A Voyage Of Discovery.

I met my partner at a friend's birthday celebrations when his Mum had cooked a slap up meal for us. A mutual friend was there and he had brought his younger sister along. Now I had met her in passing before when we had picked up her brother to go out for the evening but apart from exchanging pleasantries had not taken much notice of her especially as she had a boyfriend. At this party however I could barely take my eyes off her, She was a curvy girl in all the right ways, she had black hair & best of all the one thing that always attracted me to girls, beautiful eyes. She was wearing a shiny low cut black dress that showed off her curves and plenty of cleavage. Talk about lust at first sight, my imagination ran wild wondering what she looked like naked especially whether she had a thick, bushy pussy the same colour has the hair on her head. She looked so damn sexy ! I just couldn't keep my eyes off her and kept glancing at her. She did notice and always smiled at me when she caught me looking. We were all circulating around and I joined in with her & her brother's conversation. After a while her brother went to talk to someone else leaving us alone. We chatted about this and that with plenty of eye contact, me trying hard not to keep looking at her lovely breasts.

When dinner was ready we all sat down to eat and had a lovely meal. Afterwards there was more conversation whilst coffee & tea were prepared. There wasn't enough seats in the lounge for all of us so most people sat around the dining table but we both ended up sitting on the sofa. It turned out that she was a few years younger than me. We enjoyed talking to each other and there was a certain amount of flirting. I asked her what she was doing the following evening and she said that she had nothing planned so I asked if she would like to come out with us to which she said yes I'd love to. We kept looking into each other's eyes & she had rubbed her leg against mine a couple of times trying to pretend it was accidental. I let my hand fall from my lap to where her hand was and took hold of it giving it a little squeeze to see what reaction I got. To my surprise she squeezed me back. This went on for a while until we both stared into each other's eyes and put our lips together in a long slow kiss. After that  for the rest of the evening we couldn't stop kissing each other, something noticed by our circle of friends. That was the start of our relationship that has been going on for more than 40 years now !!

After we had been going out together for a month it was clear that this was going to be a long term relationship as we really liked each other, were falling in love & we started petting each other. Just past her house there was a quiet spot so we used to park there & discreetly masturbate each other. She would put her hand through the fly of my trousers and pants and I would have my hand up her skirt or dress and down her knickers. Having had no education at all about how girls achieved sexual pleasure I only had logic to go on and logic told me that if you penetrated a girls vagina to have sex with her surely you simulated it with your finger when petting. I had been doing this with past girlfriends all of whom enjoyed it & none of whom had ever said that that wasn't the right way to pleasure them. By now however I had found out that women masturbated, had orgasm's and that you had to stimulate something called the Clitoris to give them an orgasm. This was because a couple of articles had appeared in the newspapers about why so many women weren't getting proper sexual satisfaction due to a lack of knowledge and education, which I had seen. The only problem was that these articles didn't say where the Clitoris was nor what you did to it. I said to my now girlfriend one day :

'You haven't had an orgasm yet. I know you have to stimulate the woman's Clitoris as I've read about it but I don't know where it is so please tell me where to touch you so I can please you and give you an orgasm.

 I had thought that being younger than me she would have been better educated but to my astonishment she told me that she had never heard of the Clitoris. I said to her

'Don't you masturbate ?'

She said 'I thought that was something boys did'

I asked her 'Didn't any of your friends at school or college ever speak of it ?'

 'No she said'

It wasn't as if she was totally inexperienced as she had fucked with her previous boyfriend but never had an orgasm. So it turned out that she knew less than I did. However she said to me not to worry about it as one day we'll find out and I love having your finger up my vagina anyway, it's really nice even if I'm not having an orgasm.

So we carried on in the same way throughout our courtship although after we'd been together three months we started fucking although still with no orgasm for her which made me feel very guilty as I so wanted to please her.

Eventually we did discover what to do just as she said we would. Better still it happened on our honeymoon. We had gone to stay at a hotel in the south west of England, and each day we would get in the car and go visit somewhere interesting (We weren't sit on the beach all day types). One day she said that she'd like to visit an attraction that was only a short distance away so off we went to see it. This place was very large and we took all morning going around it, then lunch, and then went around it again in the afternoon. As the entrance ticket was for all day we decided to come back in the evening to see it again illuminated. We went back to our hotel and got there just after 4.00pm. Dinner wasn't served until after 6.00pm so we went up to our room, put down all the stuff we had been carrying around and flopped down on the bed. It didn't take long for kissing to start, then we started to stroke one another all over especially our shoulders and our backs which were aching a little. Eventually clothes started coming off until we only had our underwear on. We were lying next to each other still kissing, cuddling and stroking each other. She noticed that there was a bulge in my pants as I had got quite aroused and I could smell the sweet aroma of her wet vulva. She slipped off my pants and looked at my ram- rod hard cock with a naughty smile on her face. I undid her bra & took it off, then her knickers too. She laid on her tummy and asked me to massage her shoulders a little more but whilst doing it to lay my cock between her legs up against her vulva. I very happily obliged her request. I could feel her wetness against my cock which was lovely, and as I massaged her I stroked her labia with my cock. After a while she rolled over onto her back and I laid down next to her. My hand wandered down over her beautiful black haired pussy and I stroked it for a while before I let my finger slip into her vagina and started to push it in and out of her as I had done since we first started petting. Her hand came over to my cock making a ring with her thumb & forefinger as she ran them up and down my hard, twitching shaft making me even harder. I had a condom ready to use as we were going to fuck, but as I withdrew my finger from her vagina, instead of pulling it out downwards between her legs which is what I had always done in the past, I withdrew it keeping it pressed against her body so that it travelled upwards between her labia until it reached where the two sides of her inner labia met & it ran straight over her clit. Now the fun began. She cried out :

'Oh my god, put your finger back where it was just now, I think we've found my clit'

Where I said'

'Here she said'

taking my middle finger and pressing the whole length of it against her.

'That isn't helping ' I said, 'just take the tip of my finger and place it on the spot you want me to touch'.

She did as I asked and said  :

'Can you feel that little hard bit there' 

Yes I replied, what do you want me to do to it. She said that there could only be one possible thing that you could do so she asked me to stroke it. Oh boy what a revelation. I was used to seeing her with a look of bliss on her face & giving off gentle sigh's when I was fingering her vagina but this was something else. She writhed about on the bed, moaning and groaning, pushing her hips up and down as my finger worked on her clitty. She took hold of my cock and started wanking me. I was really aroused and so was she. I got close to cumming so I asked her to stop wanking me for the moment and just keep her hand around my cock. I wanted to be fully alert when she came so I could take in what happened when she did. Eventually her body suddenly went rigid, then relaxed as she cried out that something was going to happen. Her body started to heave and shudder & her clitty throbbed as her first orgasm ripped through her.

' I'm coming, I'm coming oh fuck I'm coming' she cried out.

'Quietly' I said, I think the whole hotel can hear you. It was wonderful for both of us as I had never seen a woman cum before & this was her first orgasm. After she came down from the sexual high she had been on she took my cock in her hand and carried on wanking me. It didn't take long for me to cum and I gasped as my cock throbbed like never before and a huge amount of cum spurted out of me up into the air and coming down on my body. What fantastic sex that was. We lay next to each other for a while, kissing, cuddling and stroking each other until eventually I got hard again whereupon we masturbated each other a second time. The rest of the honeymoon was absolutely wonderful with me always making sure that she had an orgasm even after a fuck as she didn't come during that. She was very much a clit cummer and never had an orgasm through penetration alone. We found out a few years later that there was an imbalance between men and women and that women took longer to orgasm. Also that only a very small proportion of women reached orgasm during intercourse and the majority needed manual stimulation after the man had cum.

I have to say that we did get a few funny looks in the dining room so I guess some of the staff & other guests must have heard her !!

By the time this happened I had reached the age of 29 and my wife 22 so that's how long it took us to find out how a woman achieves an orgasm !!