Effortless Endless Orgasms

My journey to effortless endless orgasms began almost 9 years ago. I'd been getting more and more disappointed with sex as a man. Seeing my wife have several 30-second orgasms while I tried to hold back from having my one 5-second orgasm seemed unfair.

Everything about how men could last longer and supposedly enjoy sex more had to do with stopping all stimulation, taking yourself out of the moment and letting yourself cool down. Some suggestions were along the lines of thinking of the ugliest woman you could to take your mind off your excitement. That never really sounded like much fun to me.

I started investigating and found sites describing how men could have multiple orgasms. They all were basically the same thing - stopping stimulation and squeezing just before the point-of-no-return. I tried this several times but, again, stopping stimulation and concentrating during what is supposed to be a sexually stimulating time was, well, kind of anti-climactic.

My investigating also brought me to sites describing prostate orgasms. Super orgasms that you could just sit back and enjoy forminutes over and over without having to stop stimulation. I wound up finding out about the Aneros products and gave one a try. While I did manage to get to the point that I had pleasurable feelings with the Aneros, I never felt anywhere close to orgasmic.

I do believe that the Aneros opened my mind though. Making the transition from thinking orgasm and ejaculation are the same thing is huge. Just getting past the idea that sex is all about stimulating the penis with a stroking motion until you ejaculate is something that I think is rare. Both men and women are limited in their sexual satisfaction because of this.

I began researching more about other erogenous areas and discovered a few spots in my pelvic area, including my perineum, which brought really good feelings. I got to the point that I could lightly rub a couple key areas and within 30 seconds I would be spasming with full body orgasms. 

With a very different idea of sexual pleasure than a typical male, I opened up to viewing sexual pleasure more for what I was feeling rather than what I was doing. I lost interest in porn that was all about a hard bang and a cum shot to porn that was more intimate. Since my orgasms were no longer centered on my penis and realizing my experience may be more like I imagine awoman’s to be, I even started imagining myself being the woman in the intimate porn. I've become pretty fluid in which role I imagine myself in when watching porn.

At some point, the penis base/perineum method stopped working for me. It may be because I got more into using vibrators to stimulate those areas. For years I would use a vibrator placed lightly on the spot where my flaccid penis would sit on my scrotum. This technique would give me amazing orgasms that could last anywhere from a few seconds to several minutes. Many of them were full body, out-of-this-world orgasms. If I had enough time, I could literally go on for hours having probably over 50 orgasms.

As time went on I started just using my fingers to rub the same area. Starting with a little lube or my saliva I could usually have my first orgasm in less than one minute. I'd use the precum from the first orgasm as lube for my next orgasm. Again, the fun could continue for as long as I had time or until I was eventually exhausted.

For years I would alternate between using a vibrator and fingers. I'd use a vibrator almost exclusively for a couple months and then realize again how good it felt with just my fingers. After a couple months using my fingers, I'd realize again how good it felt with a vibrator.

Throughout all this time, the orgasms were amazing. Way beyond any pleasure I ever felt with an ejaculatory orgasm. Just knowing you can have more makes each one more pleasurable. The orgasms were always quite dry with quite a bit of precum.

As far as partnered sex is concerned, I've never been able to have multiple orgasms during intercourse. I do enjoy it a lot more than I used to but when I feel an orgasm coming on, it's always a full ejaculatory orgasm and I just don't feel like trying to stop it. With oral sex, however, I can go on and on having dozens of dry orgasms.

For about two years now I've been using my fingers exclusively. I've gotten so good at it that I can always have my first orgasmwith one minute and the orgasms usually last at least 20 seconds. Sometimes the orgasms flow from my groin up through my torso into my arms and then to my head and I feel like my body is producing some amazing drug that makes my mind feel incredible.

 Other times the orgasms remain centered in my groin and are indistinguishable from a full ejaculatory orgasm as far as the feelings I have. I experience almost the same pulsing and pumping feelings and sometimes I even have to check to make sure I didn't actually ejaculate. Sometimes the orgasms are slightly milder but they last for a several minutes non-stop. I can usually choose which type of orgasm I want to have based on my feeling at the moment and I usually switch it up to experience each type of orgasm several times in a session. Given enough free time, I can literally masturbate for hours having dozens and dozens of orgasms. I do feel exhausted afterward but it still doesn’t have the same drain as ejaculating even once.

The dry orgasms feel so good, have such variety and can just keep coming that I just don’t feel the desire to ejaculate anymore. On rare occasions, I’ll get so worked up that I wind up ejaculating and I’m always disappointed when I do because I know I may have only one or two more small orgasms before I’ll lose interest.