When did you know you are bi?

[jemstone]

I discovered masturbation solo at age 9 in the bathtub, but I knew I am bi at age 10 when I realized I liked watching my best friend, 11, get into and out of his Speedos in the small changing room in the cabana we shared with his family (South Florida). He was blond, athletic, and had a great body, which I watched mature through puberty for a few years. I never hit on him. It was not until I was 14 that I touched my first cock (he was 13) on a Scout campout (my "Scout Grope" story here on ST).

I was a virgin when I got married at 21, but when you know you are bi and choose to marry a woman, you never lose the strong desire to masturbate watching male images. Some of my regular online bate buddies say they realized they are bi when they sucked a cock at a young age! Others tell me they realized they are bi when, watching hetero porn, they found themselves watching the cock more than the woman's body.

[wanttotryit]

was at a stag party watching porn flicks,,,realized i was watching his cock more than the women..i was so hard i had to jerk off in the bathroom

[love2edge]

From an early age I was always fascinated by cock images and pussy.

[rosco1]

I sort of realised when I put on porn to get my wife turned on. Then realised we were both getting aroused by the big hard cocks.

[oldfan]

Suspected I was 30+ years ago when I fantasized about diving Vick and getting fucked while I masturbated. Knew for sure when I finally had a chance to play with another guy two years ago, loved every minute of it, wanted more and found a local guy to play with.

[iamnaked]

To bi or not to bi, that is the question.
As a young boy, boys were available so we played with each other.
Then we discovered girls oh my..
I think I am a part of a very large percentage of so called ‘bi guys’ that are just horny as ell’ and would prefer straight sex but just can’t ,,,,,
~You can’t always get what you want~~~ but you get what you need ~~~
But I still think cocks are cool…

[mikeyjo]

When we were in Vegas for my brothers wedding. My dad and I were sharing a room and on a half joking whim I suggested we watch a porn pay per view. I noticed my dad nonchalantly stroking himself under the covers. I started stroking but found myself glancing over at my dad. Finally I got up the nerve and pulled my covers off and let my hard cock out. My dad did the same thing. We both couldnt take our eyes off of the others cock and both stroked to orgasm. that was when I realized that not only was i bi but my dad too.

[fireaxe14]

I discovered that I am bisexual about 4-4 years ago, after having my 1st mutual stroking session with another panties wearing male. We ended up watching each other stroking ourselves in panties and decided to reach over and slowly start stroking each other’s cocks. It was the most amazing feeling!
Especially watching each other having an Explosion in each other’s hands!
It felt so amazing having another hand stroking me off! And feeling the other guys cock jumping and pulsating in my hands!
Paul

[sunnygirl]

For me I was pretty sure I was bi growing up: I was making out and fooling around with as many girls as boys.

[svengalideck]

To bi or not to bi, that is the question.
..

I think I am a part of a very large percentage of so called ‘bi guys’ that are just horny as ell’ and would prefer straight sex but just can’t ,,,,,

But I still think cocks are cool…

During the late teens, fems in short supply and although I was 'current' with one, I just knew that something else existed... like most seeing was believing.
Only one event in 1970s, next about 4 years later... latest in 2010's or so...

[fireaxe14]

I found out that I am a bisexual male when I started enjoying watching males stroking themselves and I wanted to know how it feels!
Paul

[sven79]

I assume I'm like a quite large number of guys who prefer sex with females but are just generally so horny that if there's no gal around, guys are being considered as well. I don't think that's a true "bi" orientation, but then I don't really give much about labels, so if anyone wants to put me as bi for it, so bi it.

Personally, it applied to me mostly for the time before the first girlfriend - that was the time when there was a lot going on with boys. I am getting increasingly interested in revisiting this, though, especially with guys who share similar fantasies and fetishes.

[fireaxe14]

I discovered that I was very bisexual curious when I started getting really turned on by watching guys stroking themselves and guys giving guys a HJ or BJ! And I really wanted to explore being stroked and sucked off by another male!
Paul

[mash2014]

I never considered myself as Bi. I've been attracted to women but I have had certain activities with men. At a very young age, I was touched by a man. I wasn't sure what was happening but I told no one, I remember it felt good. Then later in life I had a couple of encounters with men, and these were not the correct men. Later on, I felt sexually attracted to a man. I had deep fantasies with him. I have felt men coming so close I could feel their cock, and I liked it. I've masturbated thinking of men, I enjoy watching some beautiful cocks. But I still prefer women.
One day I found in a list something about heteroflexibility, and it was exactly how I felt.

HETEROFLEXIBLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.

[sven79]

I never considered myself as Bi. I've been attracted to women but I have had certain activities with men. At a very young age, I was touched by a man. I wasn't sure what was happening but I told no one, I remember it felt good. Then later in life I had a couple of encounters with men, and these were not the correct men. Later on, I felt sexually attracted to a man. I had deep fantasies with him. I have felt men coming so close I could feel their cock, and I liked it. I've masturbated thinking of men, I enjoy watching some beautiful cocks. But I still prefer women.
One day I found in a list something about heteroflexibility, and it was exactly how I felt.

HETEROFLEXIBLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.

I am very comfortable with this, it pretty much describes exactly how I feel.

[toesucker17]

I'd taught myself how to masturbate at age 13 by getting naked and humping my bed on my stomach until I came. I continued to masturbate that way just about every night until this one night that following summer, I was staying over at my friend's house (he was a year younger than me). I don't even remember how it started but we ended up getting naked in his bed, I think because he said it would feel better. After getting each other horny by talking about hot girls we knew, he started jacking off. I then flipped over on my stomach & started humping the bed and he looks over at me & is like "Dude, what the fuck are you doing? I told him I was masturbating, & so he showed me how to do it properly. So we jacked off together, cumming at about the same time. We didn't touch each other, but for some reason I kept feeling compelled to rub my bare feet on his bare feet. He didn't seem to care. That happened every time we got the chance, then about a year later, it was summer 2002 and he was spending the night again, we were naked and masturbating in bed when he suddenly rolled over on top of me and started grinding on me. This was new and a little scary but it felt so good! He was kissing my nipples and grinding his cock on my cock. Eventually he came on my chest, and then grabbed my cock and jerked me off until I came.

For the next 2 years we messed around every chance we got. In bed, in the pool changing room, in his dad's garage, the woods (I'll never forget the time he humped me against a tree. Each time we would get naked and grind our cocks together while sucking each other's nipples, and whoever would cum first would then stroke the other off. It was especially fun when he'd be home alone. I'd come over and we'd spend the day totally naked humping each other's cocks, our bare feet interlocked, cumming over and over again and being as vocal as we wanted. We eventually started exchanging blowjobs, he first blew me after cumming on me after another grinding session, and the next time we fooled around I blew him in his dad's garage, I remember the taste and the warmth. I remember not liking it at first but as I got more into it the more I liked it. He didn't cum in my mouth that first time, he pulled out and came on my bare chest (yay for being shirtless) and I absolutely loved that feeling. Also a few times we even gave each other footjobs in his backyard jacuzzi while his mom was right inside the kitchen. By now we both knew what being gay was and how it was looked down on, (especially considering we went to Catholic school) so we told ourselves we weren't gay (by now I was also becoming very attracted to girls as well) we told ourselves we were just two horny virgins looking for an orgasm. And for a long time I believed it...

Sadly, the messing around with my friend ended after 2 years. He got a girlfriend and lost his virginity and didn't need me anymore. He and I never messed around again and eventually drifted apart. In a frustrating twist he's actually become a rabid anti-gay bible thumper while I am a semi-closeted bisexual man.

[talia0409]

The summer before I started high school, but first I have to back up one summer. My bff and I are only a month apart and we grew up doing musicals together. Ever since I was young and my mom took my brother and I to a nudist resort (yeah told you my mom was cool lol) I've loved being naked as much as possible. I sleep naked every night (except during my period, and even then I'm topless), so whenever my bff and I would have sleepovers, obviously I'd be naked and it didn't take too long to convince her to lose her PJs. When we were 13, at our first sleepover after my first orgasm I told her about it and she told me she'd been masturbating for a few months at that point but hadn't told me! We masturbated together that night, playing footsies and something about being naked with her, hearing her moan, feeling her bare feet on my bare feet, it just overcame me, and I rolled over and kissed her. I didn't understand why I just wanted to. We wound up making out and masturbating all night that night. We said we were "practicing making out" for future boyfriends but I was really enjoying it as an experience and not just a lesson lol So we did that almost every weekend for over a year, then the following summer I had my first real encounter with a boy at the nudist camp. He was my first male kiss, he sucked my nipples and my toes and he fingered me. When I got home, I showed my bff what he'd done to me, sucking her nipples and toes and fingering her off. She then returned all 3 favors lol Later that summer she was off to band camp and she'd gotten a boyfriend in the band. I'd encouraged her to go as far as she wanted with him if they got alone time. When she got back she reported they'd gone as far as we had...BUT he'd also eaten her pussy. This time she demonstrated on me and I came so fucking hard! I'll never forget the first time her tongue hit my clit! And then I did my best to repay her. Omg her pussy was heaven! So wet and warm and delicious