Secrets you hide from your wife or husband.

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latinababii
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My bf doesn’t know any of these..

While I was in HS my little brother helped me cum once. Injury prevented me using my hands.

I got a happy ending massage from a female masseuse

Sucked a co-workers dick multiple times and let him cum in my mouth. Kissed my bf after getting home.

Have multiple online accounts where I sext and trade pics with strangers

Really want to go to a nude beach but don’t know any around

I’m a closet slut basically
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I love my wife, but I've always had a need for sexual outlets beyond her.

She knows I've had affairs with women and I know that she has had her own extramarital lovers. We sort of have an unspoken acceptance of this.

There is a whole world of other sexual secrets that I choose not to share with her (although I have shared with lovers). Part of me doesn't like having secrets but the wiser part of me knows that almost EVERYONE has their secrets (even if its just secret fantasies) and its better that way:
  • - that I masturbate as much as I do and tried all sorts of things while I jack off (for example, I often like to eat my cum after I ejaculate).
    - that I have explored all manner of porn and that I like watching male-male and trans porn and really like watching videos of men (and she-males) jacking off (basically anyone with a cock blasting a load.)
    - that I sometimes walk to the mailbox, take out garbage and do other things outside nude (including jacking off).
    - that I am an exhibitionist and have masturbated in public places many times, sometimes discretely because I was horny, but other times in places for the thrill of close calls or hoping to be seen by passing women (for example, parked in my car).
    - that I had a few experiences with other boys (long before any experiences with girls) when I was a tween/young teen, just fondling and touching penises, and that my bi-curiosity re-emerged as an adult, mainly wanting to touch and fondle hard adult cocks and jack off with men, but also with an, as yet, unfulfilled strong desire to provide pleasure to other men by jacking them off (or maybe even sucking them off).
    - that I have gone to Adult Book Stores and Porn Theaters over the years to masturbate. As I have gotten older, instead of trying for the riskier thrill of masturbation for anonymous women in public, I now like to go to satisfy my exhibitionistic desire to expose my penis and be seen jacking off openly for other men.
    - that I also like going to these adult establishments when I sometimes have the urge to see and touch other men's cocks and engage in mutual masturbation with men).
The list goes on, but for the most part the fantasies and experiences I write about on ST are secrets that I keep from her, although I get off sharing here and with a few (very few) select accepting friends.
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My wife doesn’t know how much I masturbate, which is nearly every day I can, even if I don’t necessarily cum. Or that I sometimes get excitement out of wearing women’s panties and bras under my normal typically male clothes when I go out to do errands on days when she’s working. Or that I love anal dildos (I try to encourage her to finger my butt during foreplay but she seems reluctant), or that I sometimes edge for hours when I’m alone. Or that I sometimes sniff her worn panties, or swipe a pair of her panties and use them to wear while stroking or use their exquisite softness to stroke with and cum into (I wash them before I return them … if I return them). Or that I sometimes get off deepthroating a dildo, or that I fantasize about deepthroating a real cock. Or that I’ve experimented with just about every safe object in my room up my butt or that I could stick my dick into. Or that I look at porn a lot. Or that if I masturbate in bed after she’s gone to sleep I sometimes rub some of my cum on her body as I cuddle up to her afterwards.
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The Mrs doesn’t know I’m on here and doesn’t know how often I masturbate (daily). She also doesn’t know that I have a bi side and that I fooled around a lot with my brother. Lastly, I have lots of fantasies about her mom. Shhhhh ;)
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brooker wrote: Tue Sep 11, 2018 6:10 am My wife doesn't know that when I go for my regular massage about once a month the main reason is that I get to suck my masseur's cock. It all started out innocently enough but during my third visit I was horny and I got a hard on. Adam just took care of it for me with an expert hand job and very quickly I blew my load in his hand. He was hard in his pants by then so I reached out to reciprocate. I used my hands at first but pulled him close enough to take him in my mouth. I got down on the floor in front of him for a better angle and very quickly he came in my throat.
It's the way of it now, I get my massage, both of us naked, then we get each other off but my way for him is the kneeling blow job. I so look forward to it. If he asked me, I'd let him fuck me.
Mmmmm thats sooo fucking hot!!!
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My husband doesn’t know that I desperately want to have a nipple play with another woman, and then I literally crave having another woman’s nipples in my mouth. He also doesn’t know that I love the idea of two straight married guys secretly sucking each other’s cocks. I masturbate to these things nearly daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Its how i ended up in here, I love to be able to talk about these things and actually say them in a way. Plus reading everybody else’s fantasies and stories really helps to get me turned on, I love to spend hours just rubbing my nipples and reading all the naughty things that people do. he doesn’t know that either lol
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fnippleluvr wrote: Mon Oct 10, 2022 5:26 pm My husband doesn’t know that I desperately want to have a nipple play with another woman, and then I literally crave having another woman’s nipples in my mouth. He also doesn’t know that I love the idea of two straight married guys secretly sucking each other’s cocks. I masturbate to these things nearly daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Its how i ended up in here, I love to be able to talk about these things and actually say them in a way. Plus reading everybody else’s fantasies and stories really helps to get me turned on, I love to spend hours just rubbing my nipples and reading all the naughty things that people do. he doesn’t know that either lol
All Sounds sooo sexy...pls cum share and masturbate with us...me ;)
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stroke2 wrote: Tue Oct 11, 2022 2:07 pm ...pls cum share and masturbate with us...me ;)
Me too!
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These are all just so hot. Long gone are the days of sleeping around while on the road but I find myself lost edging for hours while in a hotel room. Flipping through chat sites and occasionally finding a girl to masturbate with on line for a minute or two. My wife does know that I masturbate but does not know that I am on this site.
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In our early years of marriage, we would openly talk about who we’d fuck. She would tell me about men she would definitely fuck and I would tell her about women I would fuck, which included a couple of her closest friends. But as we aged that became a subject that we wouldn’t talk about. I still secretly lust for some of her friends and other women for which I masturbate constantly. She has no idea that I enjoy watching her fuck with another man. That has been a fantasy that I've had for over 25 years.
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latinababii wrote: Mon Aug 08, 2022 8:30 pm My bf doesn’t know any of these..

While I was in HS my little brother helped me cum once. Injury prevented me using my hands.

I got a happy ending massage from a female masseuse

Sucked a co-workers dick multiple times and let him cum in my mouth. Kissed my bf after getting home.

Have multiple online accounts where I sext and trade pics with strangers

Really want to go to a nude beach but don’t know any around

I’m a closet slut basically
I got so turned on about your little brother making you cum. I'd like to have details.

I also have multiple accounts where I enjoy being hit by men thinking I'm a woman.

I would love to openly masturbate to either men or women.

I am also a closet slut/pervert.
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My porn collection on an encrypted USB drive.
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mash2014 wrote: Wed Oct 26, 2022 3:34 am
latinababii wrote: Mon Aug 08, 2022 8:30 pm My bf doesn’t know any of these..

While I was in HS my little brother helped me cum once. Injury prevented me using my hands.

I got a happy ending massage from a female masseuse

Sucked a co-workers dick multiple times and let him cum in my mouth. Kissed my bf after getting home.

Have multiple online accounts where I sext and trade pics with strangers

Really want to go to a nude beach but don’t know any around

I’m a closet slut basically
I got so turned on about your little brother making you cum. I'd like to have details.

I also have multiple accounts where I enjoy being hit by men thinking I'm a woman.

I would love to openly masturbate to either men or women.

I am also a closet slut/pervert.

Send me a PM I’ll happily fill you in
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My wife does not know:

- how much I masturbate (she thinks I do it weekly, but in fact it is daily)
- that my best orgasms and pleasure have been result of masturbation
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wheelboy2 wrote: Sat Jul 16, 2022 2:38 am
echocorner wrote: Wed Sep 01, 2021 10:46 am My wife has grown increasingly prudish in recent years and I rarely get to share any of my sexual fantasies or thoughts with her. As a consequence there's quite a few things she doesn't know about me sexually.
First, and most obviously, she isn't aware I talk about my fantasies on forums like this.
She is unaware that I often masturbate outdoors in secluded areas of parks and woodland.
I've never let her know that I had a brief relationship with another man before we met.
She doesn't know I regularly fantasise about her sister and wank over her pics all the time.
And she doesn't know I've occasionally got other guys to jerk off over her NN pics.
OMG Echo you sound much like me. My wife and I don't fuck anymore and she won't talk about sex at all - not one word. I have fantasies and thoughts too but there is zero chance we can talk about them. So there is lots she doesn't know bout me - the forums I talk on, masturbating outdoors, walking around with my cock and balls out (usually hidden by a t-shirt).
I masturbate on bike rides into parks and woodland. I ride with cock and balls out. I wash my car like that too.
I'd dearly like to masturbate with another man (or woman!!) and talk about sex in all its forms.
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I have married my wife for more than 45 years, and I have masturbated almost every day, but she has not known until a few years ago. She doesn't know I have masturbated somehow like 24000 times since I was 12, and I have done around 12000 times after marrying her. Lol... Now she tries to help me while I jack off.
I have tried to talk to her about my masturbation addiction, but she has never been interested to hear about it, so I preferred to hide it.
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Possibly the most exciting thread on here:::::::::

I love the detail from both guys and fems- we all know that girls/women often get the 'itch' and that if uncontrolled (for anyone) it can lead to mischief!

However in a controlled fashion, it is also a powerful aphrodisiac that can enhance relationships.
My last, whilst sexually active at home, also had exhibitionist fantasies that we didn't quite get around to procuring.

I'd have gladly supped [someones] cum from her pert ass cheeks, rigid nipples and possible eaten a creampie from her. She wanted bukkake in our fantasies, and I'm openminded enough to not only indulge her, but myself, in her orgasmic games of pleasures.

:P :oops: :o
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My wife knows nothing about my bi-side (that I have sucked a guy off and want to do so again, and really want to have a guy fuck my ass), the frequency that I masturbate (every day multiple times, though often not to orgasm), the many places that I have masturbated, that I participate on SoloTouch and other web sites, that I love to watch porn videos, that I have a secret stash of pictures of me nude (and sometimes share them with my friends on here) and videos of me masturbating and that am way more of sn exhibitionist than she thinks.
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My wife doesn't know of
  • my extensive history of female partners, including from other races
  • that I've gone to adult bookstores and XXX-rated theaters to masturbate as other men watched me
  • that I've gotten blowjobs from men at these places
  • that when our marriage went sexless I returned periodically to these places to get sucked
  • that she was not even in the top ten of best sex partners that I've had
and
  • that I've had two extra-marital affairs during our marriage.
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satyrx wrote: Tue Sep 11, 2018 9:47 pm Pretty much everything. My wife is a wonderful lady and I would never betray her with another woman but her sexual preferences have always been very bland. My more exciting games have always been solo.
This is me.
My wife made me promise to not have any full on affairs.
She said a fuck buddy was ok and meeting up to get off was ok but no serious affairs.
She became disabled long ago and knew I’d need sex she could not give me. She knows of my exhibitionist activities and likes to hear some of my stories. But wants no part in it.

She does not know I like to let guys have their way with me.
She does not know I am submissive and like to do what ever I’m told.

She does not know I’ve hitch hiked naked many times or how often I’m nude in public.
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