Ladies and Gentlemen.. your fav toy used?

[newstroker19]

Hi all! I’m here because I’m someone who enjoys using toys on myself and partners I engage with. It’s extra fun for me and very personal to be able to use another persons toy on them.

Question here is what is your favourite toy you use on yourself? And what other toys have you used on others? Or what is the kinkiest toy you have ever used?

[zirvania]

Vibrating cock ring for me. Gives me some amazing spurting cums. Fleshlights are good too

[stroke2]

Yes I have to agree although my vibrating cockring just went flat and my flashlight/rubber pussy is almost worn right out with extra hole now lol from all my hard con soaked wank fucks!!
Time to go shopping again

[jjosh]

iv been exploring toy use. Iv been using cockring and prostate toys. Had a fleshlight.. was really fun to fuck when watching porn.. felt really amazing. For stroking i enjoy using the cock ring with the prostate toy in..

[ilovewatching]

I bought my wife a rabbit.....10" and thick ! she cums so many times and so hard I think she might pass out at times !!!
it is my favorite thing to watch.....and I mostly watch her face as it's so erotic to watch as she gets there and cums !

[maturebator]

I always encourage masturbators to check out The Eroscillator. It's my wife's tool of choice and it has been for 40 years.

We've used all manner of toys and it was great fun, not to mention it FELT great. But after a while, she got tired of having cheap vibrators crap-out on her at just the wrong moment. Hell, that'd piss anybody off.

So, while dildos and vaginal vibrators were fun, she finally invested in The Eroscillator because 1) it was an effective clit stimulator, 2) it was dead quiet. Well, unless you really bear down on that clit. Otherwise, she could get off with it with me sleeping next to her. The Hitachi is more like an outboard motor. There are other good reasons why she bought it and she's very, very happy with it. On average, when we're sharing masturbation, she'll get herself off with it 5-7 times. They say the best advertisement is word of mouth. She'd be the first to tell you to take one for a test drive.

[wdwdwd]

A STRAIGHT MAN'S FAVORITE SEX TOY

My favorite sex toy is a double dildo that I first bought at an adult store in the mid-1990s and replaced twenty-five years later. It’s made of a red jelly material and is perfect for my needs when it comes to anal masturbation. I’m thinking of writing to the manufacturer to ask them to revive this design, particularly the version in silicone. I adore this wonderful dildo for its dimensions, two insertable ends, flexibility, semi-realistic design, and smooth surface.

The dildo is called "Eve's Ecstasy 12" Double Pleaser" from the company Adam & Eve. It is actually 11" in total length, so they were exaggerating. I bought it because I was in a long distance romance with a woman who liked anal play, especially on me, which has always been my fetish. I intended for us to try out simultaneous penetration, either anal/vaginal or anal/anal. This was before I used the internet and before there was access to a wide variety of toys at online stores. I used to buy sex toys either from mail catalogs or, as I did this one, at adult stores. I really didn’t know about strap-ons at the time. I might have seen them, but they weren’t well-designed or common back then. The dildos were too thick and hard for a tight boy like me to enjoy. If strap-ons had been available then as they are today, and in such quality and variety, I would certainly have obtained one. Another girlfriend of mine, who also had a thing for my ass, would definitely have pegged me. (I actually discussed this with her recently, saying I would have let her fuck me with a strap-on. “Let me?” she said, laughing. “Let me? I would have insisted on it!”)

What do I like about this dildo? Well, its dimensions, to begin with. The slim end is perfect for me, with a diameter that widens from one inch at the head to about 1.4 inches at the base before the ridge dividing the two ends, which is 2 inches in diameter. I know a lot of people like a thicker shaft, but that’s all I’m comfortable with. One inch gives me pleasure rather than discomfort. Once my anus and rectum are well relaxed and lubricated, I can plunge the slim end in and pull it out quite quickly. The length of the narrow end, 6.6 inches, is just enough for me to enjoy that long sliding feeling I crave, and to go deep without hitting an impasse. I do sometimes penetrate myself with the thick end, when I am feeling particularly wild and my anus has gotten really relaxed and open. The thick end ranges from a little more than 1.3 inches diameter to just over 1.8, big enough that I have to be careful and take my time working it inside. When I succeed it comes as something of a shock. The sensations, both physical and emotional, are overwhelming, and I cry out, moan, and shout, even talking to the woman I imagine pegging me. I’ve had a lot of good times with this toy, fucking myself when my wife is away, satisfying my need for deep anal pleasure. (My wife likes to finger and rim me, but refuses to use sex toys, which makes this dildo even more important to me).

I like having the option of using either end, which makes this dildo, like all double dongs, two toys in one. Equally important is how the end that isn’t inside me serves as the handle. That is really convenient. When I'm really worked up and my anus has relaxed, I will switch back and forth from one end to the other, going deep with the long end and then slipping it out, quickly turning it in the same hand, grabbing it by the end that was just up my ass, and popping the short, thick end inside, stretching and widening my anal sphincter. Then I switch again, and again. No other toy allows me to do that.

I like the softness and flexibility of the jelly material, which makes this dildo comfortable for the anus as well as a pleasure to use. When I bought the first one, it was straight, but because I stored it in a zipper bag shorter than the dildo is long, the slim, longer end became curved. This made the slim shaft curve up, which made it easier to use when I reached behind my back to plunge it inside. If I turned the top side of the slim end toward my belly, I could use the tension created by the curve to press the tip against my prostate. When I moved the dildo in and out in that position, the tip stroked my prostate, which I loved. If a company were to make a new version of this dildo, I recommend incorporating this curve into the design, for the reasons just given. (I store the new one in the molded clear plastic package it came in, which maintains its original form).

I like that both ends of the dildo are semi-realistic. I wouldn’t want a truly realistic dildo to use on myself, partly because a glans with a significant ridge would cause discomfort upon insertion. At the same time, totally featureless dildos have no appeal either—they’re too abstract and even alien-looking. I like the unrealistic color, light red on the slim end and darker red on the thick end. The shape of this dildo is a nice compromise between realism and abstraction, with the glans at each end being smoother and more tapered than on a real penis, so it penetrates the anus more easily. I appreciate very much how each end of the dildo starts slim and gets thicker as it approaches the center dividing ridge. It helps to start small and get a little wider as you are ready, at your own pace. When I am really relaxed and excited, that slight increase in diameter accounts for part of the pleasure I take in the in-stroke, as the sensation of being stretched coincides with that of going deep.

The thick end has a partially triangular structure, like a real penis (with its corpus spongiosum and two corpora cavernosa), so it’s not perfectly circular in its circumference. That concession to realism is ok with me, but I wouldn’t necessarily need it in a new version of this dildo. The glans on the thick end has kind of a double ridge, which resembles a partially retracted foreskin, and I could do without that as well.

Finally, I like that this dildo is smooth. I don’t want ridges, veins, or bumps of any kind in things I put up my ass. As I said, I’m kind of tight, and besides that, I’ve occasionally suffered from hemorrhoids, so I have to be careful. (Actually, I have found that careful use of dildos and butt plugs helps prevent hemorrhoids and to speed recovery from them when they are almost healed. The stretching and relaxing of the anus is what helps). For the same reason, I like the smoothness of the material itself. It would be even better in silicone, with a smooth glossy finish. I like smooth thrusting without resistance.

A new version of this would be better in silicone, but with the same dimensions and general form. Adam & Eve did have a silicone version of this toy, called the "CyberSilicone 2-tone Delight," which was pale purple on the long, narrow end and pink on the thick, shorter end. I wish they would reintroduce this now-vintage double dong, which fulfills a need not met by any toy currently on the market. Anal toys are dominated by strap-ons, butt plugs, prostate massagers, and extra-large double dongs. There just aren’t reasonably sized dildos specifically meant for anal use by people who don’t want anything too thick. I wish one of these companies would give an inch—literally—and produce a smooth double-ended dildo with an average diameter of about one inch on one end, and one and 1/4 on the other, preferably along the lines of my trusty red double dong from the 1990s.

DIMENSIONS OF MY DOUBLE DONG DILDO
Total length: 11”
SLIM END
Length (to center of dividing ridge): 6 ½”
Diameter at neck: ⅞”
Diameter at midpoint: 1 ⅛” (circumference about 3 ½”)
Diameter at base, just before dividing ridge: 1 ½” (circumference just under 4 ¾”)
Length of glans: ⅞”
Diameter of dividing ridge: 1 ⅞”
THICK END
Length of thick end: 4 ½”.
Diameter at neck: 1 ¼” laterally, and 1 ⅛” vertically
Diameter at midpoint: 1 ¼” (circumference about 4 ½”)
Diameter at base, just before dividing ridge: 1 ½”
Length of glans: 1 ½” plus ¼” “foreskin”

It wasn't easy replacing this dildo. The model was sold in adult stores in the late eighties and early nineties, and couldn’t be found on the internet. I wrote on a social media site describing it in detail and asking for information. Sure enough, a few months later someone replied with a web address where I could order the item. I was so happy at this turn of events. That happiness, though, was nothing like my joy when the dildo arrived in the mail. My wife was away so I opened the plain brown-wrapped package as quickly as I could.

When I pulled the dildo from its molded clear plastic packaging I reacted in a spontaneous and unexpected way. I pretty much squealed in pleasure, breaking into a girlish happy dance with my feet shuffling, elbows bent close to my torso and my hands at my chest, gently clenched and shaking. It was quite involuntary, how happiness overtook me. I have to use the word: I felt like a faggot. If my cavorting had been witnessed by bigots or gay men I know who use that word between themselves, that’s what they would have called me, cruelly in the first case and humorously in the second. I shouted happy words, though, as I pranced and minced around, shaking my ass and imagining my new dildo parting the walls of my anal sphincter. I felt queer, like a total sissy, and it was a good feeling, however silly and brief. Perhaps I am a straight queer, or a queer straight. I suppose labels are unnecessary. A lot of young people today are rejecting binaries of sex and gender, and I can learn from them.

I love my double-dong dildo and fucking myself up the ass with it. Sometimes when I take it out I don't end up using it, as a finger or two, or a skinny prostate massager is enough. But having that dildo right there next to me, ready to use, adds to my excitement. It has a magic about it that I really appreciate.

[bouldghirl]

I treated myself recently to the Lelo Sona. It’s taken me a few weeks to get used to it but I’ve certainly realised that what my friend told me about the intensity wasn’t exaggerated. It uses ultrasonic vibrations which basically turns my bits into a warm gelatinous mush. My idea was to give myself a little solo time pleasure. It’s gone way beyond that now. Ladies - I thoroughly recommend this for you.

[liamw]

I bought my wife a rabbit.....10" and thick ! she cums so many times and so hard I think she might pass out at times !!!
it is my favorite thing to watch.....and I mostly watch her face as it's so erotic to watch as she gets there and cums !

man, this rabbit thing is insane! my wife is also very happy about it! I thinks she enjoys it more than me even...

[paradigmus]

What to do with a 4-inch penis?

[sweetbaby]

When sexually penetrating, you should be able to focus on positions that allow deeper penetration. This way, you will reduce your chances of slipping away during intercourse and increase the pleasurable sexual sensations of your partner. Places such as butterfly, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and missionary position with your legs over are ideal for achieving the deepest possible penetration. They will make her feel like you are more than you are while inside her. Confidence is also vital. Reach a level of self-esteem that you may not last long, but you know what you're doing even if you don't. Be confident. And even if you're not, fake it.

[annieg]

Very boring and ordinary for me but I have a long-term favourite dildo, nothing too large but I've used it so much in so many different ways... not just fucking my cunt while masturbating, I used it up my arse, I used it hard imagining a strong sadistic man abusing me, I performed for others to watch with it, I've been filmed, I've even had the embarrassment of holding a meeting with some architects unaware that the dildo was poking out from underneath a cushion on the settee

It a very modest dildo but it is without a doubt my favourite toy... here it is in use

[rosaliell]

Yes. Just last week I tried a G spot vibrator, the size is good and powerful. I highly recommend the sex toys!
https://www.amazon.com/Vibration-Rechargeable-Clitorals-Stimulator-Vibrating/dp/B09H6TPC1D?ref_=ast_sto_dp

[allnaturallady13]

I love my rabbit as well as my clit sucker! It’s a different orgasm but equally fantastic!! I also like nipple clamps and clit vibes. The ones with several speeds are the best!

[ninja1173]

I found a pretty cheap toy (<$20) at WalMart called the "Stroker", with some lube this thing is no joke!

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https://www.walmart.com/ip/Cake-Stroker-Doubled-Sided-Male-Sex-Toys-Masturbator/388827865

Two separate entrances, each with a different texture. The material is some strange space age rubbery type silicone that is very pleasant to penetrate.


I also tried this penis vibrator that came with a remote control so you can toggle between all the various vibration patterns or pause it if you are getting too close. Its pretty good for hands free edging or just turn it all the way up and let it pull your cm right out!

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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07YSB7S7D/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

[mirandapolly]

I bought myself a dildo called Allovers at https://acmejoy.com/ and it makes me squirt every time I use it! i love it so much

[newstroker19]

Gorgeous sounds like a really amazing toy you have there

[johnnyampleseed]

When I have the opportunity I love to edge for hours. In order to extend and enhance the process, I use many toys. I have a variety of cock sleeves, but my favorites are: the Fleshlight Quickshot (this is clear and short, open-ended and easy to clean); Tenga eggs and Spinners, and the Mansturbation silicone sleeve. I also like using cock rings, with some that vibrate. I have regular-sized Fleshlights, but the Quickshot works the best for me. These toys give my cock different "feels" and enable me to control the stimulation, without a full-on orgasm.

[fireaxe14]

My favorite toy or toys are Fleshlight sleeves and Tenga eggs and sleeves. I love the different textures on the inside!
Paul

[adventurous]

My wife really enjoys the realistic porn star dildos, her two main favourites are the John Holmes UR3 and Bam. She has over twenty toys in all. We switch them up to simulate different sized cocks to keep things interesting. A lot of times it depends on her moods and how horny she is.