Answer About Us

Bethany and I decided to make a post about the most common asked questions we've had in our mailboxes. It's easier this way than it is to continue to type them over and over. 

We are both writing this and will give our separate answers where necessary. 

1) Since you both have been married before were you with just men before hooking up or were you with girls too?

 Kristine: Here's my sexual journey, I have had sex with 2 guys and 1 girl before meeting Bethany. At 16 I slept with the first guy, about a year and a half later I met my ex. My first semester at college I was required to live in the dorms and me and my roommate secretly hooked maybe twice a week for a month. 

Bethany: like Kristine I also have slept with 2 guys before her, at 17 I slept with my boyfriend for the first time and about a year later I met my ex. Unfortunately I never had sex with a girl before but was always curious about it. 

2) Did your marriage end because of your sexuality?

Kristine: no, my almost 14 year marriage ended because my douchebag husband physically, mentally and verbally abused me. 

Bethany: no, I was married almost 20 years to a very prominent attorney (from a very prominent family of attorneys) who had a sex addiction. After being married 8 years I realized no matter how often I had sex with him he was going to sleep with whoever he could whenever he could. I decided I no longer wanted to take the chance of catching an STD I quit having sex for 12 years (Kristine was the first person I had sex with). He didn't want to get a divorce because he didn't want to hurt his reputation so for 12 years we appeared to be the perfect couple while I slept in a separate bedroom and focused on my career (not even his family knew, only my family and Kristine). Just after my 39th birthday he told me to really think about what I wanted for my 40th birthday and he would get me something special. About 2 weeks later I went to him and told him what I really wanted was a divorce and that I deserved to be happy too. We were divorced 6 months later. 

3) Do you feel you are treated differently by society now? 

This just requires only one of us to answer and that answer is NO. Actually most people who find out for the first time we are a couple are actually surprised, they think we are either related or just best friends. 

4) Are one of you more the male figure and one more the female figure)?

Again only one answer needed, NO. We are both girly girls at heart. 

5) Your status shows bi-sexual, does that mean you still want to sleep with men too?

Again only 1 answer needed the short answer is No we have no plans of sleeping with men.

The long answer is we have discussed a MFF encounter and if the stars, moon, universe and whatever else aligned perfectly and the opportunity came up we would seriously consider it. The only thing we miss about being with a man is the precise moment he cums in our mouth, that is the only thing we can't replicate. Anything before our after that exact moment we can replicate better by ourselves. So that is why our status is bi-sexual and not lesbian, a true lesbian would never give that answer because there is nothing about having sex with a man that would interest her. 

6) Do you still like dick pics?

NO, NO, NO!! Although we still like looking at men with well sculpted bodies, we just don't need to see their dick because once you've seen one you've seen them all. The only difference is their size which doesn't interest either of us. 

7) Do you plan on getting married? 

We have discussed it but at this moment we aren't interested. Been there and done that, it doesn't mean we are going to love each other any more than we already do. 

8) Do you have pet names for each other? 

Kristine: I call her Luv

Bethany: I call her babe (hence Shygirlsbabe) 

9) If you were curious about girls why didn't you ever act on it? 

Kristine: After my fling with my roommate I knew I liked it and wanted to do it again but ended up getting married. It was something I dare not bring up around my ex, he was a homophobe and went ballistic if I even mentioned another woman being sexy. 

Bethany: I never knew how to go about it and was scared. Back in those days it wasn't as well accepted as it is now, especially for a professional female and I was very professionally oriented.

As far as for the 5 years, I knew Kristine before we hooked up on one hand I never caught on to the fact she was interested in me and on the other hand I very much believed in my wedding vows and would have never "cheated".

10) What is going on with Jessica, will she be moving in with you? 

No, we all have talked about this and understand what it is. We are just helping a friend safely explore her sexuality, nothing more nothing less. 

I think we have answered the most common questions here. If there is anything you would like to know just ask, we will answer it.