Learning New Things After 49 Years of Stroking

I was a rather late guy to the masturbation party. I didn’t discover these joys until the age of 16. Go ahead. . . Feel free to laugh but none of my 3 older brothers nor my father clued me in to the wonderful pleasures my penis could afford me. I had to stumble onto this revelation in the shower one day in my 16th year. ( I wrote about my discovery if you want to look it up. ) As you know if you have read my profile, I am a masturbationist in the upstate of South Carolina so I know a lot about masturbation and how to help a guy feel absolutely fantastic as I help him reach a state of absolute bliss. One of my longtime clients and friend sent me an email flyer earlier this week about 2 Zoom-based online group edging sessions that were open to guys around the world taking place on Wednesday evening and Thursday afternoon.  This client is an absolute master at long, multi-orgasmic but non-ejaculatory edging sessions. I knew that he had joined some earlier group sessions and we had talked about the pros and cons of these guided edging sessions but I decided to join the group yesterday.  If you know anything about Zoom when you join a session you can choose to turn your cam on so everyone in attendance can see you or you can leave your cam off but still see everyone else. Since this was my first time joining the group I decided to leave my cam off as did a couple other guys but everyone else had their cams on so I could see almost everyone including my client who had invited me.  It was great being able to watch all these guys enjoying jerking themselves off for their own pleasure and the pleasure of all the rest of us joining in their edging session. While we were all enjoying our cocks and the visual stimulation of watching the other participants, 2 instructors were helping us learn how to hold our cum and stay as close as possible to an orgasmic state for as long as we desire. The idea is to stay on the edge for the full hour of this session and then either maintain our ejaculate or mutually cum at nearly the same time as the other guys who wanted to cum.  One technique that was taught was to change the way we were stimulating our cocks rather than starting and stopping over and over. This necessitated the leaders demonstrating lots of different ways to stimulating our cocks.  Now remember, I’m a masturbationist. Surely I didn’t need to pay much attention to the different strokes that can be used but since I’m a firm believer in lifelong learning I went ahead and watched their demonstrations. I was familiar with all the techniques until I heard one of the facilitators say, “This next one is called Wringing th Towel.”  My brain said, “hmmm.”  “I’ve never heard of that.”   This was at about the 35 minute point in the hour long session and I was hard as a rock. Harder than I have been in years because this cam session was so stimulating since I could watch all these guys jerking together and because I had been practicing cum retention for the last week or so.  The technique involves using both hands on your cock, pretending that the cock is our towel and then twisting our hands in opposite directions as If wringing all the water out of our towel. Then you twist your hands in the opposite direction as if wringing the towel. You wring it in each direction until you feel a slightly lower strength orgasm and teetering on the edge of ejaculation.  I had never heard of this technique and when I did it it was honestly as if my cock was saying, “Whoa!!  I have never felt that before.”  The intensity was so strong and so immeadiate that I FLEW off the top of the mountain and had the most unexpected and amazing cums of my life. Wow!! Even though I had cum long before the end of the hour, I stayed connected and watched my other brothers of pleasure continue edging and trying to learn new things I could use for myself and my clients. Each guy had different things he was doing to give himself pleasure and I spent the rest of the time enjoying being with guys from around the world as they continued to edge.  Because of Covid I had not been able to get together with any of my clients. However, since my client who had sent me information about this session was on my screen, it was as if we were together again. Watching him masturbate himself gave me more clues about things he enjoys during a solo session. I will be able to use these insights when we are finally able to get together again.  At about the five minute point before the end of the hour, the instructors said we could unmute our microphones so we could hear each other as we orgasmed. Even though I had already cum, it was great to listen as one after the other had fantastic orgasms. It was so hot to watch as these guys I had been watching hold off ejaculation for nearly an hour let their cum fly from their cocks. The strength of some of the explosions was incredible. The distance that some of the oldest guys cum reached was nearly unbelievable. Another thing I learned was that the guys with the strongest PC muscles ejaculated the most cum over the farthest distance and their orgasms lasted for the longest periods. It gave me encouragement to do PC exercises to regain the muscles strength I had in my youth. How can you gauge your current PC’s strength?  Try to make your dick dance up and down by tensing and relaxing your PC muscles. The higher and more energenic your dance, the better your current PC strength.  Next time they have one of these edging sessions I just might open my cam so I can be even more of a participant. If you are interested in learning who put on the event, send me a private message and I’ll be glad to share it with you. It was great fun and a learning experience for an old lifelong learner.