I saw a post here called "Wish my dad taught me." My fantasy wish is different: I wish my mom taught me. I recently read a novel in which the mother shows the son how it's done and then watches him to make sure he does it properly and regularly.
I was close to my mom (no longer alive). She taught me many things. If we were to strip away some of the taboos in society now, I could see masturbation as one of those learning experiences a mom could pass on to her son. In my fantasy, my mom not only teaches me, but also educates me (in words) how a man can please a woman. By having my fantasy-mom teach me, I don't suffer any of the lingering guilt I felt when I masturbated solo in my early years (moral baggage from the 60s...). Instead, I see from my mother's help that masturbating is a natural and wholesome act in which to indulge. The fantasy just has her assisting and watching and the pleasure and fulfillment would be wonderful. No more than that...
This is a just a fantasy of mine. Anybody else care to share their thoughts on this?
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I too cane from a old fashioned family, now my mom once told me she wished that her mom would
have told her about sex, so maybe since it is 2016 and not the 20th century ( mom teaching son how to
masterbate ) is okay and letting son see and exam her nude body even a touch of nipples to me I think is okay.
Dad's should also take son and show him the ropes of self pleasure, it is safe, healthy, clean, gosh dang it feels great.
have told her about sex, so maybe since it is 2016 and not the 20th century ( mom teaching son how to
masterbate ) is okay and letting son see and exam her nude body even a touch of nipples to me I think is okay.
Dad's should also take son and show him the ropes of self pleasure, it is safe, healthy, clean, gosh dang it feels great.
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Re: Wish my mom taught me
I now know and accept that I'm hypersexual, but I was so conflicted about it while growing up. I spent years obsessing about what it would be like to have my mom 'cure' my painfully stiff cock by bringing me off. When I started to leak precum (and it happened to me early), I thought I had a disease. I was so scared, but showing her my taut, leaking cock is still one of my hottest memories.
I'm sure I would have been less confused and desperate with her help than I was without it. Anything would have been better than being left in the dark. I'm lucky a male teacher saw how desperate I was and trained me to masturbate so that I felt properly satisfied, even if only for a while.
That's why I try to be there for my own sons, one of whom also seems to be hypersexual.
I'm sure I would have been less confused and desperate with her help than I was without it. Anything would have been better than being left in the dark. I'm lucky a male teacher saw how desperate I was and trained me to masturbate so that I felt properly satisfied, even if only for a while.
That's why I try to be there for my own sons, one of whom also seems to be hypersexual.
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I am so envious of all the people on here that claim one or both of their parents or their sisters had taught them to masturbate. I grew up in a very sexually repressive and prudish household so sex was never discussed and masturbation was thought of as taboo. The closest I came to anything like that was on a few occasions I had to have my mother or older sister help me when I got my penis caught in my zipper. Needless to say those were not pleasurable experiences.
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Re: Wish my mom taught me
When we are young we receive positive direction from our parents that sets our values. Looking back I think they knew I was masturbating because when I turned 13 I started to take long baths and showers. And it is what male teens do. Sometimes I think it would be awesome to have masturbation accepted where Mom would casually ask JR if he masturbated today, because it is good for you. Like eating your spinach. But no, sex was never discussed and my Mom would go through my dresser looking for porn mags.
So I made my own values, and decided I liked it so much that it was right and nothing wrong with it. But I did not say anything to my son's even though I knew they were masturbating. Taking those long showers, occasionally finding a nudie mag. Because I did not want to intrude. I kept waiting for the questions but was never asked. I got a different vibe from my Mom, like it was disgusting but they had to tolerate.
So I made my own values, and decided I liked it so much that it was right and nothing wrong with it. But I did not say anything to my son's even though I knew they were masturbating. Taking those long showers, occasionally finding a nudie mag. Because I did not want to intrude. I kept waiting for the questions but was never asked. I got a different vibe from my Mom, like it was disgusting but they had to tolerate.
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My mom didn't teach me to masturbate, but she did talk to me about it and tell me I should do it, that it would be good for me. Hippie sexual liberation parents, so everything was extremely out in the open. She told me about how it feels good. I have no doubt that if I asked her to show me, she would have. I think she probably would even have touched my pussy if I had asked her to show me what to do.
I think she would have done these things because she always talked about my older brother, who is 10 years older than me and was very, very shy and awkward growing up. He's a big smart nerd, and he had some anxiety issues, and he never had any girlfriends until he was 19 and started sleeping with this 33-year-old friend of the family. Growing up, I remember my mom talking about him, about how she felt bad for him and thought maybe she needed to help him out. I didn't totally realize what she meant until I was older, but one day she was talking to me about it, and I realized that she meant she wondered if she should help my brother out by fucking him. Maybe my mom thought I was finally old enough to talk details, so she said she always thought maybe she could have helped him feel more comfortable if she showed him how to make a woman come. She said she thought maybe if he got used to how his prick felt inside a pussy, he might last longer when he finally got to fuck another woman. She was worried that he was so old that women wouldn't expect him to be so inexperienced, so she thought maybe she could help him learn.
I don't remember what I said--just that I was both kind of freaked out and kind of turned on by the idea. That scenario figured heavily in my masturbation fantasies for a while after that conversation. I'd think about my mom going to my brother and showing him how to finger her and eat her out, about her straddling him and lowering her pussy down onto his dick and fucking him over and over until he got used to it. Sometimes I'd fantasize about stumbling across them and watching, fingering my pussy while I watch, and then they see me, and we all watch each other. I still fantasize about all of it occasionally, to be honest.
I think she would have done these things because she always talked about my older brother, who is 10 years older than me and was very, very shy and awkward growing up. He's a big smart nerd, and he had some anxiety issues, and he never had any girlfriends until he was 19 and started sleeping with this 33-year-old friend of the family. Growing up, I remember my mom talking about him, about how she felt bad for him and thought maybe she needed to help him out. I didn't totally realize what she meant until I was older, but one day she was talking to me about it, and I realized that she meant she wondered if she should help my brother out by fucking him. Maybe my mom thought I was finally old enough to talk details, so she said she always thought maybe she could have helped him feel more comfortable if she showed him how to make a woman come. She said she thought maybe if he got used to how his prick felt inside a pussy, he might last longer when he finally got to fuck another woman. She was worried that he was so old that women wouldn't expect him to be so inexperienced, so she thought maybe she could help him learn.
I don't remember what I said--just that I was both kind of freaked out and kind of turned on by the idea. That scenario figured heavily in my masturbation fantasies for a while after that conversation. I'd think about my mom going to my brother and showing him how to finger her and eat her out, about her straddling him and lowering her pussy down onto his dick and fucking him over and over until he got used to it. Sometimes I'd fantasize about stumbling across them and watching, fingering my pussy while I watch, and then they see me, and we all watch each other. I still fantasize about all of it occasionally, to be honest.
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Closest I got was when I was 9 and got BAD poison ivy all over, including my penis. My mom had me shower and then she lay me on my bed and rubbed ointment all over, including my penis, which got hard. I remember how great it felt. When I hit puberty and my buddy taught me how to jack off, I used to do it thinking about that time and wishing she'd put ointment on me again.