For The Very Beginner

So you want to know how to masturbate. What it is, what it does, what happens, and/or why you should do it. Here's a guide on learning how to masturbate if you're male, for the very beginner. First, some basic questions and answers- What is it? Masturbation is pretty much sex for one, playing with your sexual parts on your own. What does it do? Sex makes your body feel a lot of different feelings, and masturbation is a way to feel those feelings without the need to partner up. It's also a great way to learn how to use your body when it comes time to have sex.

What happens? You play with your private parts, find out what feels good, and milk those feelings for all they are worth. There are a lot of ways to accomplish this, but this guide will go over the easiest method. What does it feel like? There are a lot of feelings involved with masturbation, but the feeling of sexual response itself is a warm, tingly, nice feeling in between your legs. It's felt at its strongest around the base of your sexual parts and along the underside of the penis. You'll also feel your heart racing a little, your legs might quiver, your toes might curl up, you might sweat a lot, you might breathe heavily, and you'll probably feel like you're going to pee. This is all fine and part of the experience. The walk-through- First, find a completely private place where you know nobody will find you, and that you could comfortably be naked, such as your bedroom or a bathroom. Make sure you have a way to clean up a mess. Then, remove your clothing and get comfortable. Feel what it's like to have your body exposed, and get used to being naked. Finally, spread your legs to open up your private parts. Next, you'll want to make sure your penis is erect. If it's not, play around with it a little, however you'd like. Once it's erect, grab it with your hand. Start to make a pumping motion while sliding up and down the shaft, sliding the skin of the shaft. This sliding action should feel like what was described above- a nice tingle. As you keep going, it should progressively feel better. Don't rush, take your time and take it all in. All those other feelings could, and should, start to happen as you go. The climax- Eventually you'll get that feeling like you're going to pee, and you might want to stop. Just keep going- this is where things are about to get really good. That feeling will get stronger the more you do it right- and eventually you'll really feel like you're going to pee without your control. If you keep going, all of a sudden those tingles you've been feeling will go out of control and your whole body will get a really odd but good feeling, like a really strong version of that relaxing tingle you've been feeling. That reaction is called an orgasm, and it lasts about fifteen to thirty seconds. You'll probably feel like pee is bottling up in your penis and that it's about to burst and you can't do anything about it. Hold it in for as long as you can and keep pumping. Your body should feel really tingly at this point if you're doing it right! Then, let go, and your penis will ejaculate. You'll start pumping out semen, a sticky white liquid that smells weird, from your penis. After you finish ejaculating, your penis will soften up and have to calm down before it can do anything for a while. Results- If you've gotten this far, congratulations, you've masturbated successfully. Use whatever you've prepared to clean up. If it didn't feel good the first time, don't worry, you're probably just new to it, or didn't have a good orgasm. You probably have a lot of questions... figure them out over time on your own. Feel free to experiment, and mess around with different ways you can masturbate. If you want to try again right away after ejaculating, your penis won't be able to for fifteen-or-so minutes. Go ahead and take a break. Most males have one ejaculation per session, which also means only one orgasm. Over time, find what works best for you, and what you like to do. You'll get good at it sooner than you think.