First Orgasms and Discovering New Techniques

I had been rubbing my penis for a year or so and getting a good feeling, but never managed to achieve the intense feeling that a couple of friends described, and I was frustrated! Looking back it was probably just bad technique.

By accident I found a body massager in my parents' room and it got me thinking. The next time I was alone in the house I tried it against my penis. OMG, what a sensation ... and BAM ... I had my first orgasm.

The orgasm was dry, but the feeling was incredible and in that instant I was hooked.

Now knowing how to produce an orgasm, I would use the massager whenever I could. My parents were sometimes out in the evening making this easy, other times I'd sneak into their room to get it whilst they were still in the house, using it under a pillow to muffle the sound.

A few months and many (many!) orgasms later I ejaculated for the first time. The feeling was indescribably good!

During those first months I was able to have two or three orgasms in very quick succession, with the subsequent ones as strong as the first, if not stronger. This ability faded after I started ejaculating, but they significantly prolonged the pleasure, remaining in a semi-orgasmic state between them. Occasionally the orgasms just kept going and I lost all sense of my surroundings for a while, ending up exhausted but very happy!

Not long after starting to ejaculate I finally managed to orgasm without using the massager, and embarked on experimenting with different techniques.

My penis wasn't particularly long, so much of the regular masturbation was using first & index finger and thumb wrapped around the upper part (like holding a pencil), directly stimulating the head by sliding the foreskin back & forth.

This gave a satisfying orgasm in a reasonably short time and was particularly useful for "quick" sessions at school and other places as I could do it through my trouser fly without undressing and was easy to catch in a tissue, or direct into a toilet or onto the ground.

At other times, pretty much anything was tried.

Lying on the bed open-legged (like sitting cross-legged, but wider with the bottoms of my feet together to hold the position), the encircled-fist method worked and slowly pumping created a deep sensation I could keep going for some while. This would produce a very strong ejaculation and slowed the process, taking several seconds from the point of no return to anything coming out.

When just using fingers, the first spurt would reach the middle of my chest. If I had a good build-up using the fist method it would get on my face & hair and occasionally hit the headboard (fortunately I had a wooden board, so easy to clean!).

Pressing my penis against things whilst tightening muscles would produce a hard erection and I'd use this technique as a discrete build-up, using everything from the under-edge of school desks to lying on the floor to watch TV. Mostly this ended with a quick session in school toilets or my bedroom, but sometimes would try to keep an erection all day and have a longer session in bed.

Lying on my front in bed and moving never worked in bringing on an orgasm, but I enjoyed the different feeling of it being "hands free" and would use it to get an erection before flipping over and continuing with my hand.

I was game for trying any stimulation "between the legs" and turned my attention to massaging my testicles and upper thighs. In particular, testicle massaging significantly enhanced the build-up and squeezing them during the actual orgasm changed the feelings and made it more intense.

Pinching my inner thighs (tightly gripping the skin with my whole hand) also worked and if I put my legs out straight whilst being open-legged and tensioned the thigh and groin muscles, I'd have a particularly powerful orgasm.

It's during these squeezing sessions that I started to make a connection between strong nerve stimulation / mild pain and sexual pleasure. My testicular squeezing was so hard that they would hurt if I wasn't having an orgasm, but significantly heightened the experience during it. It often left me with a feeling of having been gently "kicked in the nuts" but was worth it!

I also found a spot on the base on the penis under the scrotum that was more sensitive, so would grind a finger into this during the latter stages to enhance the orgasm.

The massager was still being used for some variation, with the normal technique being to place it directly on the top of the penis head (through the foreskin) and move it around a little, or lay the erection on my belly and run it along the underside. The strength of the stimulation produced a strong orgasm but weaker ejaculation. If I was lying in bed just stimulating the head there would also more clearing up as my penis had to be vertical resulting in a mess all over the massager, hand and groin, but I didn't care as the pleasure far outweighed the practical side!

Having found pleasure from playing with the base of my penis and testicles, another variation with the massager was to dig it in underneath the scrotum, leaving it in place wedged against the bed. This allowed the feeling to be varied depending on how hard I pressed down.

With the massager in place my hands were free to concentrate on other areas. As the orgasm approached, I would press down hard on the massager and it would result in an "explosion", with everything happening quickly due to the stimulation.

Many of the techniques I now use are largely based on these early experiments, supplemented with some anal and pee fetish play, but still based on these early methods. Happy days!