It's funny because in everyday life I'm not submissive at all but as soon as we're in the bedroom I go 180 degrees in the opposite direction
The older I get the less serious I take myself and everything else.Love older women, incest, and erotic stories. Not afraid to admit I definitely have some mommy issues as well!
I never was attracted to my own mother but the fantasy is what I chase after. I think wisdom is understanding the true difference between what you enjoy in your head versus actually pursuing something. It's like I finally feel the shame being lifted from years of not wanting to talk about sex. Solo play is very important to me. I have some toys including flesh lights and a vibrating ring. To the guys out there, I would recommend going flesh light - Not only do they feel amazing but they are a great alternative to just using your hand. Look up death grip syndrome! Get some of that sensitivity back and let the toy do all of the heavy lifting.
Recently experimented using a pump for the first time - very cool! I tried using it with the sleeve insert and it was so intense I thought I was going to pass out
Hope everyone is having a fun night
Thanks for having me!