Throughout my life, visual stimulation has been my primary source of arousal, both in person but mostly through watching porn.
With porn, I go through stages. I'll watch hand job videos for a while, then bj videos (f/m, m/m), then switch to tranny, etc.
Actually, straight fucking videos don't do much for me.
Over the past few years, reading stories on sites like this, have also been a turn-on.
I have a giant screen, smart TV on the wall facing my bed and will spend hours laying there, watching and stroking.
Arousal
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Re: Arousal
It really depends from day to day -- I often find desires just pop into my head randomly, and so I give in to them and enjoy them. Some days, I'll be in the mood for gay porn -- but usually just younger guys. Some days, I'll be in the mood to check out gorgeous crossdressers, whether just pictures of them modeling, or them going at it, getting fucked like the girls they feel like inside. And of course, I have days when I'm in the mood to watch some sweet young girl give a guy a teasing lapdance....that's probably one of my biggest turn-ons.
And some days, I won't be in the mood for visual stimulation at all, and turn to a site like Soundgasm to listen to someone getting off. Most of the time, though, I have plenty of moments when reading an exciting literary adventure is just what I'm craving -- even more so if I can somehow contribute to it or be the one sharing the sexy words. There's very little that's more exciting to me than to know I can thrill someone with my words and push them past the point of no return.
So, while my love and lust for written words pretty much remains constant, I find that other stimuli tend to be in a bit of a rotation when it comes to my other senses.
And some days, I won't be in the mood for visual stimulation at all, and turn to a site like Soundgasm to listen to someone getting off. Most of the time, though, I have plenty of moments when reading an exciting literary adventure is just what I'm craving -- even more so if I can somehow contribute to it or be the one sharing the sexy words. There's very little that's more exciting to me than to know I can thrill someone with my words and push them past the point of no return.
So, while my love and lust for written words pretty much remains constant, I find that other stimuli tend to be in a bit of a rotation when it comes to my other senses.
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There are so many options for stimulus these days on the internet. When I was a teen in the early 60's, the Sears catalog was my first turn-on but a Playboy with it's airbrushed photospreads were wankers' holy grail. (Yes, I'm an old fart these days.)
I love watching porn, looking at pictures on Tumblr, and reading erotic stories, but writing erotica or having a hot on-line chat is my most arousing. I've written over a hundred stories, some of which float around on the net, but most I've never shared.
Writing prepares me fully for amazing orgasms. Often I'll spend hours writing a story while sitting naked on a towel at the computer.
My stories originate from multiple sources, but my hottest ones are usually about some sexual experience I've had in the past or one I wanted to have. There are no bounds on where the story goes since most are not shared. Some stories are innocent first sexual experiences, others get downright nasty doing things I'd never really do with someone. The effect is powerful for whatever subject I choose when I really get into writing.
I find porn of all types stimulating except for non-consensual or violent sex.
When we first got a video camera about 15 years ago, I started taping myself masturbating sometimes and have continued until recently. Some nights I love to watch my old collection of myself stroking in the exact rhythm I did in the video and ejaculating at the same time as I did in the video. It seems a bit bizarre, but I can come quickly and powerfully watching myself in video.
By the time I'm ready to finally stroke, there's a large puddle of precum on my towel.
I love watching porn, looking at pictures on Tumblr, and reading erotic stories, but writing erotica or having a hot on-line chat is my most arousing. I've written over a hundred stories, some of which float around on the net, but most I've never shared.
Writing prepares me fully for amazing orgasms. Often I'll spend hours writing a story while sitting naked on a towel at the computer.
My stories originate from multiple sources, but my hottest ones are usually about some sexual experience I've had in the past or one I wanted to have. There are no bounds on where the story goes since most are not shared. Some stories are innocent first sexual experiences, others get downright nasty doing things I'd never really do with someone. The effect is powerful for whatever subject I choose when I really get into writing.
I find porn of all types stimulating except for non-consensual or violent sex.
When we first got a video camera about 15 years ago, I started taping myself masturbating sometimes and have continued until recently. Some nights I love to watch my old collection of myself stroking in the exact rhythm I did in the video and ejaculating at the same time as I did in the video. It seems a bit bizarre, but I can come quickly and powerfully watching myself in video.
By the time I'm ready to finally stroke, there's a large puddle of precum on my towel.
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I'm much more into erotica than porn. However, I love looking at women’s asses trying to see if I can figure out panty lines. Huge turn-on. I'm more attracted to moms. They've got bigger asses. I also love reading stories where each passage is fully described. I love brother and sister stories and some m-m masturbation. Many times I develop my fantasy as I masturbate and orgasms are huge.
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What really gets me turned on and hard, are many different subjects.
1st, whenever I am in the mood for some self pleasure, I first put on some panties. I then think about who would like to watch me stroking myself in panties. I think about watching a neighbor playing with herself, not knowing that I am watching her. I think about getting caught by a neighbor lady stroking myself in her stolen panties.
So many different ways to get turned on.
Paul
1st, whenever I am in the mood for some self pleasure, I first put on some panties. I then think about who would like to watch me stroking myself in panties. I think about watching a neighbor playing with herself, not knowing that I am watching her. I think about getting caught by a neighbor lady stroking myself in her stolen panties.
So many different ways to get turned on.
Paul
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A woman's breasts are all I need. Not huge ones, but normal to small is perfect. And noticing hard nipples is a sure way...
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I totally agree, being able to lick and suck on a nice set of big nipples really gets me turned on and hard. And I know most females really enjoy being licked, and that it gets them very wet. I don’t need big breast, anything from a size C-to DD is prefect
Paul
Paul