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The search begins - Part I

Posted by: SoloTouchArchive Author: Sol Posted on: 06 Dec 2004 1 comments
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This is an attempt to journal my expereinces as I look for potential masturbation partners.This is my first shot at this and I thought some of you might be interested in following my story. Since I've not had any masturbation experiences outside of relationships, and I am very interested in not only having something to contribute to Whispering Lily other than in the Forum, I am attempting an ad on a major adult personals site. This first post is the actual ad. I appreciate any and all feedback -- maybe someone can help me refine it so that I might attract the right folks! So, without further adieu:First, the basics: I am very happily married to a very sexy bisexual woman. We have an open relationship, which includes our sex life sometimes being shared with other people. Our marriage is about love, trust and sharing. We don't believe in monogamy, but we also aren't into "swinging" as it's generally thought of. We are, right now, hoping to find a person (or persons) who is interested in a real, long-term friendship that includes being a sexual partner to both of us. But that's another story (and ad). If you might be interested in this, let me know and we'll get the ball rolling in that direction.Now to get to the point: She works 40-50 hours a week in the usual 8 to 5 Mon thru Fri grind. I manage a restaurant and therefore my hours are long and varied. We can go days without seeing each other which puts a bit of a damper on our sex lives. We're good at making up for it when we can, though!In the meantime, we both enjoy masturbation when we can't be together, and very often when we are together! I am a real fan of masturbation, especially with a partner or two. I enjoy masturbating to porn or reading about other people's sexual experiences in books or on a couple web sites I frequent. I am fascinated by other people's masturbation experiences, love to watch people pleasure themselves, and would really like to be able to share this part of myself with someone else who has the same interest. I'm not into any sort of fetish, like leather, BDSM, feet, etc. Nothing wrong with those, they just don't hold any interest to me. I like sex to be fairly natural and straight-forward, though I do enjoy experimenting.I'm looking for someone who would be interested in getting together a few times a month, schedules permitting, so if you work odd hours this might be something you'd find interesting. Intercourse is not an option; I am only interested in sharing foreplay-type fun with someone, the boundaries to be agreed upon ahead of time. I am open to mutual masturbation and some oral sex. The perfect situation would be with someone who, like me, enjoys long self and mutual pleasure sessions, from hot and raunchy to sensual and tender. A no-touch policy is fine but necessary.This is not a beauty contest, so don't feel you need to be gorgeous to reply. A little extra weight is fine, as well as a little too thin, so long as you're healthy. Tall or short, no matter. I do like breasts, but that's not important at all. I think beauty comes in all skin colors, races and ethnicities. Your sexual preference also doesn't matter to me as I feel that it shouldn't impede on casual sex play; we're just enjoying getting off together. You just need to be in good health, clean and well-groomed, as well as being open-minded, fun and caring. Your relationship status doesn't matter; discretion is extremely important to me and should be to you. This isn't about falling in love, just having some fun.Very important: you must be near the Kalamazoo area, within a 15-20 minute drive. I'm not really interested in having to drive far, would take up too much time. If you aren't close enough, I wouldn't mind corresponding but probably won't be able to take it to real encounters.