Bisexual after 60

[summer2018]

My husband and I have always had a very active, satisfying sex life. Last year he started expressing interest is being with another man, sucking cock etc. I found this so hot and did not discourage him in any way. Fast forward - he has found a friend w/ benefits and they have sex about every week . I still get aroused when I think about it - but I wanted to ask - am I crazy , or is this normal / ok? Are there any older guys out there who are in similar circumstances ( wanting to be with other men)?

[love2edge]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

[oldfan]

By virtue of my discussions with other men here on ST, I think this is more "normal" than most people realize. As for me, it's been more than 30 years for me to desire to do what your husband is doing with his friend, but I only acted on it for the first (and so far only) time on it two years ago when I had the opportunity to suck a cock.

You are a wonderful wife to help him embrace this desire and be true to himself. Cheers to you!

So, yes, there are many of us older, married men who want to be with other men.

[iamnaked]

I’m always horny. When I do wear clothes I’m always wearing just enough to avoid arrest.
Old men smile at me more often than old women.
Old men make the first move more often than old women.
It’s often a matter of opportunity and convenience.
I’ve had many encounters with older guys that from start to finish lasted five or ten minutes.
I’ve even had some encounters that were, “Zip, squirt, zip” and gone in less than three minutes.

I don’t recall ever getting head or giving head with an older woman in less than an hour and a half.
Lots of beating around the bush,
No pun intended:)

[mash2014]

Nothing wrong. Sexuality is a spectrum and at both ends absolute heterosexuality and absolute homosexual are found. All of us move around in that spectrum. Sometimes we want to move toward the other end or fantasize about it. Society has ostracized the free movement around the spectrum.
Many people are afraid of exploring the other side of their sexuality, mostly because they are insecure about what and who they are.

[rathb69]

Nothing wrong. Sexuality is a spectrum and at both ends absolute heterosexuality and absolute homosexual are found. All of us move around in that spectrum. Sometimes we want to move toward the other end or fantasize about it. Society has ostracized the free movement around the spectrum.
Many people are afraid of exploring the other side of their sexuality, mostly because they are insecure about what and who they are.

Exactly this. Since my mid-40's I have been moving from the 100% hetero end of the scale to wanting to experiment playing with men sometimes. Given free choice and availability of partners, I would probably opt for women most of the time, but I definitely have room for same sex fun.

[emgeee]

I have found that the older I get and being on solo touch that I also like to read stories that include bi sexual acts. I use to shy a way from anything to do with MM action. Now I appreciate the interaction and for my own arousal. I don't know what I would do if the opportunity arouse, but I now watch and read CFNM videos for the naked guy, cock and cum. Might just start with being naked and see what happens.

[notbob]

So, we all know everyone is different and we all fall into different places on the hetero/homo scale.

I don't consider myself gay or bisexual...but...I love pleasing women. If I had an opportunity to discretely have sex with a man, I'd turn it down. My fantasy is more about humiliation and exhibitionism. I want a woman to enjoy commanding me to do things I wouldn't ordinarily do. We make a bet- the winnings are sexual domination. I lose. She commands me to suck cock. I have no choice but to pay up. When she gets off on watching, it turns me on. It's one way to show her what I'll give up for her and I'll give it all I've got. That scenario in a fantasy, is degrading and incredibly erotic for me. In reality, I doubt I would do it - especially not when I was young. I'm 75. I was probably right around 60 when I began to allow myself to cross that line...in a fantasy. Now, that fantasy has become a regular. Selecting the right porn helps.

[only6inches]

I'm 67 and have added men as sex partners since I was 55. It's just sex, and the pleasure I get from sucking a nice cock, swallowing their cum, and taking a cock balls deep is outstanding.

[rough]

I've been gay all my life....however I've had a few mmf meets over the years and I'd luv to try more of them now....I think it's just I feel more confident and relaxed about everything to do with sex......am I the only one....

[playnow]

One of the reasons I like ST is to jo with other guys, thinking about sucking them. Did it when I was young, and want to get into it again.

[wanttotryit]

One of the reasons I like ST is to jo with other guys, thinking about sucking them. Did it when I was young, and want to get into it again.

same here ...love jerking off talking to men and know they are too

[playnow]

Same, love knowing other guys are stroking at the same time. Never thought I'd like this so much.

[fireaxe14]

Exploring bisexuality after I turned 60 has been an amazing experience, because older males tend to know how to help a straight male explore his sexuality!
Paul

[iamnaked]

It’s just far easier to find an old guy who wants his cock sucked than to find an old woman who wants her pussy eaten.
So many of the older gals dry up and give up on sex.

[muzza54]

I am 69 and I am getting more interested in having sex with another guy. I enjoy chatting to other older guys and masturbating and cam2cam with them. I would love to take the next step but I dont know how to go about it.
My wife doesnt know about this and I doubt she would understand but she has gone off sex which is a pity.
The original poster is lucky that she supports her husband in his sexual projects. I wish it was me.

[mash2014]

So, we all know everyone is different and we all fall into different places on the hetero/homo scale.

I don't consider myself gay or bisexual...but...I love pleasing women. If I had an opportunity to discretely have sex with a man, I'd turn it down. My fantasy is more about humiliation and exhibitionism. I want a woman to enjoy commanding me to do things I wouldn't ordinarily do. We make a bet- the winnings are sexual domination. I lose. She commands me to suck cock. I have no choice but to pay up. When she gets off on watching, it turns me on. It's one way to show her what I'll give up for her and I'll give it all I've got. That scenario in a fantasy, is degrading and incredibly erotic for me. In reality, I doubt I would do it - especially not when I was young. I'm 75. I was probably right around 60 when I began to allow myself to cross that line...in a fantasy. Now, that fantasy has become a regular. Selecting the right porn helps.

I don’t consider myself gay or bi either. However, I discovered a term that describes me more accurately. Heteroflexible. I’ve had experiences with men since I was young, some of which because of my youth I didn’t know what it was but it felt good. I found myself, in my adulthood, sexually attracted to another man. Solotouch opened me to accept I can get highly aroused reading experiences between two or more men. Would I rejected if I had the opportunity? Honestly, I don’t think I would reject it. I’ve seen pictures of cocks and some of them are gorgeous. I masturbated to the thought of men having some interactions with me. I think I am open to having an affair with another man. Some men can be attractive and provocative.

To be clear, on the streets, I look at women and get highly aroused; I hardly ever feel attracted to men on the streets. Maybe I’ll look at a man and think he is attractive, but 1 in 1000 will cause a sexual desire.

[fireaxe14]

I think that anyone who wants to explore their sexuality at any age is really okay. I think that it’s only natural to be curious. As long as you set your own boundaries!

[fireaxe14]

I think that anyone who wants to explore their sexuality at any age is really okay. I think that it’s only natural to be curious. As long as you set your own boundaries! I have found that at 69 years old, I have really enjoyed exploring my bisexuality with other like minded males.
It all depends on what you are looking for in sexual pleasure!
Paul