1st time being given a HJ or BJ by another male

[fireaxe14]

As a straight married male,68 years old, I would love to hear about others 1st experience with being given a HJ or BJ by another experienced male!
How did it feel? Did you enjoy the experience? Were you surprised and did you want more?
At what age did this happen to you?
My 1st experience with being given a HJ and BJ by another male, was when I was about 22 years old and I was very surprised and it felt amazing. And I wanted more!
This older male mentor friend, taught me so very much about my sexuality and the pleasures of solo stroking pleasures with myself and exploring the joys of his hands and mouth!
Paul

[oldfan]

I have only had one experience with a HJ /BJ by another male and that was almost two years ago when I was 68. He was a male erotic massage therapist and sure knew what he was doing. The feel of his hand on my cock was amazing - being a man he knew how to stroke and please a cock! Then when he used his mouth I was in another world!

I was surprised at how different it felt from what I have experienced with a woman. He knew the right pressure, sensitive locations and speed of working my cock without me instructing him. I loved every minute of it! BTW, his was the first cock other than my own that I ever handled and sucked. He seemed to really enjoy what I did to him as he had a great cum into the back of my throat.

Did I want more? Absolutely! I crave cock every day now and really hope to someday find a local buddy to routinely play with.

[fireaxe14]

I so agree, a male really knows how to give pleasure to another male. It’s surprising how well a guy can give another male pleasure! I love the way an experienced male knows how to stroke, edge and tease me to an Amazing/Awesome Big Explosion!
The last 2 years, I have been searching for another experienced like minded male for more of this awesome experience!
Only I have no desire to suck off another male cocktail. Only the pleasure of stroking him, edging him and teasing him to an amazing Explosion. I love the feeling of making him jumping and pulsating in my hands as I make him Explode in my hands, I love seeing how much Cum he can shoot out. But, I am completely open to being stroked and sucked off! There is something so very erotic and special about being given a HJ/BJ by another male
Thanks for your reply to my post!
Keep looking, there are lots of like minded males to explore with!
Paul

[14471]

Well, as far as handjobs go, my first(s) were with my best friend during our sleepovers.
The first time I came was quite unexpected. I was humping a stuffed animal while my friend told me dirty stories.
After that, he and I spent the next few years helping each other "get off" during our sleepovers.
We were just helping each other out, until we got girlfriends.

My first real blowjob (until completion) was from an older adult male.
He sort of tricked me into the situation.
I tried to explain to him that " I'm not gay". He just replied, "Neither am I".
I must confess, it was an intense orgasm. I came a lot.
All of which, he swallowed.

[Sean1969]

11 years...both frotted together

[svengalideck]

11 years...both frotted together

Not so much, exactly 20 and had moved into my own flat; had a gf but wanted to experience male bonding for a while; short version- we met thru mail order sex mag contacts; he was a young foreigner in our country on military duty; came by and we drank and talked before stripping for some intimacy.
He had an enormous cock compared to mine and gave me a full service and requested same so down I went. Had no chance of getting such a large, fat cock successfully in my mouth but enjoyed every second.

Later we moved to bedroom and after kissing some time in the darkness he moved to impale me on his weapon- so the hj/ bj were not completed that day... was an experience of a kind not to be repeated for another 20 years, decL

[love2edge]

Two weeks ago...

[mash2014]

My first Hj/BJ was the same night. We had been drinking heavily and he touched my cock and it felt great. We 69’d but due to the alcohol and drugs I didn’t really feel what I know I wanted to feel. The second time was similar.
I do remember feeling both males grab my cock differently than how a woman would grab it. And grabbing their cock was very arousing. I want to repeat with the right man and no drugs or alcohol. I want to play with his cock as he plays with mine.

[eastbaycal925]

My first hj/bj was when I was 12 from my 16 year old brother. I thought I was dreaming the first times. It was awesome. Went on for about 6 years.

[rathb69]

The first time another man stroked and fondled me I was in my 40's. I wanted him to make me cum, but as things worked out, I jacked off after playing with his cock (my first time touching a penis since one in my early teens) while watching him play with himself. I kind of did it on a dare from a close female friend who encouraged me (we encouraged each other) to pursue some of my male-male fantasies. Once this door was open (this happened at an Adult Bookstore), I have been very open to playing with other men if the situation is right.

Not too long after, I let a man briefly suck my cock, but not to completion.

I have fantasized about letting other men play with my cock (and have done it a few times), but have not yet cum by another man's hand. As far as receiving a BJ from another male, BJ's have never really been my thing, but I could get into it if someone else (female or male) was watching.

[matureplayer]

For HJ the real first was when I was an early teen, not yet physically mature. I stayed with a cousin who was about 4 years older, and after we went to bed he started a game in which we would touch/tickle while the other pretended to be asleep. This led to underwear being pulled down, and playing with each other’s penis. Mine was maybe 3 inches, and got a little stiff pointing straight up. My cousin stroked it with his fingers, and it felt pretty good but I guess I was too young to cum. His penis was fully developed, probably 6 inches with pubic hair. It got very hard and was pointing up along his body. I liked holding it, and playing with it. After awhile we quit playing, and I heard rustling from under his covers, then after awhile a long soft groan. I am sure he masturbated.

Many years later my first time getting a HJ to completion was in an adult bookstore arcade. I was in a booth watching a movie and masturbating but hadn’t locked the door. It opened and a guy looked in, and entered after I nodded. He came in and unzipped and started jacking off too. Pretty soon I moved my hand to his cock and his moved to mine. We played like that awhile, varying speed and hand position. After a couple more minutes he murmured “I’m gonna cum” so I sped up my stroking, he thrust out his pelvis and started ejaculating. I kept stroking until he was completely done. He then reached out to my cock and whispered “I wanna make you cum” and proceeded to stroke it. Seeing him shoot had made me really horny and it wasn’t long before I started spurting, my first cum with another man. We cleaned up, said thanks and left.

The first BJ from a man happened when I had gone to SanFran for a conference, and after a couple days was really horny. I knew there were many bookstores and arcades there, and had read about gloryholes. I was somewhat fearful about diseases, and stopped in a drug store and bought a pack of condoms. I wandered into NorthBeach and found a bookstore. I nervously looked around at all the magazines and sex gear, which of cours made me even hornier than before. After awhile I entered the arcade, and look into a couple open booths. One had a clear gloryhole, so I entered, closed the door, and put in money to start the video. Typical hardcore porn started, and soon I had my hard cock out and was stroking it. After a bit I notice some shadows through the hole, then soon saw a finger come through and circle the hole beckoning me. I took out one of the condoms, rolled it down my cock and then stuck my cock through. It was soon enveloped in a warm mouth, that started skillfully sucking. I had been so horny, and the setting and porn playing had me so aroused that I don’t think I lasted more than a minute before my cock started throbbing, shooting my load into the rubber. When I finished cumming, and the mouth released me, I started to pull my cock back from the hole. Surprisingly to me the rubber started to slide off, so I wrapped my fingers around it and pulled back gently. It became clear that the guy on the other end was holding it, so I just let go and let my softening clock slip out letting him have the souvenir. I wiped the cum off of my cock, tucked it into my pants and left, somewhat disappointed that it had finished so fast.

[rathb69]

Many years later my first time getting a HJ to completion was in an adult bookstore arcade. I was in a booth watching a movie and masturbating but hadn’t locked the door. It opened and a guy looked in, and entered after I nodded. He came in and unzipped and started jacking off too. Pretty soon I moved my hand to his cock and his moved to mine. We played like that awhile, varying speed and hand position. After a couple more minutes he murmured “I’m gonna cum” so I sped up my stroking, he thrust out his pelvis and started ejaculating. I kept stroking until he was completely done. He then reached out to my cock and whispered “I wanna make you cum” and proceeded to stroke it. Seeing him shoot had made me really horny and it wasn’t long before I started spurting, my first cum with another man. We cleaned up, said thanks and left.

This is pretty close to my first experience, however on that day I was very horny and went to the arcade with a purpose. I went into a booth and left the door wide open, removed my shorts, and began to masturbate. I wanted other men to walk by and see me wanking.

The man I came into my booth, stroked me for a little while, before eventually closing the door (although we both were nervous, as I mentioned, part of my fantasy/desire was to be seen so being seen playing with another man's cock would have raised it another level.) Anyway, although I fulfilled a few of my fantasies (play with a cock, let a man stroke me, jack off while being watched), I wanted to jack him off to completion or have him ejaculate on me while I masturbated since I was sitting and he was standing with his cock even with my face.

[blackboxer500]

One night my best bud in college and I were stoned and drinking and the talk turned to sex and I sort of steered the conversation toward blowjobs specifically, because I had long held a desire to suck a guy off. I’m mostly straight but with a fondness for hard, ejaculating cocks, and he’s mostly straight, tall, and good looking with endless charisma and always had been chased by the girls. So he really liked getting sucked and had stories to tell. I told him I thought about giving blow jobs sometimes and asked if he was interested. There had been enough weed and booze to loosen us both up and he said why not. We got undressed and started jacking each other, then applying hand lotion for lube. We both liked it and soon I came. That made me want to suck him even more so I took matters into my mouth and must have been good, or good enough, because he soon blew in my mouth. After that he started sucking my cock, but because of the late hour and our level of intoxication, we soon called it a night. We never spoke of that night again and carried on as if it never happened.

[norcalman]

As a young teen, my cousin and I began jerking off together. After some time we decided to jerk each other off. I remember how absolutely amazing it felt to have another person making me cum. I also was a surprised how it felt stroking a cock that was not my own.

[iamnaked]

I was 16 and a guy my age caught me naked at a local swimming hole.
As I had done many times, when I got near this popular swimming hole I’d stash all my clothes in a bag and hide them.
I had been there alone for almost an hour then he showed up, dropped his shorts and took a dip. I sorta knew him, he was my age.
He swam to me as I sat on the small boat dock but just treaded water in front of me and stared at my growing penis.
He offered me a hand job then asked where my clothes were. I told him someone stole them and I was stuck here till dark. Then I’d have to walk home, over five miles away.
He offered a ride and I took it.
He took me to his place and said mom and dad are TV addicts and won’t even see us go in.
Once in his room with me hard as a rock. He had me sit on the foot of the bed and handed me a hustler magazine.
He said, “Just look at the pictures while I suck you off”
Who was I to say no ?
I lasted less than 10 seconds but he got one of my largest loads.
He found out I was an exhibitionist and submissive.
The next weekend he had me naked with no clothes with me at all, in his big dodge sedan with five of his friends, two boys and three girls, everyone was fully clothed.
The seven of us wound up at his place when his parents were away.
He made me suck all three dicks, his first and talked the girls into letting me eat them out.
I went out many times with him and his friends.
We had fun for several years.

[markd90638]

I learned to masturbate when I was 9. It was on a boyscout camping trip and we were all laying on the ground in our sleeping bags. The other boys were talking about what they were doing and I remember them saying “just keep going, you will k ow when it happens”. The other boys were all reaching into the other sleeping bags to give their neighbor a “hand”. I was way too scared to do that. Fast forward when I was in my mid 50s and I met a guy with a large porn collection. I went to his house when his wife was gone and we would watch porn together. One day I offers to give him a handjob. I was really nervous because I had never touched another man. He was in his 60s, a bit over weight. His cock was rock hard, I got my hand all lined up and started stroking him. I know what I like (medium pressure right under the head) so that I how I stroked him. He lasted about 30 seconds and shot a huge load. I remember how his cum felt running down the back of my hand. It felt super weird. We traded places and he finished me off.

[fireaxe14]

Well, as far as handjobs go, my first(s) were with my best friend during our sleepovers.
The first time I came was quite unexpected. I was humping a stuffed animal while my friend told me dirty stories.
After that, he and I spent the next few years helping each other "get off" during our sleepovers.
We were just helping each other out, until we got girlfriends.

My first real blowjob (until completion) was from an older adult male.
He sort of tricked me into the situation.
I tried to explain to him that " I'm not gay". He just replied, "Neither am I".
I must confess, it was an intense orgasm. I came a lot.
All of which, he swallowed.
I totally agree, that 1st time was the most amazing feeling, blowing my load in his mouth, and feeling him sucking me dry. I really loved it!
Paul

[svengalideck]

Age 21, 40 + years ago... was a little intimidating because he was huge; not tall but massive wide cock? What do they feed you?
Make out session on couch, mutual bj then off to the br for extended couple of hours.
He got me to fuck him first, then started on me- hurt like hell but I slept like a baby afterwards!
Dont think we shared cums and unfortunately opportunity for repeat wasnt possible...

[goodniteswearer89]

My first time being given a hj or bj by another male was when I was in my teens and it was with my younger brother we were messing around one night and decided to give each other a bj but before we did we knew we each had to get hard before we could really enjoy it so we started off with hand jobs before we each decided to try a blowjob. This happened cause he came in my room one summer night after our parents went to bed and asked me if I knew what a blow job and hand job were I told him and then asked if he wanted to see what it felt like he thought about it for a little while then decided he wanted to see so I went and locked my bedroom door and we both stripped naked and gave each other a hand job then after I seen he was good and hard and ready I asked him again if he still wanted to proceed and he said yes so I got down on my knees and put his penis in my mouth and proceeded to suck on it like I had seen in the pornos I had watched a few times. After I few minutes we then stop and switch and he does the same thing to me I tell him if he does it long enough he will get a surprise and make me cum and I then explain that cum is what gets girls pregnant and then take my penis out of his mouth and continue to jerk off until I can feel it coming i then grab some tissues off a desk in my room and proceed to jerk off into them and shoot my cum in them and then show my brother and tell him in a few years he will be able to do the same and will then have to be careful when he gets with a girl and not get her pregnant. This then leads me to explain what a condom is and I pull one out from a box hidden in my underwear drawer and show it to him and tell him it goes over your penis when you get ready to have sex with a girl.

[jemstone]

Like Matureplayer (see above), the first HJ I had from another guy in an arcade when I was 76! I am in a good marriage but she lost interest in sex 12 years ago, the sex was very vanilla anyway, and we gave up when she really was no good at even a HJ. So the horny got to me and I began visiting the arcade. Two of my stories here on ST are about my trips to the arcade. Also, my story "Warm Storm" here is a fantasy about a male college professor who teaches a female student how to give her boyfriend a HJ, at her request.