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The Beat Goes On

Posted by: Age: 69 Posted on: 12 May 2018 5 comments
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Celebrating shared masturbation in a marital relationship

Yesterday, my wife and I enjoyed another of our regular shared masturbation sessions and they always bring me such an incredible mixture of joy and liberation. Although I was "lucky" so many years ago to have found a woman who also embraced self-pleasure, luck had nothing to do with our mutual acceptance of masturbation. We both took the initiative to "come out" to one another and confess that as much as we enjoyed couples sex (intercourse, oral), we still wanted the chance to love ourselves in solo fashion, too. And it was that initial sense of courage and honesty that helped make our relationship as fulfilling as it is. Once we admitted that we also enjoyed loving ourselves there was no need or reason to try to hide it. We both enjoyed viewing adult material and I never had to hide my magazines. I never had to sneak off to the basement, the bathroom or the garage to masturbate. We gave one another the time and space to pursue our solo activities and we took great joy in coming together. To be able to pleasure yourself while you watch your partner do the same, to be able to display for one another, to be able to think and say that yes,"this is good," that's a feeling like nothing else in the world. From my personal experiences talking to individuals and couples, it appears that those of us who can be open and sharing about masturbation are in a small minority. I wish it were otherwise. Masturbation is such a beautiful act, there's just no reason to deny doing it or to try to deny or discourage a partner from doing it. Rather than "taking away" anything from a relationship, it brings a lot TO it.