How Can You Teach a Person This?

 There are many couples that have had to struggle with the same sexual issues as my wife and I did such as...Why are you doing that...Sneaking to pleasure yourself in a hurry...Why do you need to do that so often...All you have to do is ask me...and the best of all...Aren't I good enough for you and am I not able to satisfy you, which leaves you feeling bad and despite what, or how you try and explain it you still feel like a ass . Of course I'm speaking about men and their need to masturbate much more often then women and how our wifes, or girlfriends feel about us doing so.  I would have loved to just take my time pleasuring myself when masturbating, but "NO" I have to hide in the bathroom...in the basement...in the garage, or any place I'm able to be alone for just a few minutes to hurry up and jack off. God forbid if I should take too long, because then she will know I'm up to doing something she doesn't approve of and interrupt in my already hurried up few moments of pleasure. It isn't that my wife is not good in bed, because she is ...it isn't that my wife doesn't give me great hand jobs, because she does...it isn't that my wife won't give me a blow job, because she is great at sucking me to completion and she actually enjoys it.   The part I don't like is having to hurry up and literally just jack myself off as fast as possible and yes I do cum, but how great of feeling do our ladies think it is to stroke on a hard or semi hard cock as fast as possible and worrying if she'll catch you, or not. I enjoy being able to masturbate and look forward to when my wife is not at home for a few hours, which allows me to get naked and enjoy playing with my cock and balls like they should be. I take my time gently stroking my stiff cock and watching pre-cum ooze out and all over the head, which I lick from my finger tip and it tastes so sweet.   I like to use vaseline to coat my cock and all rub over my balls with a dab to cover each of my hard nipples that I enjoy playing with, while  feeling how sexy my hand glides along my cock. It feels amazing being able to take my time pleasuring myself and not have to rush like before to jack off and make myself cum. Even when my wife gives me a hand job she always trys to hurry it along and make me cum, so she doesn't have to spend too long and make her arms tired. She does great, but when I have the time to spend masturbating I make myself feel so much better, because I know just where and how to stroke my cock...play with my balls...tweak my nipples and enjoy pleasuring myself.    Every once in a while I'm so horny that all I need is a quick jack off session, but most of the time I prefer to make myself last for as long as possible when masturbating. I really enjoy how good my cock feels when I stroke it and like to watch it glide through my hand, while I massage my balls and every so often squeeze my nipples. I continue to pleasure myself and love stroking my cock, until I can't help but cum and see how it squirts again and again landing on my stomach and legs.  This kind of masturbation leaves me feeling fantastic and much better then any hand job my wife could give me., but don't tell her that....PLEASE !!!  Men in general require more sex on a much more frequent basis then most women, but not all. That is how most men were made and it is designed for us to populate our species, so if a man needs to masturbate don't blame him, but instead watch and enjoy him satisfy himself.