Not sure if I should consider myself bi or straight ...

[mistergb]

Guys can you give me your opinion on this ? I labelled myself bi but in all honesty I am not sure if I should. I only had sexual relationship with girls. I get aroused by girls and I can only imagine myself having sex with girls, however, I like the idea of masturbating with other guys and if I see porn of straight guys doing a circle jerk or masturbating together it does make me hard and want to masturbate as well. When I masturbate most of the time it is in front of straight porn but occasionally I did masturbate at video of guys jerking off together and it did make me cum. Now what makes it not so black or white is that once it is guys doing more than jerking off , like a blow job or penetration, a hand job or even a mouth to mouth kiss it turns me off completely. I also never imagine myself having sex with another guy , I'm only interested in sex with girls but jerking off with other straight guys is a strange turn on as well It is so confusing. Does someone else feel the same way ? Can we even call this bi- curious when what turns me on is only masturbation with the same sex and nothing more ?

[mash2014]

Guys can you give me your opinion on this ? I labelled myself bi but in all honesty I am not sure if I should. I only had sexual relationship with girls. I get aroused by girls and I can only imagine myself having sex with girls, however, I like the idea of masturbating with other guys and if I see porn of straight guys doing a circle jerk or masturbating together it does make me hard and want to masturbate as well. When I masturbate most of the time it is in front of straight porn but occasionally I did masturbate at video of guys jerking off together and it did make me cum. Now what makes it not so black or white is that once it is guys doing more than jerking off , like a blow job or penetration, a hand job or even a mouth to mouth kiss it turns me off completely. I also never imagine myself having sex with another guy , I'm only interested in sex with girls but jerking off with other straight guys is a strange turn on as well It is so confusing. Does someone else feel the same way ? Can we even call this bi- curious when what turns me on is only masturbation with the same sex and nothing more ?

You’re ok. Sexuality is a spectrum. On one end you have absolute Homosexuality while on the opposite end, you have absolute heterosexuality. But there are no absolutes so every one of us living persons are somewhere in between those ends. Straight people will admire the opposite sex but will also find some attraction from the same sex. You might find a man attractive or you desire to masturbate or be masturbated by someone of your same gender.
I feel very attracted to women, I would say I think 99.9% of the time inwomen, masturbate at the sight of them but I have felt attracted to certain men. I have wished to do things with other men. I have had sexual contact with other men without penetration, and masturbate thinking of men.
One day I found the following text and I felt the pieces of the puzzle making sense in my life.

HETEROFLEXIBLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.

[mash2014]

Guys can you give me your opinion on this ? I labelled myself bi but in all honesty I am not sure if I should. I only had sexual relationship with girls. I get aroused by girls and I can only imagine myself having sex with girls, however, I like the idea of masturbating with other guys and if I see porn of straight guys doing a circle jerk or masturbating together it does make me hard and want to masturbate as well. When I masturbate most of the time it is in front of straight porn but occasionally I did masturbate at video of guys jerking off together and it did make me cum. Now what makes it not so black or white is that once it is guys doing more than jerking off , like a blow job or penetration, a hand job or even a mouth to mouth kiss it turns me off completely. I also never imagine myself having sex with another guy , I'm only interested in sex with girls but jerking off with other straight guys is a strange turn on as well It is so confusing. Does someone else feel the same way ? Can we even call this bi- curious when what turns me on is only masturbation with the same sex and nothing more ?

You’re ok. Sexuality is a spectrum. On one end you have absolute Homosexuality while on the opposite end, you have absolute heterosexuality. But there are no absolutes so every one of us living persons are somewhere in between those ends. Straight people will admire the opposite sex but will also find some attraction from the same sex. You might find a man attractive or you desire to masturbate or be masturbated by someone of your same gender.
I feel very attracted to women, I would say I think 99.9% of the time inwomen, masturbate at the sight of them but I have felt attracted to certain men. I have wished to do things with other men. I have had sexual contact with other men without penetration, and masturbate thinking of men.
One day I found the following text and I felt the pieces of the puzzle making sense in my life.

[mistergb]

Thanks Your post was actually enlightning

[rathb69]

You’re ok. Sexuality is a spectrum. On one end you have absolute Homosexuality while on the opposite end, you have absolute heterosexuality. But there are no absolutes so every one of us living persons are somewhere in between those ends. Straight people will admire the opposite sex but will also find some attraction from the same sex. You might find a man attractive or you desire to masturbate or be masturbated by someone of your same gender.
I feel very attracted to women, I would say I think 99.9% of the time inwomen, masturbate at the sight of them but I have felt attracted to certain men. I have wished to do things with other men. I have had sexual contact with other men without penetration, and masturbate thinking of men.
One day I found the following text and I felt the pieces of the puzzle making sense in my life.

HETEROFLEXIBLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.

I agree that sexuality is a spectrum or scale and we probably all fall on different parts of the spectrum at different times in our life, based on different circumstances or even mood. I don't find labels useful.

In the definition of heteroflexible above, for me the parts about attraction, "being with" someone of the same sex, or romance don't apply. What does apply is that after being curious enough to want to grope a few other boys dicks as a teen and hearing about female friends same sex experiences as an adult, I felt like maybe I was missing out on some fun.

So in middle age I decided to satisfy my curiousity and instead of jacking off alone in ABS booths, I went one day intent on doing something with another man. I let a man come into my booth, at first just so he could watch me jacking off, but he asked if he could stroke my cock, so I let it happen. Once into it, and feeling surprisingly at ease, I really, really wanted to see and feel his penis. He unzipped and pulled it out and after more than almost 30 years I found myself stroking/fondling a penis like I did once as a young teen. The whole experience was so arousing because it was taboo and out of character for me and I knew I was going to tell a close female friend about it, that I ended by jacking off and having an explosive orgasm. In my super excited state I was hoping he would also bring himself to orgasm and ejaculate on me, but he just thanked me, zipped up and left.

I enjoyed the above experience so much that I have since sometimes looked for situations to repeat the experience, that is is wanting to mutually masturbate with other men and openly jack off with men watching; just recreational in nature. One man wanted to kiss, a couple men have wanted me to fuck them, and quite a few men have wanted to suck my cock. Although I let one man briefly suck me out of curiosity, none of this more intimate stuff really interests me (so far).

Recently at a porn theater after mutual cock play with a young man, he asked me to cum on his face, which I obliged. It rekindled my secret desire to have another man (or men) ejaculate on me. I will also confess (in spite of my comment above aout more intimate stuff) that I do fantasize about pleasuring another man by sucking his cock until he rewards my efforts with pulses of warm, creamy semen into my mouth.

[wanklover]

I am a heterosexual. I have never been gay, bi nor even bi curious. However I have jerked with other ST members on cam. I find it exciting, therapeutically stimulating and I much enjoy the companionship. Although it's never going to happen now I would even consider taking part in a circle jerk as long as we jerked ourselves and not each other. I would however much prefer a circle masturbation session with equal numbers of both men & women.