Guys Who Can't Get Off

I know someone who can’t seem to get her guy off by jacking him. He cums no problem when they fuck, or when she sucks his dick, but he just can’t make it when she jacks him off.  Sarah said “it’s something psychological, I think.” It made me wonder what that might be, so during a keeping in touch phone call with my brother I asked him what he thought.  Heres what he said  “When I was starting to go out with girls, I was real scared about a girl touching my dick...I mean....don’t get me wrong, I wanted her to, but once she got going, it was kinda scary not being in control. In fact, my first gf got pissed with me that she couldn’t make me cum like that. What I needed was some diversion, something else to think about at the time so I wasn’t so wound up about having my dick in someone else’s control. In the end, she slipped her panties off and told me to smell them. I got so lost in that that I shot my load easily. I can cum now when a girl jacks me, but if there’s some extra stimulation, visual, or like I said, a nice damp pair of panties so much the better.” I remember the first time a guy touched me. It was rough, nothing like the gentleness of my own masturbation at all, honestly, it was too rough, and it could hurt. It took me a while to learn to cum with a guy touching me.  The guy I’m seeing at the moment, as I told you, is married, and we have only just started getting real physical. We have fucked, yes, but only once. Since then, he has been reluctant to go the whole way, (guilt, I think) and we have been doing other things. I asked him outright about smelling my panties.  It led to a great masturbation session, during which he seemed to cum more and for longer. So, I asked him what was so neat about it.  “Well, first, it’s kinda naughty, isn’t it....you know...so smells girl’s panties. And then there’s the smell itself. There’s nothing on earth like the scent of a pussy....light....heavenly....musky....and sometimes, there’s a light smell of pee too. Hey, don’t get me wrong, that’s horny as all hell. It’s not dirty in any way...in fact, it just adds to it.” So, I told him I’d like to watch him get off using my panties.  I haven’t dont anything remotely like this since I was a teenager. He sat back in a chair in my bedroom, and I slipped my panties off. I wanted him to have something warm and still damp. They dry off so quick in the hamper. He seems to tease himself at first, just looking at them, holding them before finally allowing himself a gentle inhale. Instantly, his already erect dick seemed to grow a little. As I watched he started to masturbate, every so often smelling, then sucking air into his mouth through the panties. Pre cum formed very quickly and I knew he wouldn’t be long. He looked at me and said one word “Where?” I said “into the crotch. Right where my cunt has been” with a huge deep sigh, he emptied his load onto the wetness I had left in there.  I remembered a movie I’d seen where a girl was wearing her panties while a guy came in the crotch. She was standing, and holding the waistband out. Some of his load hit her pussy lips, but most ended up in the crotch of the panties. I took them off him, and put them back on, you know, I actually felt light headed as the wet crotch kissed my pussy. Having his scent on me was fantastic.  I flopped back on my bed and said “now, watch me.” I got my trusty glass dildo from my top drawer and fucked myself to a really deep orgasm. Yes, I’m sure (I hope) I pushed some of his cream in me.  We lay in each other’s arms afterwards. (We cuddle a lot, both clothed and naked.....something his wife won’t do along with fucking him....it seems there’s much she won’t do.) We just enjoyed ewchmothers warmth for a long time.  Then he said “I really do like it, you know. The scent...of your pee.” Instantly, I knew what I wanted to offer him, but before I could he said “At first, we did so many things....fucking everywhere and anywhere at any time. Quickies...even once in an elevator and yeah, we knew there was a camera. She did everything....once. Oral....once....anal...once, outdoors, once....then sex became once a week in bed, lights off, then once a month, then...well.....not at all. It’s not that we don’t get on, we do, it’s just that sex isn’t on her radar any more...it hasn’t been since we married really. It makes me feel,like,once the ring was on, her legs closed. It wasn’t like that, but that’s how it feels.  Three nights later, we were again in my home, making out. We hadn’t even gotten to the bedroom. Instead, we were on the lounge floor on the rug. I was almost cumming in my panties with what he was doing to me, but I had a plan. I stopped him and stood up. I took his hand and led him to the downstairs bathroom. There, I asked him to kneel in front of me. I sat on the can, legs spread wide, and slowly and deliberately wet my panties for him. He buried his head between my legs and I could feel him jerking off madly. I also felt him kissing my panties, even as I waS peeing in them which was incredibly horny!  Then, he stood up and came on my face, my chest and my clothes. I fucking LOVED that. (Not so much the face,) but the idea that a guy just couldn’t wait to cum that he shot his load on my blouse.....fucking HELL that was horny! And something I want again!  He apologised, bless him, saying e just couldn’t hold,it and it was something his wife had done, you guessed it, once.  After he left, I didn’t bother cleaning up, well, only to take my soaking wet panties off. I cleaned the place up with his sperm still drying into my blouse. But all the while I wondered about his wife. He is a skilled lover, there no reason I can see why she would have gone off sex with him. Maybe she is just bored....maybe she’s bi, and has told him. Maybe she is, actually, fully lesbian and just did it for the, well, for what? Fucked if I know!  I do know this though. He and I have no long term future together. He doesn’t want that and has said as much, and neither do I. He just happened along at a time I needed “seeing to” as they say in Cambridge. I just wanted a dick in me, he just wanted a willing cunt. What’s so wrong about getting the two together?  I think though that I feel ready for some eroticism with someone else of the same gender. Two girls together, once they get to know each other, can be far less inhibited than a guy/girl setup. Trust me on this. Two girls can do things with and to each other that few guys would accept. We can be dirtier, for longer, and way, WAY more often.  To end the evening, I put on my 3/4 length dress. It’s a mixture of browns, and made for the fall. The dress was all I had on. Not a stitch underneath. I attract female attention in this dress for some reason. (Ok, and I went to a known gay bar, which helped.) I wasn’t looking to,pick anyone up. One night stands  are easy enough, but I want something a little mor long term. My lover from the hospital knows I bat for both teams, and like most men, loves the idea of me being with another woman, (“I’d love to taste another cunt on your lips.”  So, watch this space.....I’m looking for a girl, 18 upwards, who wants to experiment with g/g. I rather fancy being a teacher.