Going to work out?

[scantha]

Hi guys I'm Scantha. I think I'm having a problem with my relationship now. My boyfriend is in early 40's. We rarely do some action since we've started the relationship like 3 months ago. I don't know if I'm the one who's been deficient but I want to spice things up and wondering if buying some things here could do the trick? Is it the age or I just can't turn him on?

[wingonwing]

So sorry to hear this. Can't really suggest a fix without more details. What's keeping you two together? I once was advised that the best relationships enjoy and stand on three general types of love: 1. You have a brother/sister relationship (filial). 2. You are lovers -- strongly attracted to each other sexually (eros). 3. You share the highest love with each other (agape). Maybe there are some possible insights to be found in one of those areas, not just #2, if you take a hard, honest look at each one. I wish you the best in contending with such a difficult situation.