My wife has always had a higher libido than me and so over the years I’ve tried to find ways to be ‘in the mood’ as often as possible when she is. Because I know that Dawn loves to make me come, I try not to have an orgasm when she’s not there because if I do, it takes me some time before I’m ready for another one. Especially as I get older and find myself less preoccupied by sex, if I’m alone then I compromise and keep myself warmed-up by masturbating but not letting myself come. I don’t find it much of a sacrifice! I get the sensual enjoyment of being aroused and can spend time with my fantasies. I find that bringing myself to the edge of orgasm and keeping myself there is almost as satisfying as the real thing. It lasts longer as well! I still get the orgasm in the end of course, once Dawn gets her hands (or tongue, or sex, or whatever) on me.
One thing that Dawn certainly is very good at is giving me a hand job. If she doesn’t feel like sex, or if she starts to get sore, she’s always more than happy to rub me off. Usually I simply lie on my back while she lies next to me and strokes me with her left hand. She’s become an expert in getting me close and then easing off so that I don’t come too quickly but when I do, she loves to watch and feel me ejaculate and thanks to her skill, there’s usually a lot. Now & then I get her to sit on my thighs facing me so that I can see her body while she rubs me – a wonderful sight. Sometimes for a change we’ll start by lying on our sides facing each other and she’ll reach down and gently stroke the head of my cock; the different angle and pressure makes a delightful change and on one memorable occasion she carried on until I ejaculated into her cupped hands.
Regrettably, I discovered early on in our relationship that my natural clumsiness makes it difficult for me to bring Dawn off by hand in bed. I’m not just making feeble male excuses; I really don’t have the dexterity. I have tried using my tongue on her on many occasions but because her clitoris is always concealed in its hood, it usually isn’t enough to bring her off. She does find it pleasantly relaxing though and sometimes dozes off while I’m licking her! Dawn does enjoy me using a cotton bud on her vulva and I do enjoy licking her when she’s wet after an orgasm. Even though she’s had two children, her vagina is still as tight as ever and never fails to make me come when we do have sex. The pleasure of being inside her is so intense, especially on those occasions when we don’t have to use a condom, that I come all too quickly. Partly because of that, our lovemaking sessions usually start with Dawn masturbating herself to orgasm so that she’s guaranteed at least one.
The only time I do seem able to give Dawn an orgasm with my fingers is when she’s stood up, usually in the kitchen. I’ll come up behind her and start kissing and nuzzling her neck, which she says always makes her go weak at the knees. I then let my hands drift around onto her breasts, freeing them from her bra if we’re not likely to be interrupted. After a few minutes’ gentle kneading and nipple play I slip my hand down into the waistband of whatever she’s wearing, until finally my fingers find the top of her slit. By now she’s always very puffy and sensitive and so as soon as my finger slides over her clitoris she jumps, then sighs as I start to rub as gently as I can. I assume that the position we’re in gives a more natural angle to my hand and so the stimulation is closer to what she achieves herself. It’s usually only a few minutes until she gasps as her stomach muscles clench and her legs buckle and I have to support her while her orgasm takes over.
I also discovered early on that Dawn loves to have her very pretty nipples sucked and on several occasions I have been able to give her an orgasm just by doing that. Her left nipple is particularly sensitive for some reason – not that I’m complaining! The first time it happened, we were on the settee watching television; I was fondling Dawn’s naked breasts and I then knelt down so that I could suck on them, starting with her right nipple because I was on that side. After a few minutes I switched sides and after a few minutes more, Dawn sighed and sank lower in her seat as an unexpected orgasm rippled through her. When I asked her about it afterwards, she said it wasn’t as intense as her usual climaxes but seemed to spread more widely throughout her body.
If we share a bath together, or sometimes as a change when we’re in bed, Dawn will sit between my legs and lean back against me so that I can play with her breasts and nipples while she masturbates. She gets to enjoy having all her main erogenous zones stimulated, while I get the pleasure of feeling her writhing in my arms when she reaches her orgasm. That has a lovely effect on my cock, which will be trapped between us.
I think that we’ve tried most of the usual sexual variations and positions over the years, with the exception of anal sex. Although Dawn loves me to play with her buttocks (often I do that to help her get to sleep at night,) and does like me to stroke around and just inside the rim of her anus with an oiled fingertip, generally she finds it too uncomfortable if I go any deeper. While I have the usual male instinct to penetrate, I try not to make Dawn feel pressured into doing anything she doesn’t truly want to do.
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