Twenty Years of Masturbating with Girlfriend/Wife

My wife has always been quite religious, saying her prayers before going to bed and going to church every Sunday. Of course now that we are married sex is with the blessing of divine powers. But it wasn't always like this and we had quite a journey to start with.

We were good friends for a while until one evening all of a sudden - whilst working on a jigsaw puzzle - we started nuzzling and then kissing spontaneously. From then onwards we were an item, there was no way back to being only friends. But soon we faced a bit of a dilemma: how do we resolve my girlfriend's intention not to have sex before married? Plus she made it clear she would never use any hormonal family planning, although not so much for religious reasons but for health concerns.

After a while we came to the conclusion that having a platonic relationship was just unrealistic and some way of relieving our frustration had to be found. So she agreed that we could masturbate each other, with a few conditions: I will try not to get her pregnant but I accepted that there was slight risk and should we get a baby on the way, we would get married. I thought that was quite a reasonable deal.

We gradually explored each other's body and I have lovely memories of our long sessions of discovering each other's intimate spots. It took me a little while to realize that she was turned on by being passive and me taking the initiative. So she would lie down, close her eyes and let me slowly undress her; pulling her skirt off, then her panties, then stroking her legs until gradually she would open them a little bit, then sliding my hand up her thighs and her parting her legs a bit more... until eventually she was all naked, with her legs apart and her bush right in front of me. Then, using my fingers I gently rubbed her clitoris and spread her labia; by now she was so wet my finger was covered in her juices. I was a quick learner and after a few sessions I realized that she wanted me to push one finger inside her while I was rubbing her clitoris. The best part was feeling her orgasm: her vagina went into spasms that felt like it was sucking on my fingers. It was obvious what this was all about. I imagined my cock inside her, ready to squirt and then just as I get near the point of no return, her vagina starts milking it, almost saying, shoot it inside, honey, shoot your load in me.

It was always ladies first, then it was my turn. Initially we were quite shy, so I just laid on my back and she made a ring with her fingers and pulled my foreskin back and forth. She was so gentle to start with, I had to ask her to hold me a bit more firmly. When we first did it I was a bit self conscious about coming but she was really sweet about it: as I started spurting she would make a happy gasping giggle, like she was quite pleased with the result. Then one night I accidentally shot my load over her and she must have sensed my excitement and told me that she was OK with it and offered me that if I wanted to, I could come over her body. So I jizzed over her boobs and her tummy and one day I unloaded on her tights and she said she was quite happy to see me do it. I asked her why and she said she found it intimate and loved the way I looked at her while I was stroking my cock. 

This went on for about a year and then we started doing risky things. On one occasion I confessed I wanted to come on her pussy and I thought she would tell me no way but instead she went very quiet and told me that if I didn't mind the risk, she would let me do it. So I kneeled in front of her and she spread her legs and pulled her pussy lips apart and I shot over her clitoris and watched in amazement as it ran down her labia and pussy hole. She got totally turned on and said she wanted me to push my cock inside her and then from then onwards her plan for us not to make love before married was slowly abandoned.

Soon afterwards she told me that during the upcoming weekend she would be a few days before her period was due so it might be safe and if I was OK with the slight risk I could come inside her and of course I said yes please. I told her I didn't think I would last very long so she told me to do the usual thing, use my fingers and just before she was about to orgasm I could push my cock inside. And that's what I did and just as I slid in she started coming and her vagina started the same spasms as I had already felt on my finger so many times before, starting to milk my cock and I shot all my load inside her. And then we kissed and cuddled and she said she could feel me leaking out of her and whatever happened to us she would consider herself to be my wife, which was really sweet. 

From then onwards we followed a routine of me pulling out and her finishing me off over her body; she developed a great technique so as soon as a pulled out she would grab my cock, slippery and dripping from her pussy juices and stroke me until I spurted out thick ropes of sperm that usually landed over her boobs and tummy; on supercharged days it would fly up to her neck and chin, which made her laugh. Alternatively we would jack and jill off, timing it perfectly so that we would come together. On the safe days we would make love properly and I would come inside her. 

We did this for a year or two and she did not get pregnant and then gradually we just gave up our caution; I had a feeling she was secretly turned on by the idea of "accidentally" getting pregnant, although the official line was that we were trying not to. But sometimes she wrapped her legs around my bum as I was approaching orgasm and she whispered "come, baby, come" into my ears and I had no doubt that she had no fear of getting knocked up. And we did this a few times and nothing happened and then we did it again and again... and then something happened and she found herself pregnant. 

So I kept my word and we did get married and had children and now many years later we we are still happy together and I have a great wife, so everything worked out well for us.