Sexual Exploration with Toys

Sexual Exploration with Toys by Alexander Below is a e-mail that I sent to a sex forum regarding a sexual exploration toy that I recently started using. This is not a advertisement of any sort, just a detailed description of one of my sexual escapades that I was trying to describe . Anyways, here you go: I've had the Aneros for about a year and tonight I finally got the beginnings of the Super O. In previous sessions, I'd been able to reach the involuntary contractions, but it's always been difficult to maintain them. But tonight it was easier and much more pleasurable, I think for two reasons. First, I've experimented with many lubes. The ones with glycerin always gave me the "urge to purge" if I tried to insert any beforehand using a dropper. The silicon based ones didn't do that, but they were always a bit thin for my taste. This evening, I tried Maximus for the first time (pretty thick, easy to insert with a dropper and didn't have the laxative effect). I was very generous with the lube (about 3mL, plus generous coating on the aneros), probably more than I had ever used before. This really helped with the involuntaries. Second, I gave myself a LOT of time. In the past, I would have set aside an hour or 90 minutes max. Tonight, I gave myself 2 hours (but I ended up going longer ;). One thing I should say right now is that in the past, I had never felt the Aneros actually press against my prostate unless I REALLY contracted (like testicals retracting kind of contraction). Even then, it was just a mild sensation. But after about an hour and a half of regular contractions and watching some porn, I started to feel it more and more with the 25% contractions (thought at first it was my bladder filling up, but the feeling would go away if I "let go"). Heartened, I kept going, well past my usual "what the hell, I'll just have a fantastic orgasm and go to sleep" point. What happened next is hard to explain. Initially, I'd been on my back with hips raised and things were feeling good, but then I decided to lie on my side, the way the instructions say (one leg tucked up, one stretched out). The sensation on my prostate changed a little bit and gradually, the feeling like needing to pee turned into that feeling you get signalling the onset of a traditional orgasm. But my penis was completely flacid and I could control the intensity of the feeling. Then, I realized that if I kept it up, I might finally have the hands-free orgasm. I think that realization fueled my excitement and arousal. My heart began to pound and my body started to shake, but again, I could control it by relaxing or contracting. At this point, my anus was exhausted and I had a hard time keeping the contractions going for any length of time. But it built and built and then, pop, the Aneros flew out of my anus. Fuck! I guess my back door finally gave out. I re-inserted and tried again, got close to where I was before, but my body was saying enough was enough, so I just "settled" for one of the longest and most intense orgasms I've ever had. So, after a year of experimentation and lurking on this forum, it finally happened and I just HAD to share. ;-) Hopefully, next time, I can get to the same place quicker and/or get better anal endurance. Thanks for all the helpful tips and encouragement, chaps. And for those of you still trying, keep it up! It is SOOO worth it.