if it was somewhere private and I couldn't be seen. I'm not an exhibitionist & there are decency laws in the UK to be observed !

I have never been masturbated by  nor masturbated another man. Would I ? No, I'm not gay nor even bi curious. Done it with a few girls though, loved that.