Couples watching each other masturbate

[davidkc]

When I have been in a relationship, one of the most erotic and intimate things we would do was watch each other masturbate. Not masturbate together, or masturbate each other. Just one partner watching the other get himself or herself off. The watcher would just watch, not saying anything. I feel it makes closer to someone for them to see me jerk myself off and cum and then to see them do the same. Anyone else do this?

[UKGent]

David,

This is one of the things I have loved to do for years. My wife and I do this, however it inevitably leads to mutual masturbation or more as things tend to get quite hot. We know what pushes each other's buttons so it usually ends up getting very naughty.

[booboo2x]

My wife and I like to watch lesbian porn and when she gets really hot then she will rub her pussy as I figure her until she cums all over my hand. I love to lick her as she is having an orgasm as well. Then its my turn for oral and some spooning position until I cum inside of her juicy pussy!

[okkam1]

I had a similar experience with a gf a lot of years ago: she was pretty horny but I was not in the mood of sex (what a stupid…) so she climbed on me while I was lying on the couch and then she put her hand in the jeans and started humping me. This went on for about 10 min then she came with legs shaking and her pelvis pushing hard against me… well actually this led to me taking my throusers off and pumping myself while she was watching like if there was no tomorrow…. I did cum in maybe less than one minute since I was soooo excited!

[kev607]

Highly erotic it is, but it's much more than that. My ex admitted to me that since she was a teen, she had always wanted to see a guy masturbate but found it too hard to ask. Although I was hesitant I wanted to encourage her in expressing her fantasies and desires, so I offered to fulfill her fantasy. It was really awkward at first - even today there's a certain 'taboo' or that's a 'private' thing - and took me a while to even get erect, but eventually I got excited mostly seeing the response on her face. She had offered to masturbate for me so after I was done, she did. Wow....

After that initial time, we used masturbation as part of sex play and she created some really good scenarios to play out.

You really have to have a close relationship with a lot of trust to do this. One of the benefits above the visual is realizing that your partner is a sexual human being in and of themselves. You can learn a lot about how to touch your partner etc. I highly recommend this to all couples!

[slipperyslit]

Lately my husband and I have been playing casually while we lay in bed cuddled up, watching tv. He will begin by softly stroking my pussy until I begin to get wet, and then he moves to my clit. After a time, I lay my hand over his and we move along my clit together--so sexy--then eventually, he moves his hand, rubbing my nipples and just giving me such a wonderful massage while I keep circling my clit. This never fails to get me off and it's such a warm, tender time for us. He still won't masturbate for me, which I have been trying to get him to do for all of our married life. I may get him to at some point though, especially if I try this on him. I've tried to do that, and everytime I move his hand to start stroking his cock, he won't do it. Ah, well, maybe someday. A girl can dream

[UKGent]

Slipperyslit.

Have you not just asked him outright? Maybe it's just me, but I love to put on a show for my wife when she asks (and sometimes if she doesn't).

Ask him why he won't do it, if might be something as simple as shyness or embarrassment in openly doing for you what he normally does in private.

Either way, if you don't ask, you'll never know.

[cardinalsin]

My wife likes for me to jack off for her, but I've been trying for years to get her to ASK me to jack off for her!

[slipperyslit]

Oh, yeah. I've asked. I've even said point blank--that would be so hot to watch you... and yet. nope. He claims he gave that up years ago and now he doesn't enjoy it. I doubt that. I'm okay with doubting that, and I'm not a single bit upset if he is actually cumming regularly by himself. But, for whatever reason, he believes that admitting to it when he's married makes him somehow 'less' than a real husband. Go figure. I swear someday I'll change his mind.

[momoftheyear78]

Yep we have done this. Right in the beginning of the relationship. It's a great way to find out how the other person likes to be touched. Just by doing this I found out he likes a light touch with slippery lubed hands, kind of twisting the hand as he goes downward, and that he likes a lot of ball play. when he came he just held still as he ejaculated and when that stopped, he gripped tightly and rubbed it really fast for a bit. We all like to do it differently! Now I know exactly how he likes it best. And he can say the same thing about me.

[georgian1stcum94]

Oh, all the time! One of our favorite foreplay methods, in fact. Lately, we've embellished a bit: I tie my wife's ankles to the bed, legs spread, then hold her her while she masturbates. (She's quite dominant in nearly all aspects of life, but definitely a submissive in the bedroom.) The rules are that 1) her finger may not leave her clitoris, and 2) she may not have an orgasm without my permission. She's so gorgeous when she's teetering right on the edge, desperate to go over, and the way screams when I finally tell her she can come! We both love it--her orgasms are much stronger after she's been edged for a while. May post a story about it if I find the time. The other night, she even asked my permission to come while we were making love afterwards, which I said yes to, and watched her finger go to work.

She likes to watch me, too, but prefers that my cum end up inside her, so she usually doesn't watch me finish, unless she's not in the mood. After our second was born, but before my wife was cleared for sex, we had some wonderfully erotic sessions of her using her Hitachi while I came on her feet. She's still fine with me masturbating right onto her pretty toes when I want to get off and she doesn't. That's fun, too.

[saffron]

This is my total kink. Always has been. I search & search for new videos online, but have seen them all. I have a good "go to" collection of mutual masturbation pics & vids.
But it has to be each person touching themselves, not each other. & watching each other, turning each other on.
My last ex (we are still close friends) did this more than anything else. It was fantastic to find someone with the same fetish as me. I wrote a story about it, that someone has copied this month, under Female-male stories.
All other men I've been with wouldn't show me.
I often think of the things this ex & I did, so hot. I wonder if he thinks about it while he has a rub.
He would tell me how hard my clit is, how it's quivering. I would watch him watching me, asking im what he wanted me to do. the whole time Im watching his big strong hand on his big dick. I'd hold myself open, ready for him to aim his cum into me.
I also love watching vids of men wanking to pics of women, or vids, where I can see what they are watching.
I guess it turns me on to know what's turning them on.
We'd also do it with one of us in the bath, the other in the shower. One time he came from watching me shave my pussy.
I liked it best though when we were in bed, head to foot, my leg over him, & my face up close to his cock. So close & personal, more so than normal sex I think, in some ways

[morningwd]

I absolutely agree with your last statement Saffron. My g/f and I found it much more erotic to watch each other. She loved being 'on display' and seeing what it did to me.

[bagpus]

My ex b/f and I often did it to ourselves with the other watching and not participating. The problem was it got so horny that it was difficult not to get involved!
I loved watching him, and I got a terrific kick seeing him watching me and seeing how it affected him and also the feeling of being so "exposed" and wicked.

For a short while I also got involved with a group of (mainly) older people who met for dinner (usually formal dress) and afterwards would then sit down and watch porn and masturbate. I attended 3 such events; at one there were 4 couples, myself and another (older) woman. On the other two occasions there were 3 couples, myself, another woman and 2 guys. It was real weird and odd at first, but it was also so horny seeing others doing it like that. There were unwritten rules as to what you could and couldn't do (for example, no touching someone else) which must have tested the resolve and self control of the guys to the absolute limits. lol. (I've since heard that these are sometimes called jack and jill parties in the U.S. but it's the only instance that I've heard of in the U.K.)

[hotcindy]

My husband and I sometimes do it as a quick midweek release.We lay in bed and both of us masturbate bringing ourselves to orgasm.We get off quickly and fall into a wonderful sleep.

[morningwd]

wow bagpus, I'd love to hear more about those jack and jill parties

[gemmyrose]

Me and my husband prefer masturbating together/each other over having sex. We can spend hours laid next to each other pleasuring ourselves. Nothing turns me on more than watching him stroke his cock until he cums, such a beautiful sight.

[scottyhoney]

For years growing up I masturbated alone. Masturbating was something I did, but I really did not know if anyone else did it too.
Then I met my wife. While we were engaged I told her that I masturbate. She said it was ok and she liked the thought of me touching myself. Just don't masturbate to pictures of other women. She even admitted to masturbating on occasion.
When I do masturbate I prefer to masturbate in my wife's presence. I rarely masturbate alone anymore. I love to masturbate for my wife. And she likes to watch me.
More times than not it leads into sex, but sometimes I masturbate to ejaculation for her while she is cheering me on.
I ordered her the Magic Wand. I like her to use it and masturbate to orgasm for me before I penetrate. I need to order her a dildo so I can watch her dildo while using the magic wand. I think it is so hot watching a woman use a dildo and masturbating.

[oldb8tr]

My ex and I shared our masturbation for 2-3 years after I caught her doing herself one day. Generally about once a week (we had a good sex life, 4-5 times a week, one of which was mutual masturbation). Rarely did each other during these times, just ourselves while watching the other. Sometimes head to toe, our head near the others genitals, sometimes side by side, usually her right leg draped over my left one, her right arm resting on me, my left arm under her. She really liked it when I came on her, which I usually did, on or right above her bush.

Definitely agree with the comments about feeling especially close to someone when we share our masturbation - to me, a truly special way of bonding.

[kentklements]

My wife of 36 yrs and I absolutely love masturbating for and with each other. We find that sometimes we're just too tired for the physical workout that good sex involves and so mutual masturbation can be a great option for getting over the hornies.