Were you taught?

[love2edge]

Definitely self taught...

[100878cjb]

I would like to hear about your experiences.

I’d love to hear your experience with your dad and brother. Send me a message.

[100878cjb]

I was taught by my older cousin. I think I was 10 and he was just entering puberty. He was staying with my family for several weeks in the summer and my dad let us use our camper for sleeping since it was larger than my bedroom. The very first night we stayed up late and talked about our cocks. By the end of the week he taught me to stroke him off. I am pretty sure that I gave him his first orgasm because he panicked just as he was about to cum. Two years later I behaved exactly the same way when my best friend was stroking my erection. Just as I was awash in waves of pleasure I panicked because I thought that I was about to piss. I finally realized why my cousin behaved the way that he did.

What else did he all teach you? I’d love to hear more. Send me a Message.

[ladyaj]

I had played by myself a little since i'd first felt that pleasurable tingle down there, but not properly masturbated.
It wasn't until I was having a sleepover with an older cousin that I was shown what to do. I'd mentioned to her about what I felt and she said it was all perfectly normal, and actually something to have fun with.
She asked me if it was OK if she showed me what she did so I could learn to do it myself. So I watched her do her thing, then I mirrored her and my first mini orgasm.

[iluvgirls]

She asked me if it was OK if she showed me what she did so I could learn to do it myself. So I watched her do her thing, then I mirrored her and my first mini orgasm.

That's really cool! Getting personal instruction must have been such a fun experience

[mash2014]

One day grabbed myself and rubbed. It wasn't taught, it was nature taking over.

[crystalvalley]

Although it’s kind of messed up how I was taught because of my age at the time, but I am a female and was taught by an older female cousin. I was so young but I do remember bit and pieces of having sex and masturbating with her regularly and since then I have masturbated, frequently.

[robbiedonatra]

I was tought by my brothers and all being very close in age the 4 of us openly wank together and tried different techniques together etc and I remember being in some kind of swimming class and the instructor was quite young.
She said to us that she's seen it all before and not to be embarrassed just because she's a woman.
As we were changing she would walk about watching us and at the end had us all line up.
She pulled about 15 boys out of line and said go to the pool and wait on the sides with Mrs. Watkins and the girls.
That left about 6 of us in line still, she said to us "boys I can see noticeable tents in your shorts are you wearing correct shorts with the netting?" we all said yes and she came up the line pulling the waistband out and looking in to the shorts exposing our cocks.
She wasn't happy that our hard cocks were so visable and that it wasn't acceptable to be in that state in a public pool around the girls.
We were told to come round to the showers and take care of it.
I didn't really know what she meant but my mate said she wants us to wank til we go soft.
She stood there and watched us wank off looking at the different ways we were doing it until we shot our loads and our dicks were soft in our swimshorts again.
As I passed her she chuckled saying you are Jack's brother right, I guess she noticed my brothers wank technique.

[svengalideck]

Nothing at all. Learned from a porn mag I found as a kid, that was hidden in dad’s garage. We jerked off a few times together years later, but learned all by myself

Without a mass of detail, no not taught, directly anyway.
As I've responded elsewhere, surprisingly when young and in the 60s I found my parents quite open about nudity and happily appearing underclothed at home and select times at beaches.

My father and mother both read the tabloid magazines from the UK, todays equivalent of todays US TV softcore comedy porn I guess- titillating articles interspersed with semi-nude girlie photos. I'd flip though them too- probably tanks and trains were more my genre than girls. But I did notice the great bra and underwear ads!

Following on from that my dad brought home a procession of military type novels and comics, lots of comics, he traded with other guys. He'd sometimes rag me about something I was reading, but he knew. because he'd been in the military, that I was also interested in WWII.

Edge forward a few months perhaps, and a parcel of books came as a present. Must have been about 12 now. Several of the books were quite topical and even though some of the language was beyond me, I understood fraternising with women in a bar. What followed were several descriptions of sexual encounters that one day, gave me those 'tinglings'.

I connected some comments I'd overheard at school about 'beating it', and when I discovered my first erection happening while reading I knew I had to try. It wasn't the same day as parents weren't absent long, but when I knew they were going out on a long shop Saturday, I was straight back to the same passage in the book!

Having about 2-3 hours alone I knew all I had to do was not leave evidence. I also went outdoors and did some bike riding so I'd be marched off for a bath and could change and wash my underwear. After all the cum had to go somewhere and tissues were way ub the future! Kept that up both for 3 years and now, decades later, can still enjoy the feelings and memories.
sv

[svengalideck]

I was tought by my brothers ... I remember being in some kind of swimming class and the instructor was quite young.
... she said to us "boys I can see noticeable tents in your shorts are you wearing correct shorts with the netting?" we all said yes and she came up the line pulling the waistband out and looking in to the shorts exposing our cocks.

That is such a nasty thing to do to horny young boys lusting over her body (I presume)- wish it were me!

I'd had one close encounter with a local man who worked at a nearby factory. I was trespassing I suppose, and he warned me it was dangerous near the factory. He was very pleasant and gave me a drink I think as we sat on boxes in the sun. I was in shorts while he was in overalls. He asked about me and I was happy to tell him stuff.

He wasn't scary or abusive. Before I left he came closer to me and gave me a 'guy' hug, just an arm around the shoulders and patted my bare skinny legs. He said he'd keep some lunch for me next time which wasn't really necessary but I thanked him and left.
sv

[mountain]

I worked during the summer school vacations in a carpentry shop when I was 12 years old, I helped a worker who was 6 years older than me and we went to the newly built houses to install the kitchen cabinets. One day I was alone with the guy, so after finishing the installation of the cabinet he asked me do you know how to masturbate? I told him no, what is masturbation? so immediately he got his pant off, and his semi-erected cock popped off his boxer. It was the first time I watched a big and thick penis. Then he grabbed his cock in his hand and showed me how to rub and stroke it. He started stroking in front of me, and after a few minutes, he cum and squirted a few feets in front of me.
I wondered what he is doing and ran off the kitchen. later he came after me and said it is a natural behavior and told me to practice when I go home.
When I got home I did the same as he did and I got a few drops of precum for the first time. Since that event, I have masturbated for more than 60 years, and more than 24000 times. It is astonishing !!!

[love2squirt]

Mickyy wrote:
> No, I had to learn things all on my own.
> All of you are soo darn lucky!
>
> I would have loved to have someone teach me what to do, and I am fortunate
> enough to have a mother who encouraged me from time to time, but learning
> how to orgasm was all mine.
>
> I'd love to hear stories of what others have done to learn as well and
> teach about this.
> Either here or via PM would be nice.
I would love to tell you all about it Mickyy please contact me.

[love2squirt]

I was and also taught would love to tell you all about it.

[eastbaycal925]

I was taught by my older brother. He would sneak in my room at night when I was 12 and he was 16 and work his hand under my covers and under my underwear waistband and make me hard. He would stroke and suck me until I came.

[iamnaked]

I think I was nine. My mom always took me in the shower with her and bathed me. At some point I started getting erect. The first time was after she dried me off. For as long as I can remember she rubbed skin lotion all over me. Then one day she put some lotion in her hands and stroked me until I ejaculated. I watched all this and was so surprised when she said I could do this anytime I liked and added it was good for me.
She kept taking baths and showers with me until I was 13 or 14 but with us being nudists it was all good anyways.
I remember the occasional shower with mom when I was 16 and 17 but we never had sex or anything.
So I was taught, but I bet I would have figured it out on my own at the same age anyway.

[fireaxe14]

I had the great fortune to be taught by an older male mentor friend, all about self stroking pleasures and how to give a great HJ. I really learned a lot about my sexuality for over 2 years!
Best time of my early life!
Paul

[wanklover]

I think a lot of both men & women from my generation (Born in the 1950's) were never taught about masturbation. I am totally self taught. Got my first erection in the middle of the night at age 13. From waking up with a hard on to wanking my cock took no more than 5 minutes. For years I had no idea what is was I was doing nor what it was called, just knew how wonderful it was to hold my hard shaft in my hand and pull it up & down and as for an orgasm OMG complete ecstasy !!

[hiimdave]

I was and also taught would love to tell you all about it.

I would look be to hear all about it... I taught my younger cousin but we lost touch over the years, I often wonder if it turns her on as much as it does me when I think back on our childhood

[footlover28]

Not exactly. My first orgasm was laying on my belly, naked from the waist down with my penis poking down between my legs. After I came the first time like that, I kept trying to replicate the same feeling, hoping it would 'tickle' again. Eventually I moved on to rubbing it back and forth between both hands, like trying to start a fire with a stick. I did it that way for a good amount of time until I was about 13 and my cousin brought over a porn tape he had and I saw a guy in it stroking himself. I then realized 'oh...THAT'S how you do it'.

[mdbaterguy]

I figured out the basics on my own. Just instinctual and precocious. I started discovering the amazing sensations around 4, but several years later a family member taught me more techniques and group bating.