More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
I use masturbation as my only sexual release since my wife just has no interest and I have found over the past few years it has become more difficult to cum. The volume has also diminished to about 1/4 of what I would produce ten years ago.
Re: More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
Everything is more difficult when you reach 60...
Re: More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
Not sure what you mean by difficult, but if its hardware, see a doc. Emotionally is a totally different thing.
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Re: More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
Now in my 70s I still enjoy masturbating, although not as often as i used to. Just take your time, watch some good porn, and don't worry if you don't get hard or you don't cum so much, you'll find the pleasures are just as great as ever
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I'm 64 and while I don't have a problem getting an erection (yet), I have noticed that it takes longer to ejaculate. At first, it was frustrating. My wife thought I was finding her less attractive sexually. Long story short, I did some research and found that it is natural for guys to slow down and have what's known as "delayed ejaculation."
Rather than worry about it, I decided to embrace it. If I don't cum during sex, I tell my wife that was just a "practice session." We laugh and she gets the benefit of having longer sex sessions, or multiple ones. Sometimes, when we've had a particular long session and she has had enough and no longer wants to fuck, she will give me a handjob, or I will masturbate on her body.
I can also say that performance is less of an issue at this point in my life. There are times when we will have sex side by side, and we just lay there talking, not moving while my penis is inside her. It feels great and she will sometimes cum in this position while I massage her breasts and nipples. I just relax and enjoy the sensation without worrying about performing on top or from behind.
Slow can be very good....
Rather than worry about it, I decided to embrace it. If I don't cum during sex, I tell my wife that was just a "practice session." We laugh and she gets the benefit of having longer sex sessions, or multiple ones. Sometimes, when we've had a particular long session and she has had enough and no longer wants to fuck, she will give me a handjob, or I will masturbate on her body.
I can also say that performance is less of an issue at this point in my life. There are times when we will have sex side by side, and we just lay there talking, not moving while my penis is inside her. It feels great and she will sometimes cum in this position while I massage her breasts and nipples. I just relax and enjoy the sensation without worrying about performing on top or from behind.
Slow can be very good....
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Re: More difficult to ejaculate in my 60’s
I'm in my 80s with a wife whose bladder prolapsed into her vagina some years after her hysterectomy. She uses a pessary ... a 'milk crate' plastic thing inside her vagina to keep her bladder from falling and coming out her vulva. It is too much trouble to remove and re-install.
I've always loved masturbating and never stopped just because I was married, so that's what I do. I masturbate a bit every night, but it's very, very difficult for me to ejaculate unless I've been reading or watching some super-hot porn. I can usually only have an orgasm with ejaculation about once a week. I cherish them.
I've always loved masturbating and never stopped just because I was married, so that's what I do. I masturbate a bit every night, but it's very, very difficult for me to ejaculate unless I've been reading or watching some super-hot porn. I can usually only have an orgasm with ejaculation about once a week. I cherish them.
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I can't say that I have a problem with ejaculation other than the volume of semen is less (at times). If I haven't had a release in a while, I seem to ejaculate a larger volume or if I edge myself for a prolonged period of time but if I masturbate a normal 3-4 times a week my volume is usually less than when I was younger. Being single for a few years, masturbation is my way of sexual release and wonder how I'd be nowadays with a woman and would I still experience premature ejaculation once in a great while like I did when I was younger.
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I'm 61 and the plumbing is still operating. Definitely a decrease in volume since i was in my teens and twenties, but i'm still making a mess on my GF (44).
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I'm 70 and masturbate at least once most days. With that amount of masturbation, I have less volume. I don't really care. Getting horny with some good porn and releasing is all I care about.
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I'm over 70 and now single so masturbation is my main sexual outlet. I do it everyday sometimes 2x a day. the volume of my cum is less but the feeling at orgasm is still as strong as when I was 13