Masturbation and Pornography

[timcrav]

Awareness of the thrill to be had between our legs probably came early in life for most of us - in my case a warm, seductive sensation while climbing a pole in a playground. Not many years later I had a busy playground between my legs that I'd visit every night in bed, excited by the peeks up skirts I'd gotten that day - back then all girls wore dresses to school. At about the same time I first became aware of pornography when I came upon a discarded "skin mag" while walking in the woods. I took it home and looking at it got my penis even more excited as I stroked and fondled it.

So why does pornography affect us so? True, it displays what we lust for, whether the open invitation of widely spread legs or the maddening frustration of deliberate sexual tease, but I think the real source of its power is the fundamental human need for communication. I love knowing that other people understand my desires, and have created material deliberately intended to exploit my erotic needs and weaknesses, and to make me need still more. I like to think that the girl I'm watching knows exactly what she's doing to me, and enjoys knowing that I'm helplessly jerking off to her. I hope she knows how grateful I am for her maddening gift to me!

So, does any of this make sense, or am I just making a mountain out of a hard-on? I'd love to hear what others have to say.

[happychappy]

I like porn. Since I was a teenager I've enjoyed looking at porn. Today, there is porn at a few clicks that is way beyond anything available to young masturbator in the 1980s. I never actually masturbate to porn, but I enjoy a lengthy prelude looking at images, videos, and reading stories, endlessly fascinated by what excites me and what I find distasteful. Many things can produce a rush of blood to the groin, but when it comes to actually getting down to some serious masturbating I rely totally on my imagination.

[llugguss]

I enjoy masturbation with porn. It's really great way to cum

[rathb69]

A good and enjoyable part of my education has been through pornography:

Magazines and images growing up:
- I saw naked women (boobs) for the first time in a Playboy magazine
- I saw pussy for the first time in a Penthouse magazine
- I saw images of a blowjob for the first time on playing cards that boys had in the restroom in middle school

Video
- I saw a man masturbate (among many other sexual things) in a XXX movie as a late blooming teen. Later that night I tried what I saw the man do and jacked off for the first time. I'll never forget that great first time orgasm helped along by what I saw in the porn movie.
- I have been able to satisfy my curiosity about a lot of things I heard about, but had never done (many watched and tried with female partners) thanks to VHS tapes, DVDs, and the internet.
- Although I've seen, purchased, and viewed many types of porn over the years, one of my favorite types to watch is solo male masturbation. Sometimes its all about women and couples, but other times seeing hard cocks and watching men jack off feeds my imagination and fantasies ..

[timcrav]

- Although I've seen, purchased, and viewed many types of porn over the years, one of my favorite types to watch is solo male masturbation. Sometimes its all about women and couples, but other times seeing hard cocks and watching men jack off feeds my imagination and fantasies ..

Yes, I find that I'm sometimes excited by watching a man masturbate too, especially when I can see the porn that's he's jerking to. If it's something that turns me on as well, then I'm excited by knowing exactly how he feels, and enjoy stroking along with him, as if we're urging each other towards orgasm.

[steelydon]

I'm pretty sure the vast majority of us enjoy watching a man pleasuring himself to orgasm and for me one of the best ways of doing that is one-to-one on cam, watching and being watched.

[love2squirt]

Your reasoning I had as a horny kid

[rathb69]

- I have been able to satisfy my curiosity about a lot of things I heard about, but had never done (many watched and tried with female partners) thanks to VHS tapes, DVDs, and the internet.
- Although I've seen, purchased, and viewed many types of porn over the years, one of my favorite types to watch is solo male masturbation. Sometimes its all about women and couples, but other times seeing hard cocks and watching men jack off feeds my imagination and fantasies ..

Sometimes when watching porn with female partners it was a prelude to penetrative sex, but probably as much it led to masturbation while watching the sex on screen. In my younger years I enjoyed my partner seeing me get turned on by women with big boobs and barely legal teens.

Later, I loved watching videos which included same-sex couples (usually it was two women interacting) and liked when my partner got off watching two women eating each other out. However, I have watched some videos with female partners that included male-male sex and men jacking off. It was very erotic and liberating to have my partner see me get turned on and then masturbate to the men on screen (mostly when they were sucking each other's cocks or jacking off). Even when I was playfully laughed at or told "you are such a perv" by one particular partner, I knew she liked it because she was the one who chose the tapes! With a different partner, I told her I liked watching men jack off and she requested that I bring my favorite DVDs so we could watch them together ...

[tefipagi]

jerk only with porn!

[mh7501]

Oh! Wow! When did you start masturbating? Or did your nanny take you to the playground when you were a teen? For me, it doesn't make any sense. I'm sorry.

[mash2014]

A good and enjoyable part of my education has been through pornography:

Magazines and images growing up:
- I saw naked women (boobs) for the first time in a Playboy magazine
- I saw pussy for the first time in a Penthouse magazine
- I saw images of a blowjob for the first time on playing cards that boys had in the restroom in middle school

Video
- I saw a man masturbate (among many other sexual things) in a XXX movie as a late blooming teen. Later that night I tried what I saw the man do and jacked off for the first time. I'll never forget that great first time orgasm helped along by what I saw in the porn movie.
- I have been able to satisfy my curiosity about a lot of things I heard about, but had never done (many watched and tried with female partners) thanks to VHS tapes, DVDs, and the internet.
- Although I've seen, purchased, and viewed many types of porn over the years, one of my favorite types to watch is solo male masturbation. Sometimes its all about women and couples, but other times seeing hard cocks and watching men jack off feeds my imagination and fantasies ..

Like most of us, I watched porn and got very excited, and watching a man masturbate and cum is one of the most erotic things I’ve seen in porn. Someone on this forum commented that men watch the men and women watch the women. I think it’s true.
I have never masturbated with a woman although I would love it. Most women are shy (?) or embarrassed talking about their sexual experiences because they would be labeled as sluts. But most of us prefer sluts to prudes.

[jeep]

My wife and I enjoy masturbating to porn, usually side-by-side on the living room couch. I jack off solo lots and often warm up for an eat out/fuck session edging to internet porn.

The wife likes rubbing off to big cock videos (I’m an upper end of average, thick-cock guy myself) and often tells me that she still loves my cumshots the best. Reassurance!

I like a variety of porn but it almost always comes down to watching male ejaculations closely: guy jacking off solo, partner pounding the juices out, guy pulling out of an orifice and splattering all over his partner. When I get to that point, it’s like the world resides in that cumshooting cock slit…

[fastesthandinthewest]

Oh! Wow! When did you start masturbating? Or did your nanny take you to the playground when you were a teen? For me, it doesn't make any sense. I'm sorry.

[jeep]

??

Started jacking off at 12 1/2 and cumming wet at 13. Who said anything about “a nanny?”

[priclypair]

I was about 10 when a friend and I found a Playboy magazine in a vacant lot. Looking at the pictures of naked women had an effect on me I couldn't define, but I liked it. About that same time, a friends older brother began getting me to pull down my pants and suck on my cock as I lay on the bed. I was too young to comprehend what was happening, but it did give me sensations that were not unlike those that came from seeing those pictures. Some years passed before I again got to look at Playboy again, but there it was, that crazy disturbing but pleasant feelings. To this day, I almost always do porn when I masturbate

[pilgrim998]

I found my parents stash of hardcore Swedish porn magazines (Color Climax if you remember those) when I was very young. 9 or 10 I think. I learned the basic anatomy of sex from them and I think it has definitely affected my desires and fantasies ever since. There are a couple of images I remember which turned my on then and have done ever since when I remember them. One was of a clothed woman and a naked man standing next to one another. In one shot she is holding his cock, which is soft, and he is looking at something out of shot. In the next pic his cock is hard and they are both looking at it. On another page there is a women sitting on the floor with her legs spread wide. She has her top pulled up and her tits out. There is a man standing either side of her and touching her face with their hard cocks. She has her eyes closed in ecstacy and her mouth slightly open. In the next pic both men are cumming on her face and the spunk has dropped down on to her tits. She has pulled her pussy lips apart and her pussy is glistening wet.

I still often use porn when I’m masturbating to get me going, but I usually then get lost in fantasies and memories (including these pics) before I cum. The type of porn I like is definitely influenced by what I saw in those magazines. I like porn involving clothed women with naked men and I particularly like that situation in real life and I like receiving a nice standing handjob. I like gangbang porn and women pleasuring multiple men, especially a bit of bi mmf.

[spunkluvr]

I always start with porn when I'm wanking but my imagination soon takes over. It's much filthier!