How To Get a Guy Every Time

I've read some of your stories on SoloTouch, and I know the situation so well: A happily married man matures along with his wife. She comes through menopause changed: She no longer enjoys sex. Can't even stand it, in fact. I'm guessing it is sort of like a guy feels just after ejaculation, but continuous and forever. This happenes in thousands or maybe millions of marriages. So what's a guy to do? Maybe it is time to express his bisexual side. That's what I've done, and it has worked out very well. At first, it was a sort of wishing, dreaming, hoping thing. Oh, I really fantasized about jerking off with a man. But for a while, I didn't know what to do. Oh, I had a couple of encounters arranged through email, but then, when I learned the technique I'm about to tell you, the floodgates opened. My version of a good time is I wank him, he wanks me. I know other guys like other things. Many absolutely love blow jobs. Others get all anal, and so on. But in my experience, the most common version is guys jerking off together while watching porn. Perhaps side by side, doing themselves - and that can be fine. Or doing each other, sometimes with blowjobs involved. I think typical guys are generally more comfortable with this version, because they think it's not 'gay' and there's still a stigma on that in their minds. I think that's true with me. For instance, I can't stand the idea of kissing with a guy. I know there's no logical reason, but still, it turns me off. Same with anal intercourse. Oh, I love fingers and objects in my butt, and enjoy putting things, especially fingers into other guys' butts, but not actual anal intercourse. Among other things, I wonder if a rubber can really be trusted to keep a guy safe from STDs. So here's what I do when I want to play with a guy, and this has worked from guys as young as 18, and as old as the hills. BTW, the older guys are much more fun. They are less inhibited. I have been with guys over 80 who still get it up just fine, and can cum like a teenager. The one universal thing, though, is it takes them longer to get to ejaculation, often with a long period before they harden up. No problem. I like the sessions to last. Some guys will drop a Viagra or Cialis before a session, and that seems to not only make them harder, but hornier, too. I, personally, am scared of any sort of chemically things, so I don't do that stuff. Fortunately, I don't need to. Whereas it can take me a while to get hard, especially with a new guy, it does finally happen. Sorry, I got off topic. So, here's the thing: I start by talking about bisexuality. I pass along my theory that everyone is bisexual to some degree. It is a scale. Some are only a bit bi - they may not even consciously know it. Some call themselves gay, but may have a tiny bit of interest in women, again perhaps so slight that they don't recognize it. So far, every man has concurred with my 'bisexual scale.' Then I admit that I'm probably around 40% - meaning I'm hetro, but with a strong homo leaning. I just come right out and admit that. And so far, no guy has balked. In fact, at that point, they almost always admit their self-rated position on the scale. Some say "ten." Most seem to say "thirty" or around there. As long as they say ten or more, I start talking about the situation with my wife. Almost every time, if the guy is over 50, they admit that they are suffering from the same thing, although I've met a couple of guys who say they are still having a sexually great time with their wives. I used to dismiss those guys, but I have found they like to play also, and in one case, I ended up getting invited to play with the man and his wife. That was great, but I'll save that story for another time. Suffice it to say, she was delighted to have me come over, and even though she had a hysterectomy, she really, really wanted me to fist her. In front of her husband, she told me that he's too gentle. She can't convince him to treat her a bit rougher sexually. I, too, was reluctant, but did my best to get my fist in her. It didn't fit, and even though she wanted me to keep going, I decided it was better to try again another time. We did play one more time, and it still didn't fit. That first time, he wanted anal intercourse. He wanted me to fuck him in the ass, but that's just not my style. I just wanked him, and he quickly came all over the place. The first time, he then left the room, telling me and his wife to continue playing. We did! I rubbed her to several, almost continuous orgasms, and then she gave me a great gentle testicle massage with my hard penis waving around unattended. Suddenly I came, with just my balls being touched. That's the first time that ever happened. The second time I visited them, they were both shaved totally smooth, which I loved. He wanted anal again, and again I politely declined. I did stick her dildo in his butt, which seemed to totally satisfy him, and again he left ejaculated and left early, while she and I continued to play. There was no third time. They had moved out of town. I was disappointed! Anyway, so I talk about the situation with my wife, and the other guy that you could say I'm hitting on, he'll tell me that he is suffering from the same problem. I admit that I masturbate a lot. Of course, he, being a modern man, is OK with admitting the same thing. Then I tell him I've gotten together with other men 'once or twice' to have a couple beers, maybe toke something, watch porn, and jerk off. I don't specify whether that means jerking ourselves off side by side, or doing each other. I leave that to his imagination. He will naturally inquire about it - the details, in which I usually talk about the side-to-side variation. Around then, I offer to set up a time with him. Bingo!