Nudity, masturbation, and male bonding

[jemstone]

I am on a nudist website and belong there to an online "group" dedicated to discussions of male bonding. We have had there a very interesting discussion about the role of nudity in male friendships/bonding and even how masturbating together can enhance the friendships. Many of us believe that being nude-- either in reality or on cam-- can lead men to discuss serious matters about being men, about male sexuality, and other matters, that the nudity (with or without the masturbation) opens up men to be vulnerable in conversations. I have had this experience online-- when I am on cam, edging, and chatting on a masturbation website I have had very serious conversations on men's topics, conversations I have not had with real life friends. What do the ST men think about this?

[mushroomhead]

I think being nude in front of another opens up all lines of communication. Clothes are a barrier to what most if not all are thinking and really want to talk about.

For instance, I have been fully clothed with others, and come across porn on the net, and we may say something related to the video itself, but not how it affects us. Now, there was another time when these same people were with me, and we were in our pool with just swim trunks on, and one had a tablet and he had some porn on it and was showing it, I asked him to come over where I was( in front of a water jet) and we watched the porn and I came from the water jet hitting my member, and I told him what I was doing, and he then did the same thing with one other waiting in line. And that then opened another day where we all went skinny dipping in the pool, and we all knew what we were going to do. Water jets in pool can be so fun, lol.

So yes, the absence of clothing makes things so much more open and possible. Clothing is a barrier that can make men, or even women embarrased about what is underneath. But once it is all out in the open, its a better world for everyone.

[penedeconejo]

I know for a fact that the anonymity of the internet has opened up all types of communication between men and women. I for one would never be able to admit and describe my fantasies or openly discuss the topics that I have in the presence of most of the people I know. I don't care if I'm camming with someone or not. We're still relatively anonymous and it's very unlikely that we'll ever meet in person so I feel that I can completely open up and spill my guts about anything. This place is somewhat like a sexual confessional.

[scottyhoney]

I take care of myself so still have a nice male shape, but the only one I like to show my naked body to is my wife. I do like to be naked in front of her. I'm 6' 195lb, wear 34" pants and have a nice dick and butt. I do squats weekly.
My wife knows I masturbate and enjoys watching me from soft to erect to ejaculate. I have never had the urge to masturbate with another guy.
The only thing I am curious about is who masturbates (M or F) and who masturbates thinking of me. A while back my wife told me that a guy was checking me out when we were out. I asked her what she thought he wanted and she said what do you think.

[jim1956]

A good point scott! It dawned on me that surely men who know my wife must masturbate and think about her as they do it. I know I have fantasied over her friends and even our neighbours so I am sure guys have thought of her.

[mash2014]

I'd like to know who has masturbated thinking of me.

[Sean1969]

love frotting with guys, as girlfriend watches and fingers herself

[phileld]

I'd like to know who has masturbated thinking of me.

Does make it more fun, when there are multiple people jerking together. Makes the chat more fun, especially with some photos. Gets everyone going

[mash2014]

A good point scott! It dawned on me that surely men who know my wife must masturbate and think about her as they do it. I know I have fantasied over her friends and even our neighbours so I am sure guys have thought of her.

I get really turned on when I see a guy look sexually at my wife. Years ago a friend and I were snorting coke and we decided to masturbate and he told me fantasized about doing my wife and he wanted me to do his wife. Unfortunately, it never happened.

[oldfan]

I have been nude with others at a local clothing free resort and find that the discussions are much more open and free with both other males and females. I can see where the openness of being nude would greatly enhance male bonding - nothing to hide from each other and if we could masturbate together, it would really strengthen that bond. I would love to try!

[iamnaked]

I can have the same discussion with a male or a female nude or clothed.
I’ve been nude with clothed males and clothed females.
I’ve been clothed with nude males and nude females.
And been in nudist situations with both sexes.
I’ve never noticed any difference in communication subject, depth or involvement on any level.
As for a circle jerk with guys or girls, I got that T-shirt.
It’s just sex.