Girls Just Want to Get Off

A recent story I wrote made me start thinking about women’s orgasms. I know that women’s attitudes about sex have changed dramatically over the years.

When I first started having sex with girls, or women, it was many, many years ago. I’ll be honest, I didn’t know jack shit about women back then and I think I just assumed that they somehow got off just like I did. But since I really didn’t give it a lot of thought, I never really knew. Back then female sex partners didn’t ever discuss their orgasms, or lack thereof, with me, or any other guy that I knew. At least it was never a topic of conversation.

But over the years I began to realize that the majority of my sex partners were not achieving orgasm. Again, it was never a topic of conversation, but I just knew.

I often think back and wonder if women in general felt cheated when they couldn’t cum or just accepted it as that was just the way it was.

It’s a known fact that women have a more difficult time achieving orgasm during sexual intercourse because very little clitoral stimulation takes place. I learned that some highly orgasmic women really don’t need a lot of clit friction to get off,  but they are rare.

It's not uncommon today for a woman to masturbate her clit while she is being penetrated by her male partner, but in past years no woman would dream of doing that. But as women have become more sexually liberated,  I think it’s much more common now.

Many times I have attempted to apply clitoral stimulation with my fingers while fucking my partner. But the fact is, it is quite difficult to do. When you stick your hand down there it’s the back of your hand that is in contact with her clit. And turning your hand around to apply some clit action is just not practical. It’s much easier for the woman to do herself.

One recent girlfriend would somehow push her pelvis up while we were fucking and bring her clit in contact with my pubic area. It didn’t take her too long to reach orgasm while doing that. The downside was that when she did it, it forced my cock into an awkward angle that was very uncomfortable. A bit painful, actually. There was no way in hell I would ever ejaculate while she was doing that. I never said anything because I wanted her to get off and once she did, I could go back to fucking her and eventually get myself off.

This was never a problem with my last wife who was, without a doubt, the most orgasmic woman I’ve ever been with. Once I realized that I could quickly bring her off with my fingers or my tongue, I actually timed it one time. I’ve forgotten the exact amount of time it took, but it was between 15 to 20 seconds. And as long as I would keep going, she would keep having orgasms. But she would usually make me stop after about four because her clit became way too sensitive. In one of the threesomes we did, I put on a little show with the other guy and he couldn’t believe how quickly and easily she could cum.

As a result of her heightened ability, even without a lot of clitoral contact during intercourse, she would usually orgasm two or three times while we were fucking.

We talked about it but she had no ready explanation. She was a very highly sexually charged woman which I’m sure was a contributing factor. The entire time we were together she insisted on having sex every single day and usually twice a day on weekends. Unfortunately the marriage didn’t last but I sure do miss her.