Masturbation vs. Sex: Which is better?

[ginger58]

As I don't get any now from wife, I love to masturbate and edge. Doing it now actually

[svengalideck]

emgeee wrote:
> Masturbation is good, sex is better but the combination is the best. My
> girl friend is into masturbation as much as sex.
> She loves to get naked and edge and play with herself as I watch.
> Sometimes it is like her pussy is not attached to her and we take turns
> making it cum, with fingers, toys, objects, she love to hump things.
> I watch and stroke trying not to cum.
> After our masturbation session we will have sex, sometimes hard lust filled
> sex where we try to out fuck the other or we make love.
> Depends on the mood, but I/we last longer once we get the lust filled cum
> out of the way.
> so I vote both.

Yu horny dog!
Yeh I also vote both, tho been a long while since I had a gal that could equal the need for speed and variety so to speak!
sv-

[jeep]

It’s not some kind of Manichean choice. I selected “masturbation,” copping out with the OP question of what feels best. After decades of jacking off and tens of thousands of cums that way, my hand knows EXACTLY how to make me blow my load ecstatically. Sometimes when I was single I’d edge for hours before finally allowing myself to shoot, especially under the influence of marijuana and with mirrors to hand. God, it felt so good...
My wife and I have been having anal sex kind of regularly for about 25 years and the tightness of her asshole, the taboo, and her hot moaning all combine to give me an incredible sensation of orgasm. But even there, the best cums are when I stroke myself. The hand knows!

Interesting question...

[rathb69]

For the feeling of intimacy and that warm and fuzzy feeling, sex with a partner (I've only had female partners) is best. On the other hand (pun intended), I love to jack off and have my best orgasms from doing myself.

Just by the numbers its mostly been during alone time, but doing it for/with a female partner (especially the first time) is great. I've also found that masturbating while another man (or men) watches can be intense and lead to explosive orgasms under the right circumstances.

Its interesting to me that something I used to be secretive about and not want anyone to know I did is now something I really, really get off letting other people watch.

[matureplayer]

Very interesting to see the responses, and a bit surprising from my view.

I love masturbating, which is why I cum here (pun intended). I guess I am a horny old man at this point - I like sex in any form. My favorite though is ‘real’ sex, that is - vaginal intercourse. For me there is no better feeling that my very hard penis sliding into a tight, wet pussy. The whole length is caressed, warm and slippery. Skin on naked skin, nipples pressing against my chest. Pumping in and out over and over … then feeling her start to cum, pussy clenching my cock makes me even harder and I unleash jets of semen deep inside her. There is just something about the thrusting as I ejaculate that is so satisfying.

Second place may be blowjobs, but I don’t get them very often - masturbation is so much more accessible. Can be a quick release, or a long buildup - so many ways to do it! So I am a huge fan of masturbating, and I cum that way much more often than through intercourse, but open choice I’ll take a real fuck any day.

[paddington]

Sex is only ever with my wife and I feel her satisfaction takes priority over mine. That takes a little shine off things for me as I try desperately to make her orgasm at least three times before I fire.

Masturbation on the other hand is all about me and my satisfaction. The other week I was masturbating to some porn and for the first time ever, I ejaculated twice, within seconds of each other.

I experienced a wonderful feeing that I’m trying to replicate…..daily

[spunkluvr]

Nothing better than a good hard wank.

[mash2014]

Nothing better than a good hard wank.

With a wank you can set the tone and the intensity and you don't depend on another person.

[randiz69]

Agreed. Self play is pinnacle. No offense to any of my previous partners. Sex with another person can range from disappointing to absolutely glorious, but I have never left my self dissatisfied or disappointed.

[wanklover]

I liked both equally. I loved to penetrate my wife's pussy in the days when she was sexually active however we also used to masturbate together and masturbate each other which was just as good and really masturbation was better for my wife as she only ever could cum via clit stimulation not penetration. We enjoyed oral too !![/b

[iamnaked]

Bating Vs sex, the poll is missing my favorite kink.
Being masturbated by,
someone else!!

[spunkluvr]

With a wank you can set the tone and the intensity and you don't depend on another person.

Exactly!

[ragnarl]

At this point in my life I find to enjoy masturbation more. I hold my erection longer and I can chose what audio/visual stimulation I want…..
I love sex, especially to give oral, but when I masturbate, I can fantasize about anything…..

[svengalideck]

Bating Vs sex, the poll is missing my favorite kink.
Being masturbated by,
someone else!!

Im usually a giver, bt once a year I like to be pampered... besides, eating pussy is very easy if she's doing the hard work !

[topcat]

I guess they are two different things. I enjoy masturbation as there is less pressure to perform. Even since being a kid sex has been a battle not to cum too quickly - this was less of a problem when I first married as we did it almost every night, but now things have dropped off and it's maybe a couple of times a month I often come reasonably quickly and often before my wife. My argument back to her is that I need to build up my stamina again with regular sex sessions

My ultimate favourite is being masturbated by someone else. That tops the list for me - my absolute favourite is a topless hand job

[ventry]

Being a life long masturabator since age 12, and later being married twice and along the way several other partners I find I prefer masturbation. No pressure in having to please someone else, no worries about periods, headaches, yeast infections herpes, and who else has she fucked. To me masturbation is a win-win proposition.

[spunkluvr]

Had plenty of sex over the years but, these days, I prefer a wank to anything else.

[norcalman]

In the past it was having sex for sure. But since my wife is no longer interested in having sex, I've become a masturbation fool.

[mdbaterguy]

They're both amazing and important part of sexuality. I love sex, but sometimes I just want to relax and have a slow edging session. Sometimes alone, but I love it best with buds.