Men and women, favorite focual point when masturbating?

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Men and women, favorite focual point when masturbating?

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Especially towards the end when you know your about to come.

As a straight male, obviously I like to look at all things beautiful of a naked woman. Her ass, thighs, eyes, face, of course her pussy. But I'm definitely a breast guy, especially when watching a female masturbating. Nice breasts definitely are the ultimate make me come view.

I was curious about others. Especially women, since men's bodies aren't as naturally beautiful as yours. What do you get off on the most when jilling? Do you focus on the dick mostly? Other parts of the body? I've always wondered.

Gay, lesbian, and all others would interesting to hear to! Please share.
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My favorite focal point when stroking myself, is watching solo males stroking themselves in panties or females playing with themselves!
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I focus more on a fantasy and play it in my head; going down on her, penetrating her, licking her ass. I don't focus on any sort of her body but a turn on is small breasts and round ass.
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I love to masturbate when I've been reading some hot erotica or watching a decent porn. My favorite porn is usually a man and a woman making love where they are kissing a lot and taking it slower than the videos where they start fucking immediately.

With the videos, I'll focus on their interactions, their kisses, her breasts rubbing on his body, their sexual play and finally their intercourse. I love seeing good angles of the man's cock thrusting into her vagina.

As my orgasm nears, sometimes I focus on the couple fucking on the video but usually I'll focus on my own sensations, the pleasure in my cock and the building pressure as the orgasm approaches though. I love seeing myself ejaculate.
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When I'm masturbating solo and getting near my climax, I like to focus on watching videos of women who are having an intense orgasm, or I read a good story or experience on ST, in which the woman does a good job describing her feelings as she cums.

When I'm masturbating with my wife, I will let her know when I'm getting close and I like to watch her watch me (she loves to see me ejaculate). She lets out these lovely soft moans of appreciation as I begin to ejaculate. I often caress her boobs as I cum, and she strokes the base of my cock (perineum). We usually tongue kiss to cap things off.
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Watching each other pleasure themselves.
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I focus on Lady's fee,
hundred percent, while I masturbate.
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Strangely I'm often looking for the facial response to whats happening.
Like real life, I'm waiting for the sounds, sensation and shakes, as well as the facial distortions that occur when an uncontrollable event is happening.

Its just so goddam important to make someone happier... :lol: :twisted:

Then for me, I'll look at the plunging fingers, stroking hands or cum delivery that are different every time... guys under a ladyboy cock in mouth 69 get me every time; I think I need a real one :mrgreen:
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As a male, when stroking myself, I love watching a curvy female playing with her wet, plump, juicy pussy.
But, I also enjoy watching a solo male stroking himself and the different techniques that he uses for making himself Explode!
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I've replied once already, but want to add a couple more favorites to this:

1. Watching a clip of man and woman mutually masturbating. The best are those when the man starts to cum and the sight of his pulsing, ejaculating penis triggers an orgasm in the woman. Gets me every time.

2. The moment a man enters a woman. I love the sight of a woman on her back, her legs spread and pulled back, giving herself to the man. The look in her eyes when his penis enters her. The magic is about to begin...
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I agree, the best focal point for me, is when a guy shoots his load of Cum on himself or when he shoots a big load of Cum on a females hairy bush and pussy lips!
Especially if he licks up his Cum from her Pussy!
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fireaxe14 wrote:
> I agree, the best focal point for me, is when a guy shoots his load of Cum
> on himself or when he shoots a big load of Cum on a females hairy bush and
> pussy lips!
> Especially if he licks up his Cum from her Pussy!
> Paul

Like this cum hungry guy?
Eating his big tasty load mmm ;)
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Or even better....

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My favorite focal point when I am stroking myself, is watching a female playing with her, wet, juicy pussy lips are also watching a guy, with a big, long, hard shaft stroking his lubed up cock and hearing him moaning with pleasure and shooting a nice big load of Cum!
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When I’m about to cum while jacking, my focus is the end of my cock. I love watching my big load spurt out. If I’m cumming on the wife, my focus sometimes goes to her big titties - they’re so fucking beautiful!
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I have several but one stands out.
When I was seventeen I went out with some friends that know about my kinks and they got me intoxicated and I passed out.
They stripped me naked and stretched me out face up and handcuffed my hands at one end and my feet at the other end of a bench outside a busy mall on a Saturday morning. I woke up and It wasn’t long before a small crowd of on lookers gathered. The mall security guards did not have hand cuff keys so they called the police.
When they arrived they un cuffed me, stood me up then recuffed my hands behind my back and I was now standing naked in front of everyone, with a full erection.
I couldn’t stop it, I ejaculated right out in front of all those people.
This memory always makes me cum when masturbating.
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My favorite focal point while I watch a woman masturbate is her face and her pussy. Love to see her face (eyes, mouth) as her passion builds and her vagina's excited state (engorged clit, juices flowing).

If I'm masturbating while watching a male, my focal point (depending on my pov) is either his cock or buttocks.

When I reached the point of no-return, my focal point is at the end of my dick ... love to see my cum spurt out.
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If all that’s going to happen is me being watched I like it to be more than one woman and all of them fully clothed with me being the only one naked. I love their facial expressions and the way they interact with each other.
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Nothing makes me cum harder than a woman with a huge bush. I have never been with a woman with a huge bush but fantasize about running my fingers through a nice thick bush.
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My focal point and the one that makes me come quickly is to imagine standing there watching a male doctor with three fingers buried totally inside my naked wife's cunt. He's swirling his hand around feeling everything inside her while pressing down on her pubic hairs.
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