Mutual Masturbation
Mutual Masturbation
Tell us about your experience(s) with mutual masturbation?
I’m 72 and my wife recently had minor surgery. A day before her procedure, she told me the Dr. Said, “No sex for two weeks.”
I was disappointed to hear this, but realized it represented an opportunity to try something new.
I’m planning to initiate mutual masturbation with her by soon jerking off in bed and asking her to assist or pleasure herself.
More details to come…
I’m 72 and my wife recently had minor surgery. A day before her procedure, she told me the Dr. Said, “No sex for two weeks.”
I was disappointed to hear this, but realized it represented an opportunity to try something new.
I’m planning to initiate mutual masturbation with her by soon jerking off in bed and asking her to assist or pleasure herself.
More details to come…
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This is something that my then girlfriend, now wife knew nothing about when we started dating. She was almost 19 & she'd had sex as in intercourse but had not had a orgasm. She didn't know women masturbated, didn't know they had orgasm's and had never heard of the clitoris !! I didn't know much more either but eventually we discovered where her clit was and from then on I always made sure that she came. However she still hadn't ever masturbated. She said that she wanted to try it but felt a little awkward & inhibited about it because she'd never done it before. I kept trying to get her to do it and eventually succeeded one evening courtesy of a bottle of red wine !! I started first stroking my hard cock which got her turned on and aroused. After a couple of minutes she placed her hand over her pussy and opened her lips which were already wet and started to stroke her clit. That turned me on even more too. We both had great orgasm's and from then on we would masturbate together from time to time. So yes it's fantastic & I would advise any couple to try it at least a few times but I think you would do it frequently !!
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My wife was very reluctant to masturbate in front of me for many years. But after she tried it, she liked it! We mutually masturbate together about twice a week and have been for several years now. We both use toys.
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My wife and I masturbate regularly. I love watching her shove her dildo up her pussy while she's fantasizing about it being a strange cock.
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For any women out there or men who sshare this site with their wives; be sure that any normal, red-blooded, man will be happy to watch you masturbate. More over, they will probably lay right beside you and stroke themselves as well.
I masturbate a lot, almost everyday, my wife has not will not, and claims she cannot masturbate. Woe is me, so I am the lone ranger, but wives try it you will love it. Guys, have them read this and blame it on me!
I masturbate a lot, almost everyday, my wife has not will not, and claims she cannot masturbate. Woe is me, so I am the lone ranger, but wives try it you will love it. Guys, have them read this and blame it on me!
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As i get older it helps to masturbate with someone or be watched on whereby. Much more fun
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You sound just like me Jacker. My wife never had an interest in orgasming in my presence. I remember her doing it once and also one orgasm when I sucked her whole labia into my mouth and kept sucking. I know she did it in the shower as she told me and she did it in bed a few times when she thought I was sleeping.jacker1950 wrote: ↑Fri Nov 24, 2023 10:36 pm I masturbate a lot, almost everyday, my wife has not will not, and claims she cannot masturbate. Woe is me, so I am the lone ranger, but wives try it you will love it.
But we'd fuck or I would masturbate in front of her and I'd ask her if she wanted to come and she would say no. Now, many years later I will masturbate in front of her and she has no reaction. None. Not one word.
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Well that makes two of us. Way back when, when we used to have sex, my wife did experience orgasm when we made love. But overtime, she simply lost interest in sex and later still came to believe that sex is dirty, even for married people. It is almost as if she reached her allotted number of sexual encounters and would not go past the limit.
I am sorry you have this same problem in your relationship.
Sadly, or ironically, or humorously, I don't think I would trade masturbating daily for sex once a week, once a month, or whatever it was dwindling down to. I'm not going to lie about, I like to masturbate, I have since I was 15 years old. My sex life is satisfying, my desires are met, and she is OK as long as I don't ask her to join in. I just wish she would.
I am sorry you have this same problem in your relationship.
Sadly, or ironically, or humorously, I don't think I would trade masturbating daily for sex once a week, once a month, or whatever it was dwindling down to. I'm not going to lie about, I like to masturbate, I have since I was 15 years old. My sex life is satisfying, my desires are met, and she is OK as long as I don't ask her to join in. I just wish she would.
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My wife and I love masturbating together . Watching her stroke and finger her pussy is so fucking hot. She loves watching me jerk off as well and alot of times leads to some hot fucking.
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My wife and I used to masturbate together. But I didn't lie down next to her, I used to kneel between her legs. I got the perfect view of her fingering her clit and finger fucking her pussy hole. It got me so aroused and harder than ever. For her part she loved watching me wank/jerk as it got her really turned on too. We both found it so hot !!jacker1950 wrote: ↑Fri Nov 24, 2023 10:36 pm For any women out there or men who sshare this site with their wives; be sure that any normal, red-blooded, man will be happy to watch you masturbate. More over, they will probably lay right beside you and stroke themselves as well.
I masturbate a lot, almost everyday, my wife has not will not, and claims she cannot masturbate. Woe is me, so I am the lone ranger, but wives try it you will love it. Guys, have them read this and blame it on me!
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Since I have been a member of ST I have joined a few members on their Whereby for a jerk. I have found it therapeutically stimulating and I love the companionship. I'm getting old now and agree with your sentiments.
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I'm now 72 and my wife is 69. I can't say enough about how mutual masturbation has boosted our sex lives. Months ago, my wife began finding intercourse too painful. We quickly shifted to using our hands and tongues to pleasure each other. We slowed things down and take our time as we arouse each other. In the old days, if we spent more than 30 minutes having sex, it seemed like a long time. Now we routinely touch, suck and masturbate each other for an hour or two. My wife is multi-orgasmic and I can make her cum repeatedly by stroking just one finger back and forth across her clit. I will alternate by giving her orgasms by using several of my fingers deep in her pussy, like a cock. In turn, she caresses my cock gently. She can bring me to the edge and then will pause to kiss me.
The finish starts with her giving me a handjob -- slowly -- and then using her fingers to rub me between the base of my cock and my anus. I jerk myself off and she loves to watch as I spurt. We both agree that the overall pleasure and the intensity of our orgasms are much better than when we did a little foreplay and then fucked.
The finish starts with her giving me a handjob -- slowly -- and then using her fingers to rub me between the base of my cock and my anus. I jerk myself off and she loves to watch as I spurt. We both agree that the overall pleasure and the intensity of our orgasms are much better than when we did a little foreplay and then fucked.
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My wife and I started mutually masturbating together a few years ago. We are mid 60's. It is awsome! I tried to get my wife do it years ago and she wouldn't. Once she tried it though, she loves it and says she is sorry we didn't do it earlier. We enjoy it more than full sex. We still do full sex once in a while, but not very often. Masturbating together is more fun and relaxing.jimmyl55 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 08, 2024 5:16 pm I'm now 72 and my wife is 69. I can't say enough about how mutual masturbation has boosted our sex lives. Months ago, my wife began finding intercourse too painful.
We both agree that the overall pleasure and the intensity of our orgasms are much better than when we did a little foreplay and then fucked.
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The wife and I have really got into mutual masturbation lately, although she still likes to take my cum up the ass or cunt occasionally. Usually I’ll eat her out until she cums or (more often) she or I will get her there with the vibrator. My god, she cums so hard! After she’s done I usually get my cock totally slick with pre-cum and lube and jack off hard and juicily all over her dense cunt hair.