When did you start masturbating?
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I was experiencing frequent and intense erections like most boys that age with no immediate knowledge nor urgency to make them go away. Granted, they occurred at some potentially-embarrassing times but generally I just accepted them, and enjoyed them to some extent, knowing that they were part of being a man but that I would have to live with the pants bulge or "tent" in my bathing suit like it or not.
I would occasionally rub or stroke the hard-ons from at least age 10-11 but likely earlier. That all changed at age 16, older than most on this thread. One evening I was in the shower with yet another hard on (no doubt as to why...by then I had been producing sperm for likely 3-4 years or more with no outlet for it). I had played with it the night before also in the shower and it felt great but didn't lead anywhere. This night, I promised myself I would just touch/play/stroke it as long as I could regardless of the outcome: a sort of experiment that may or may not lead to a result. So, I lay down in the shower-tub with the shower spraying warm water at me from above and set to work. Things felt great like normal at first then I would enter new layers of intensity and pleasure. Even the 2nd wave of this new-found pleasure was new to me, let alone subsequent ones that got even better. In retrospect I remember feeling the blood draining from my head to fill my cock as it continued to grown and harden. I kept at it, awkwardly and out of rhythm I am sure, but maybe, MAYBE?, building up toward something. Eventually, I exploded with the most intense pleasure I had ever felt and what felt like gallons of cum on my hand and tummy being rained on my the shower. I thought "wow, what did I just do?" and immediately felt worried. "Could I get an STD from doing this? Did I just give myself an STD?" This is normal, right? Or is it, maybe I broke something. I had hours that night to think about it and wonder what happened. Over the coming days I pieced together what happened, felt relieved and even proud I was a "man" and the plumbing in my body all seemed to be working well. I loved that, finally, I knew I could cum like I had heard others talking about without knowing much about what they meant. I repeated the feat the next few nights but that first load I shot was incredible. I wonder how much of an orgasm I could have gotten and how much cum would have come out had I known then what I know now about techniques and pleasuring myself.
A few days later my family and I were leaving for a trip. The hotel had a hot tub and I apologize for anyone who may have been in that hot tub that weekend. I could not stop myself from getting off in it. I would just shimmy my suit off with the bubble jets turned on and use the bubbles to hide what I was doing from anyone else walking by or even IN THE HOT TUB with me. I got off multiple times a night that way in the hot tub and loved it every time.
I would occasionally rub or stroke the hard-ons from at least age 10-11 but likely earlier. That all changed at age 16, older than most on this thread. One evening I was in the shower with yet another hard on (no doubt as to why...by then I had been producing sperm for likely 3-4 years or more with no outlet for it). I had played with it the night before also in the shower and it felt great but didn't lead anywhere. This night, I promised myself I would just touch/play/stroke it as long as I could regardless of the outcome: a sort of experiment that may or may not lead to a result. So, I lay down in the shower-tub with the shower spraying warm water at me from above and set to work. Things felt great like normal at first then I would enter new layers of intensity and pleasure. Even the 2nd wave of this new-found pleasure was new to me, let alone subsequent ones that got even better. In retrospect I remember feeling the blood draining from my head to fill my cock as it continued to grown and harden. I kept at it, awkwardly and out of rhythm I am sure, but maybe, MAYBE?, building up toward something. Eventually, I exploded with the most intense pleasure I had ever felt and what felt like gallons of cum on my hand and tummy being rained on my the shower. I thought "wow, what did I just do?" and immediately felt worried. "Could I get an STD from doing this? Did I just give myself an STD?" This is normal, right? Or is it, maybe I broke something. I had hours that night to think about it and wonder what happened. Over the coming days I pieced together what happened, felt relieved and even proud I was a "man" and the plumbing in my body all seemed to be working well. I loved that, finally, I knew I could cum like I had heard others talking about without knowing much about what they meant. I repeated the feat the next few nights but that first load I shot was incredible. I wonder how much of an orgasm I could have gotten and how much cum would have come out had I known then what I know now about techniques and pleasuring myself.
A few days later my family and I were leaving for a trip. The hotel had a hot tub and I apologize for anyone who may have been in that hot tub that weekend. I could not stop myself from getting off in it. I would just shimmy my suit off with the bubble jets turned on and use the bubbles to hide what I was doing from anyone else walking by or even IN THE HOT TUB with me. I got off multiple times a night that way in the hot tub and loved it every time.
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My Mom told me as early as 4 or 5 to keep my hands away from my penis. My first orgasm was around 8, a dry cum. I started by dripping water from a wash cloth on my erect cock in the tub, then using my finger on the back of my cock. I had dry cums until 11, which were amazing. You could have several orgasms on the same erection.
I hit puberty pretty early at 11. That was also the age I saw my first porn, fingered my girl cousin's hairy twat, and masturbated with an older male cousin, who was 16. My 11 year old neighbor also matured early, and he organized circle jerks at sleepovers and Scout camps. We masturbated together in a tree house.
I've been at least daily for over 60 years now, with several orgasms a day during my teens and twenties. Whether I had straight sex, gay sex, or not, I still needed my hand on my penis for the particular sensations it gives me, still do.
I hit puberty pretty early at 11. That was also the age I saw my first porn, fingered my girl cousin's hairy twat, and masturbated with an older male cousin, who was 16. My 11 year old neighbor also matured early, and he organized circle jerks at sleepovers and Scout camps. We masturbated together in a tree house.
I've been at least daily for over 60 years now, with several orgasms a day during my teens and twenties. Whether I had straight sex, gay sex, or not, I still needed my hand on my penis for the particular sensations it gives me, still do.
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I posted the same post over in Confessions/were you taught:
I grew up in the 70’s & 80’s, long before the internet…
I first discovered that I LOVED the sensation of having an erection when I was 6 or 7 yo. I would go stand in the bathroom, drop my pants to my ankles and my little penis would get rock hard immediately. I would get so horny that my stomach would hurt. I would rub my dick on the radiator, but nothing moved my toward an orgasm.
Then when I was 8 or 9 yo, I noticed a small tear in the seam of an oversized pillow that we had. I found an opportunity to stick my hard dick in the tear, the hole was probably 1.5 in, I was able to thrust in and out. It felt good. I sped up and eventually, it felt like a ton of electricity shot through my body. It was AMAZING! The tip of my penis became INCREDIBLY sensitive and ticklish — to the point of discomfort. But that would subside very quickly.
My first dry orgasm!
I found ways to fuck that pillow at least a few times a week!
It wasn’t until I was 10 or 11yo that I discovered that I could achieve an orgasm just with my hands (no props). UREKA! My masturbation frequency increased DRAMATICALLY. Daily, often twice or more in a day.
It wasn’t until I was 14 or 15 yo that I had a wet orgasm and shot cum. I was a late bloomer…
I learned to edge when I was 21 or 22 yo. I just loved the sensation of stroking my cock and learned to back off to avoid cumming. After doing that a few times or so, I realized that those edged orgasms were much more powerful! I can go for hours. It seems like if I go too long, the orgasm is not strong — possibly the result of going too close to the edge and ruining an orgasm? My sweet spot is like 2 to 4 hrs.
In my 50’s and edge at every chance I get!
I grew up in the 70’s & 80’s, long before the internet…
I first discovered that I LOVED the sensation of having an erection when I was 6 or 7 yo. I would go stand in the bathroom, drop my pants to my ankles and my little penis would get rock hard immediately. I would get so horny that my stomach would hurt. I would rub my dick on the radiator, but nothing moved my toward an orgasm.
Then when I was 8 or 9 yo, I noticed a small tear in the seam of an oversized pillow that we had. I found an opportunity to stick my hard dick in the tear, the hole was probably 1.5 in, I was able to thrust in and out. It felt good. I sped up and eventually, it felt like a ton of electricity shot through my body. It was AMAZING! The tip of my penis became INCREDIBLY sensitive and ticklish — to the point of discomfort. But that would subside very quickly.
My first dry orgasm!
I found ways to fuck that pillow at least a few times a week!
It wasn’t until I was 10 or 11yo that I discovered that I could achieve an orgasm just with my hands (no props). UREKA! My masturbation frequency increased DRAMATICALLY. Daily, often twice or more in a day.
It wasn’t until I was 14 or 15 yo that I had a wet orgasm and shot cum. I was a late bloomer…
I learned to edge when I was 21 or 22 yo. I just loved the sensation of stroking my cock and learned to back off to avoid cumming. After doing that a few times or so, I realized that those edged orgasms were much more powerful! I can go for hours. It seems like if I go too long, the orgasm is not strong — possibly the result of going too close to the edge and ruining an orgasm? My sweet spot is like 2 to 4 hrs.
In my 50’s and edge at every chance I get!
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I was a late bloomer. I started looking at Playboy and later Penthouse magazines when I was about 10. Playmate Ellen Michaels, Miss March 1972, was the first playmate I ever saw (but it was about four years on from her appearance). Looking at those magazines, my dick would get super hard, but I didn’t know what to do with it. It was so frustrating! I’d heard of jerking/jacking/beating off, but wasn’t quite sure what it was. I may have even attempted what I thought it was a few times, but nothing seemed to happen.
Finally, five long years later, when I was 15, the breakthrough happened. We were on vacation in Hawaii and the gift shops there had postcards and calendars of topless Hawaiian/Polynesian women—and they let me buy them! I drifted off to sleep one night looking at them, and as I did I started playing with my hard dick. I eventually started moving it back and forth between my thumb and fingers, thinking about a girl back home I had a crush on. It felt good, so I just kept going. Fortunately, it didn’t take long before I ejaculated. I was hooked, and did it probably every night after that for the next 10 to 20 years, lol.
That first method didn’t last long, as I soon switched to stroking it between my thumb and fingers, and soon after moved to gripping it with my first. I also soon discovered rubbing it against the inside of my underwear or on a sheet (or any soft surface) was very pleasurable, and I switched primarily to that method, even though some people say that’s bad for your penis. Today, I do both rubbing against a soft surface and the standard fist-pumping jerk-off.
Finally, five long years later, when I was 15, the breakthrough happened. We were on vacation in Hawaii and the gift shops there had postcards and calendars of topless Hawaiian/Polynesian women—and they let me buy them! I drifted off to sleep one night looking at them, and as I did I started playing with my hard dick. I eventually started moving it back and forth between my thumb and fingers, thinking about a girl back home I had a crush on. It felt good, so I just kept going. Fortunately, it didn’t take long before I ejaculated. I was hooked, and did it probably every night after that for the next 10 to 20 years, lol.
That first method didn’t last long, as I soon switched to stroking it between my thumb and fingers, and soon after moved to gripping it with my first. I also soon discovered rubbing it against the inside of my underwear or on a sheet (or any soft surface) was very pleasurable, and I switched primarily to that method, even though some people say that’s bad for your penis. Today, I do both rubbing against a soft surface and the standard fist-pumping jerk-off.
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This reminds me so much of my own experience, except I was the one that initiated my friend.texasboyy wrote: ↑Sun Jan 01, 2017 8:40 pm A buddy of mine taught me how to jack off at 12 back in the early 70s. I was spending the night and he asked if I wanted to do something he learned from his older brother that would feel great. I said sure and he told me to take all my clothes off.
Can't remember why that didn't sound strange to me at the time, but I figured why not? I immediately stripped naked and he told me to lay on the bed. So I did. He sat next go me and started playing with my dick. It felt awesome!
I got hard and he continue dot stroked until I shot cum all over myself and his hand. It was the best damn thing I had ever felt. He then stripped off his clothes and told me to do him.
He showed me how to do it and he soon shot his load too. Needless to say we jacked each other off every chance we got from that point on. And masterbated when alone, of course. For awhile I can't remember when my dick wasn't in my hands. LOL
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I was taught to masturbate by an older boy when I was 6. He was sitting me and my younger sister and got both of us naked. He showed both of us how to masturbate ourselves and each other, among other things. I cannot remember being hard before this and did need some help from him and my sister to get beyond semi hard, but from that day, I was constantly touching and playing with myself. My sister was the same, it was even remarked on in a school report that said she would grow out of it. I can confirm that she didnt.
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I can remember lying in bed rolling my hard, little penis between my palms for hours when I was about 10 or so. And then I stopped for a while and at 12 discovered gripping my erection -- first like I would hold a pencil
and later in my full fist -- and wondered why I had stopped playing with my cock like I had before. Never stopped enjoying my masturbation, and have maintained a 2-3 orgasms per day habit ever since. The only time I really stopped for any length of time was when I was laid up with a broken leg and really didn't do much of anything but sleep for a few weeks. That first orgasm after that break was intense and messy.

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About 10ish.. i remember my first orgasm. I got it in school, didnt even touch myself… i just came and cum inside my boxers…
After that.. my cousin and i began having sex…
I regret no teacher or so wanted sex with me when i was Young… Damn i would have loved that. A Female Who would wanna fuck a 10yrs old for the first time, would anyone do it?
After that.. my cousin and i began having sex…
I regret no teacher or so wanted sex with me when i was Young… Damn i would have loved that. A Female Who would wanna fuck a 10yrs old for the first time, would anyone do it?
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I really started fumbling around when I was 10 or 11 but really got started after my Mam accidentally walked into the bathroom as I was having bath - sporting a very large boner. Shocked at the size of my erection she bade a hasty retreat.
Later changing in my bedroom, my Dad came in saying we needed to talk. I was expecting a severe reprimand and an explanation on the birds and bees. Instead he told me to sit down, laughing that my Mam had blushed when she had said I had had a very large stiffy. He said he needed to explain some things as he pulled down my pyjamas.
Stroking my cock slowly, he said it was best to treat a cock with respect but complimented me on my size. As can be expected from such attention I rapidly hardened. He pulled my foreskin back stating I must keep the head clean, proceeding to cleanse the tip of dried cum. I groaned as he increased the pace and soon had me blowing a huge load.
That was the first of many such lessons in the art of onanism.
Later changing in my bedroom, my Dad came in saying we needed to talk. I was expecting a severe reprimand and an explanation on the birds and bees. Instead he told me to sit down, laughing that my Mam had blushed when she had said I had had a very large stiffy. He said he needed to explain some things as he pulled down my pyjamas.
Stroking my cock slowly, he said it was best to treat a cock with respect but complimented me on my size. As can be expected from such attention I rapidly hardened. He pulled my foreskin back stating I must keep the head clean, proceeding to cleanse the tip of dried cum. I groaned as he increased the pace and soon had me blowing a huge load.
That was the first of many such lessons in the art of onanism.
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I was a prone masturbator that started at the age of 6. Laying on my stomach, both hands cupped around my little penis and little balls. Pressing my hips down and put pressure on my hands, penis and balls. I have done that for years and had good fun with it before go to sleep. At the age of 12 I noticed that my penis and balls had grown. Wearing pj's with undies was becoming hard. So I only wore my pj's. The dangling of my penis in my pj's gave a nice feeling and soon my hand disappeard inside my pj's. Without any sexual education I found out after some touching that my penis got hard and stroking and jerking gave a nice feeling. One night I started playing with myself and after 'stop and go' I thought am I reaching some sort of peek? A sec after that I came and came hard. I had semen allover my hands and at first a panicked a little. After cleaning myself I was okay with and lots of nice session followed.
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When I was 7...I remember this rush from. The top of my head down to my feet...I was addicted and tried every chance I got! Forst it was dry humping...then I would ride the nose of my teddy bear....then running water...then eventually I learned to touch myself.
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I was around 9 or 10, my friend was the same, his mother was quite sexual and didn't hide much, we were sat in the field hidden behind trees, he started wanking so I was inquisitive and started doing it myself, he started tugging it for me until the intense tingling started, it scared me at first but after a few more times we loved it, I also did this with my other friend when we were 13, that continued into our 20s
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When I was 5 my 8 year old cousin showed me his hard on out behind the chicken house. I was addicted from that day on and played my penis every day. I didn’t ejaculate until I was 11 or 12. It was a total surprise! I was standing in the barn with my jeans around my ankles playing with my erection I had for years. For some reason I began stroking it up and down. I had just rubbed it before. The longer that I did it I started going faster and faster because it was feeling better and better. After a while my cock seemed to swell dramatically and pulse uncontrollably. I didn’t know what was happening and turned it loose watching in amazement as it seemed to take control of my whole body before shooting streams of cloudy liquid into the air. When the orgasm subsided I kicked straw over the semen. The next morning my penis was a little swollen. I thought that I may have injured myself somehow and vowed not to do that again or tell anyone. But, three days later I was back at the same spot in the barn and started stroking the same way that I had before. I enjoyed the orgasm much more than before and at age 77 have never stopped even during 55 years of marriage raising two children. I don’t come as often anymore but the pleasure has never abated.
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As my name suggests lol.. perhaps too early
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It's never too early. Been obsessed with my cock as far back as I can remember - pulling, squeezing, pinching, stretching - and was seriously wanking by the time I was six, when I had my first dry orgasm. Once that happened, I'd wank whenever and wherever I could.
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I started when I was around 11 or 12. A boy in my school showed me how to do it in our changing room before swimming. Back then we had MSN messenger and someone sent me a link to a porn video. I remember my heart beating really fast when I saw it. It was two guys fucking on a striped bed, it must have been czech or something thinking about it now. I started bating and remember being really happy when I first ejaculated properly.
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Same. “Penis playtime” was encouraged from a young age as long as we understood the time and place. My older brother taught me to properly jerk off by about eight.spunkluvr wrote: ↑Fri Mar 07, 2025 4:13 amIt's never too early. Been obsessed with my cock as far back as I can remember - pulling, squeezing, pinching, stretching - and was seriously wanking by the time I was six, when I had my first dry orgasm. Once that happened, I'd wank whenever and wherever I could.
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Started at 12, first ejaculation at 13. At age 8 a young man used to take me in his bicycle to secluded places and show me his erect cock. He would ask me to touch his hard erect cock, which I did every time. Then he would touch my cock and say that some day I too will have a big stiff erect cock just like him. That was the first time I had seen an erect cock. When I touched it, I had no feelings.
My masturbating story: My erections started at 12. That is when I started sharing the bedroom with my father. Before getting erections, I slept in another room with my mother and sisters, which was normal in my town in India. My father was an exhibitionist, also a great masturbation teacher to me. He must have seen the bulge in my shorts when I had an erection or my mother may have told him. It was a "taboo" those days in India to talk about sex.
After dinner, my father and I went to his bedroom to sleep. That is when my lessons started right at home. My father had studied Kama Sutra, a guide to sex by the Hindu scholars from centuries ago. The old Hindu way of teaching included the Guru (teacher) doing the act in front of students. They had to learn visually everything they saw. The Guru did not give lectures. Students could ask questions.
My daily routine when we went to sleep in the bedroom: My father left the light on and lied naked. He saw me watching him. Without saying a word, my father pulled the foreskin up and exposed the big cock head. Then he started slowly stroking his big fat cock. I could see the foreskin going up and down, which was very exciting, because I could not pull my foreskin to expose my cock head. This went on for several minutes until his big cock was hard and erect. Then he took a deep breath and relaxed. (Today we call it edging, because he never ejaculated in front of me.) His cock was erect for many minutes. All that learning by watching him was good for me. My only regret to this day is not going to him and watch him, ask questions after telling him that I was getting erections. I should have asked him to teach me everything he knew from Kama Sutra. That would have been good for both of us.
On weekends, I would go to the empty school near my home and start stroking my cock. It was a wonderful feeling to see my cock grow and become stiff. I did that for a year. When I was 13, my ejaculation started. I started masturbating and ejaculated. The same year, my father became blind. He would sit around the home stroking his big cock several times a day. He would expose the cock head by pulling back the foreskin. He would stay erect for a long time. When he was flaccid, the foreskin did not cover the entire cock head, only covered part of his cock head, may be due to him masturbating for a very long time. He knew that I was watching and probably wanted me to learn. I wanted a big cock just like his.
At 25, after coming to the US, I had a lot of privacy, though I was living in a small apartment with my older brother during the first year. He used to work long hours, that gave me a chance to explore before he came home. I tried to pull back my foreskin several times. Finally, one day I pulled back my foreskin. It was not clean. It was very sensitive. After that I learned about cock hygiene. Since then, I have been a regular masturbator, because I had privacy to enjoy myself. After loosening up my foreskin, the pleasure has been wonderful.
My masturbating story: My erections started at 12. That is when I started sharing the bedroom with my father. Before getting erections, I slept in another room with my mother and sisters, which was normal in my town in India. My father was an exhibitionist, also a great masturbation teacher to me. He must have seen the bulge in my shorts when I had an erection or my mother may have told him. It was a "taboo" those days in India to talk about sex.
After dinner, my father and I went to his bedroom to sleep. That is when my lessons started right at home. My father had studied Kama Sutra, a guide to sex by the Hindu scholars from centuries ago. The old Hindu way of teaching included the Guru (teacher) doing the act in front of students. They had to learn visually everything they saw. The Guru did not give lectures. Students could ask questions.
My daily routine when we went to sleep in the bedroom: My father left the light on and lied naked. He saw me watching him. Without saying a word, my father pulled the foreskin up and exposed the big cock head. Then he started slowly stroking his big fat cock. I could see the foreskin going up and down, which was very exciting, because I could not pull my foreskin to expose my cock head. This went on for several minutes until his big cock was hard and erect. Then he took a deep breath and relaxed. (Today we call it edging, because he never ejaculated in front of me.) His cock was erect for many minutes. All that learning by watching him was good for me. My only regret to this day is not going to him and watch him, ask questions after telling him that I was getting erections. I should have asked him to teach me everything he knew from Kama Sutra. That would have been good for both of us.
On weekends, I would go to the empty school near my home and start stroking my cock. It was a wonderful feeling to see my cock grow and become stiff. I did that for a year. When I was 13, my ejaculation started. I started masturbating and ejaculated. The same year, my father became blind. He would sit around the home stroking his big cock several times a day. He would expose the cock head by pulling back the foreskin. He would stay erect for a long time. When he was flaccid, the foreskin did not cover the entire cock head, only covered part of his cock head, may be due to him masturbating for a very long time. He knew that I was watching and probably wanted me to learn. I wanted a big cock just like his.
At 25, after coming to the US, I had a lot of privacy, though I was living in a small apartment with my older brother during the first year. He used to work long hours, that gave me a chance to explore before he came home. I tried to pull back my foreskin several times. Finally, one day I pulled back my foreskin. It was not clean. It was very sensitive. After that I learned about cock hygiene. Since then, I have been a regular masturbator, because I had privacy to enjoy myself. After loosening up my foreskin, the pleasure has been wonderful.