Bisexual after 60

[carparkman]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

When I was about 60 (am 67 now) I started watching porn of guys jerking off outdoors (I still do) and loved it, but thought I was weird doing so. Then i found others online like you who also enjoy it and now I realise that its quite common. Thank god for that lol

[rathb69]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

When I was about 60 (am 67 now) I started watching porn of guys jerking off outdoors (I still do) and loved it, but thought I was weird doing so. Then i found others online like you who also enjoy it and now I realise that its quite common. Thank god for that lol

I love watching video's of guys jacking off. Anywhere, anytime is good, but seeing men taking risks and doing it outside is very erotic. I do it whenever I can on my own property, but really like the thrill of doing it outside at places like local parks or while camping. To me its most exciting and fun when I am totally nude or at least naked from the waist down. I get off on the thought of being seen doing it. Just pulling out my cock and masturbating while otherwise remaining fully clothed is no fun.

[emgeee]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

When I was about 60 (am 67 now) I started watching porn of guys jerking off outdoors (I still do) and loved it, but thought I was weird doing so. Then i found others online like you who also enjoy it and now I realise that its quite common. Thank god for that lol

For me it was later 76, my kink was CFNM which turned into MMF and now MM, like outdoor nudity the best.

[emgeee]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

When I was about 60 (am 67 now) I started watching porn of guys jerking off outdoors (I still do) and loved it, but thought I was weird doing so. Then i found others online like you who also enjoy it and now I realise that its quite common. Thank god for that lol

I love watching video's of guys jacking off. Anywhere, anytime is good, but seeing men taking risks and doing it outside is very erotic. I do it whenever I can on my own property, but really like the thrill of doing it outside at places like local parks or while camping. To me its most exciting and fun when I am totally nude or at least naked from the waist down. I get off on the though been seen doing it. Just pulling out my cock and masturbating while otherwise remaining fully clothed is no fun.

I like being totally nude and having solo fun, not into exposure but if it is safe i will strip and stroke outdoors, enjoying videos and pictures when I am having my solo naked fun at home.

[emgeee]

My husband and I have always had a very active, satisfying sex life. Last year he started expressing interest is being with another man, sucking cock etc. I found this so hot and did not discourage him in any way. Fast forward - he has found a friend w/ benefits and they have sex about every week . I still get aroused when I think about it - but I wanted to ask - am I crazy , or is this normal / ok? Are there any older guys out there who are in similar circumstances ( wanting to be with other men)?

I do not know if it is normal but I am starting to explore in my fantasies, what I read and watch.
I have a close friend whose husband is bi, she gets off when he is on a date, and has even helped him seduce guys. Most of the time he is out alone but she likes to watch too, and loves to share his attention to his dates.

[carparkman]

I'm not wanting to be with other men per se as a lifestyle but I do like cocks and such. Still want pussy. I like both. This fascination started in my 60's.

When I was about 60 (am 67 now) I started watching porn of guys jerking off outdoors (I still do) and loved it, but thought I was weird doing so. Then i found others online like you who also enjoy it and now I realise that its quite common. Thank god for that lol

I love watching video's of guys jacking off. Anywhere, anytime is good, but seeing men taking risks and doing it outside is very erotic. I do it whenever I can on my own property, but really like the thrill of doing it outside at places like local parks or while camping. To me its most exciting and fun when I am totally nude or at least naked from the waist down. I get off on the though been seen doing it. Just pulling out my cock and masturbating while otherwise remaining fully clothed is no fun.

Being totally naked when playing is always best.

[jemstone]

I knew I am bi at age 10, when I realized I liked watching my best friend, 11, get into and out of his Speedos at the cabana we shared with his family (South Fla). I never hit on him, but he was a beautiful, athletic boy. I was a virgin when I got married at 21, but when you are bi and choose to marry a woman, you never lose the strong desire to masturbate watching men. So I have masturbated to male images throughout the marriage, first magazines and then, finally, by the early 1990s online. I have played with my cock on cam for men (and some women) for 30 years now. My wife lost interest in sex 12 years ago, and the horny finally got to me when I was 76 (I am 78 now), so I began going to arcades near me to play with cocks (no fluid exchange). So, in some ways, I became a "practicing" bisexual at age 76.You can read my two arcade stories here on ST.

[rathb69]

I began going to arcades near me to play with cocks (no fluid exchange).

The ever cautious me also does not want fluid exchange, but the horny, kinky, taboo me wants to have the experience of sucking a man's penis until he explodes in my mouth. Maybe this will just remain a fantasy/strong desire, but I will at least go as far as letting another man (or men) ejaculate on me. When I get super horny, I think about a man shooting his load on my face. A young guy (early 20's) requested I cum on his face at a porn theater (which I did), and now I want the experience.

[randiz69]

The arcades could be the perfect place to meet a jo buddy, but those places are very dark. Open sores on hands or cocks could be difficult to see. Enjoy a no touch experience there, then maybe get to know the person. Go to the woods, share a car ride, then maybe a hotel room when you are convinced they are clean and not a home wrecking psycho.
But yes, anyone who has a partner with an open mind is lucky. Why wouldn't you WANT to join in?!!!

[carparkman]

My husband and I have always had a very active, satisfying sex life. Last year he started expressing interest is being with another man, sucking cock etc. I found this so hot and did not discourage him in any way. Fast forward - he has found a friend w/ benefits and they have sex about every week . I still get aroused when I think about it - but I wanted to ask - am I crazy , or is this normal / ok? Are there any older guys out there who are in similar circumstances ( wanting to be with other men)?

No, not crazy - its refreshing to know you encourage him to ex;lore his sexuality.

[wankmate1]

I have had encounters with guys for many years just mutual wanking,I think this started when me and my now late wife were going through a bad patch,I usually meet strangers in laybys to wank them off,I struggle with getting a hard on now due to having my prostate removed,a guy I used to wank with on a fairly regular basis sometimes in the car and sometimes in house's he was renovating for his daughter.

This chaps wife died and he offered to meet me at his house this was some time ago,I agreed to meet him but cold feet and cancelled,so then he didn't want to communicate and didn't answer my emailsfast forward about a year and a half and checked my emails and I had a reply about 2 months ago, opened the email and it was written by someone else on his behalf,it said that he was now blind,he is 83,and there was a phone number to contact him between 6-8 in the evening,I plucked up the courage to call and after a while he answered,had a good chat and he asked if I would like to come round and play,I agreed and said I would be there around 9 after work.

I pulled up on his drive and went through the front door and he was sitting on the stairs with just his jogging bottoms on,he said hi and said do you want to come upstairs I agreed.we went upstairs and both stripped off in the bedroom.

So this is a whole new ballgame I feel relaxed and unhurried,I have never kissed a guy on the mouth but for some reason this felt ok.we hugging and kissed standing up then lay on the floor kissing and stroking each other,he asked to suck me,I have to Neel on the floor to get a semi,he took me in his mouth and I told him to suck slowly or I would orgasm to quickly,such a lovely experience him slowly sucking,I did orgasm and then sucked him as he was laying down and he eventually shot his load on my stomach,I'm hopefully going back for another session tomorrow

[fnippleluvr]

Ok so I’m not 60 yet, but I still find this thread very intriguing. I have always had the desire to feel another woman’s nipple in my mouth, to rub them and pull on them, and just trade some very erotic nipple play. Lately I’ve Really been in to the idea of older straight married guys Who would like to sneak off and suck some cock. The whole thing is just so taboo and naughty and hot, and I just love the way older men look with a nice fat cock in their mouth

[blackboxer500]

An early childhood experience with another boy made a lasting impression, but my subsequent same sex interludes were limited to two guys: a one-off with my college best friend, and a little play with my current best friend. He’s gay and I’m married to a woman, also great friends with him. Ironically I’m more interested in carrying on with him from time to time than he is; he classifies me as a friend and doesn’t want sex with me, which is fine because neither of us could ever really offend the other.

But my same sex desires — which is more for cocks and ejaculations than guys per se — has grown stronger as I age. I’m 64 now and actively looking on another site for the right situation with a local guy.

I think for me this phenomenon is related to how my erect penis no longer does all the thinking for me. When younger days meant higher levels of testosterone, the overwhelming physical desire was to put my cock in something: a vagina, a mouth, a tight fist, an anus, a toy. Emotionally I only attach to women, and that worked out very well over the years because I tended to form medium and long term relationships, and our heteronormative society made that easy. Fall for a girl on some level, feelings are returned, fuck each other at every opportunity.

As I age, my cock still does a lot of the thinking, but the naturally decreasing levels of testosterone mean that my erotic desires can more readily extend beyond simply getting myself off. So now the idea of ejaculating cocks doesn’t have to mean it’s my cock that’s cumming. I want to be near other guys’ cocks when they explode, too, and I want it to cum in my hands and mouth.

[fireaxe14]

I have found that I started enjoying watching guys stroking themselves and guys giving guys a helping hand. Which lead me to watching guys getting a gay seduction massage, and getting turned on and hard. And then turning over and letting the guy, stroke him and suck him off. While he starts stroking his massage therapist!
I then discovered that I wanted to try bisexual exploring.
So, I have found that it’s an amazing experience
Paul

[technogeezer]

My wife is not very interested in sex anymore. We're both 60 (or close enough) and while i love women and their curves, for the last couple of years i have been looking at cock pics more and more. It's made me more and more open to jerking off with a buddy, maybe jerking them off, even penetration. My wife tried pegging me once but we weren't well prepared and a dirty dildo closed that avenue pretty much permanently. Another issue is that i'm small (and lack self-confidence) and movies/pics seems to showcase large cocks which in turn has caused issues with rising to the occasion with my wife (actually, even during alone time). My fear would be that i find a buddy but i can't salute.